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Re: will my online friend ever meet me? [Re: Lynnch] * 1
    #28066870 - 11/24/22 01:09 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

I obviously don't have the full picture that you do OP, but from what you have said this dude sounds like he is leeching energy from you.  He seems to be getting everything he want but not giving you what you need.  It's doesn't seem to be a symbiotic relationship but more of a parasitic one.

Just remember that there is opportunity cost to putting energy into this relationship* that will likely not have the outcome you desire. 

*A lot of people are assuming the relationship is romantic in nature, but you haven't actually said that.


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Re: will my online friend ever meet me? [Re: schpat] * 2
    #28068236 - 11/25/22 03:50 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

11 fucking years. Wow.

He doesn’t want to meet you. Clearly you get something out of the relationship. If you cant reset your expectations, you need to stop communicating


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“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”


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Re: will my online friend ever meet me? [Re: koods]
    #28080219 - 12/02/22 07:17 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

thank you for the advice.

i would like to ask him to meet me.

he is hesitant, what strategies could i use to make him more comfortable with the idea of meeting me?

he is older, he has never met someone from the internet before.

thank you


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Re: will my online friend ever meet me? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28080570 - 12/02/22 10:44 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

He’s not hesitant. He’s not leading you on. He’s not playing games. He’s been very clear he doesn’t want to meet. Accept it, or move on.


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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”


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