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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: Trypto-Fan] 1
#28089636 - 12/09/22 12:14 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Trypto-Fan said: Why do you think there are so many incels / MRA / MGTOW etc these days? Certainly wasn't a thing in the 80s/90s/00s Could it perhaps be a symptom of a sick society? And when people call out the problems, this is your response.
Oh man, long story short, it's late-stage capitalism.
Folks in my generation graduated out into a recession, and then the pandemic. Options are shrinking, a lot of folks stuck working less then min wage in gig work. There are a lot more young people moving back home, which isn't great for forming relationships. When you're stuck in your parents basement with no hope for a future, why not spend 8 bucks on a fantasy for a minute? Why are girls working on onlyfans? Because it (appears to be) a quick way to make a buck, and girls gotta pay rent too.
Incels etc are a reaction to this instability/economic uncertainty, except they funnel it through misogyny to explain why their lives suck. The loneliness of men is a real issue though. Men definitely have a harder time forming close relationships. If the world felt less competitive maybe it would be easier.
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: Trypto-Fan] 3
#28090908 - 12/09/22 08:04 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Roflspammer said: Society is not sick. Society has enough technology now so that humanity is broadcasting to your smartphone. I appreciate your idealistic values but I also appreciate that people are going to monetize themselves; no amount of legislation is going to correct what is a fundamental human behavior.
Selling porn is not a fundamental human behaviour.
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: koods]
#28091178 - 12/09/22 11:20 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Trypto-Fan said: Selling porn is not a fundamental human behaviour.

Early porn sales cut out the middle man. There was no money, so they just went right to trading pictures of sex for sex.
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: CreonAntigone] 3
#28093038 - 12/11/22 08:20 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Sex work is literally the oldest profession in the book.
If women want to empower themselves sexually, who the fuck is gonna be the dumbfuck to say they can't?
Don't be a simp OP
It's totally fine to be sexually open.
Not all of us are mormons
It just sounds like jealously to me
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: Roflspammer] 1
#28093277 - 12/11/22 11:52 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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My evidence is that people can live in solitude for years without human contact and not feel lonely.
Very often people are blindly ignorant of their suffering.
Many folks die without ever knowing the nature of misery.
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#28105128 - 12/19/22 05:39 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I prefer the homemade or lesbian porn, it feels more real.
I enjoy lesbian porn that soft and gentle and sweet.
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#28105154 - 12/19/22 05:51 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Me too!!!!!!!! It is my go to. My favorite!!!!!!
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: TrancedOutBrah]
#28105156 - 12/19/22 05:53 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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LOVE this response and agree with it!
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: Trypto-Fan]
#28110199 - 12/23/22 05:15 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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How do you save posts on this site? I want to reply later lol
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: CreonAntigone]
#28110791 - 12/24/22 08:24 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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CreonAntigone said: You're ok consuming the exploitation of sex workers, but you're just not ok paying. So do you think stealing the work done by sex workers is any more ethical?

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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28113750 - 12/27/22 08:44 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: oursoulsinmotion]
#28113852 - 12/27/22 10:18 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I have a close friend that makes over 200K a year, started with cam then moved to Only Fans. She is married with kids. Has sex with her husband and never on camera. I never ask what exactly she does- no judgment by me. But she has told me some things. But I know she has never met anyone and everything is a solo act. Her husband is older, retired military and he is ok with it. Its a job. She makes a killing at it.
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: loladoreen]
#28113903 - 12/27/22 10:58 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Sex has been treated as a commodity for so long now and sex work is absolutely nothing new. The problem resides with how we have developed commodification of something that MUST be treated as such but also has become a whole other kind of animal.. By tht I mean, Like the issue the op has, ppl have developed a fucked relationship with sex. Either bc of their own rearing stigmatizing certain aspects or bc of the newly word associated "simp" mentality. Where now pussy has "power" and this power is held above normal man's head. Some to the point it is out of reach, or bastardized within the sense of the pussy holder knowing there is a weighted balance lying right between their legs. This develops anger and resentment towards the thing we "prize" enough so, thT individuals like op, are so incensed that they come here to post about how screwed up it is. The actual sex work is not screwed up, many of the ppl involved, however may be, but such is the status of Americans, mentally fucked... This has an effect on the people that feel the commodification has made sex aloof of them ND even elusive(when defining sex as an emotionally connected act between two ppl.) This is, in fact, quite elusive nowadays, but not simply bc of fucking Only fans. Its bc Americans minds are fuxked- each gender.. The best thing is ofc no judgement and to look at things as objectively as possible. Onlyfans is simply new age sex work, often with some of the nastier parts removed As long as these ppl realize they are, in fact, sex workers.. the ppl being entertained realizing The same (which is part of the difficulty here, I must admit, with less and less humans capable or exposed to healthy emotional connection, thereby thirsting for it through these channels-creating an unhealthy environment for what is purely physical sex work). And those not involving themselves , to without judgment realize the same, sex work has always existed and this us just the evolution thereof. The problem here like with addiction is mental health. The subscribers are, unfortunately and oftentimes, not there purely for the physical, simple, sex (work) side, they become entangled and attached to some feigned emotional connection that they are so hungry for, and causes the whole thing to seem very distasteful. But all in all it is their decisi9n, and their responsibility to their own mental health, which is surely still in decline. This decline is where we need help, not sex-shaming a million workers who have found it atleast somewhat easy to use their body and attraction to increase their wealth and make their lives a bit easier. The same reason sex work has always existed.
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: ashfiken]
#28114013 - 12/27/22 12:52 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Good post. I agree. Somethings I didn't like in your post but.. they are true. There is a census that the pussy holds power.. but that is an individual thing. I have never acted like that or had a man I was in a relationship act like that. Your right it would cause major issues in any relationships as it does in society. But it is not everyone or even the majority. Even simp mentality... I think sex work should be legal. And we need to supply them with health insurance and contraceptives. Keep our world healthy. I try hard to not be judgemental but it really boils down to this puritan mindset and judging others. My friend... you would never know. But why would you stereotype that anyhow?
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: loladoreen]
#28114173 - 12/27/22 03:48 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Just ignore this guy
It sounds like my baby daddy bitching cause he is about to get his ass beat for doxing my nudes and shroomery posts to the Catholics and then getting fucked by rifka to try and keep the family secrets.
Such a hot mess.
I CANT HELP WHO I AM FOLKS. LITERALLY TESLA IS NOTHING BUT A GAY WOMAN BEATING CONTROLLING BREEDER AND I HAVE FOUND 9 kids so far I did not previously know about.
How many are left?
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: Jewstress]
#28114351 - 12/27/22 06:03 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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...Wuh?
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: Trypto-Fan]
#28114859 - 12/28/22 09:02 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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soya munching betas. real men keep their dignity. women rightly abuse the soyboys. shekels for desperation. no matter how much money a beta hands to a woman she will always leave for an alpha, who she will then seek to change, or a sigma who will do what he pleases and no doubt has a string of girls trying to get back with him. sigmas also only support their woman while she behaves, and only for reproductive purposes. any transgression and she is out. no fear of solitude is the sigma way.
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Re: Onlyfans & the normalisation of sex work has destroyed women. And men. [Re: drspastic] 1
#28114878 - 12/28/22 09:23 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Man that crap sounds good but it is definitely crap, these theories are made by and for soft-drink chugging, bald-spot-on-the-arm-hair wearing ninnies.
Cynicism seems the new naive sincerity, it's been reverse engineered, repackaged a billion different ways, and resold to us by coke-banging hooker-snorting marketeers since before any of us ever had the chance to develop the faculties required for critical analysis.
At the very least, from where I'm at, absurdism is more fun than nihilism. Thank you.
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