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Anonymous #1
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Asking a girl out
#28077256 - 11/30/22 10:27 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Went into a corner store today and the girl there was cute, we chatted a bit, she did some of those girl body language things to show interest. And I pussed out.
I have been back at my parents house for a little over a year since being back from college and my dating/sex life has been nonexistent. I am in the process of relocating and getting my career job, but for now I am here and there is no way I can take a girl back. It messes with my confidence.
I want to go back and ask her out. Any advice on how to navigate.
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LogicaL Chaos
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I recommend "practicing" in any sort of similar situation you can. For example, going to the grocery store and going thru the check-out line with a pretty female cashier. And try talking with her such as complimenting her hair or clothing (no body compliments, too intimate!). Make conversation, small talk. When it comes to talking with women, practicing really helps and it will feel normal after awhile. And thats the kind of confidence you will need when you want to talk to that lady at the corner store.
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Anonymous #1
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what do i do about still being at the parents house? cant bring her back here
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LogicaL Chaos
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That may be a tough one. However, its not as a taboo as one might assume. Some women dont mind it and some even like it as it can show that you care about family, assuming your parents are well-behaved/enjoyable to be around. I wouldnt say its an automatic deal-breaker but really depends on the lady.
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
I want to go back and ask her out. Any advice on how to navigate.
Confidence is often important in attracting women. Confidence is a lack of fear. Look at your fear. Women can sense fear. Try to figure out how to not be afraid. (The reason jerks get more gals than the super nice guys is that jerks are usually not afraid. Women are attracted to that.)
Instead of fearing rejection, imagine the good that might come from putting yourself out there!
And never ever believe there is one & only one partner for you. That is a bad trap.
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Anonymous #2
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Ok, get over the "can't take a girl back to my parents' house" thing. It is an utterly normal thing to be doing at this phase of your life, and I'm pretty sure a girl who works at a corner store would be down. She canβt be making much money there, and is likely either in a similar situation or very uhderstanding of yours.
Also, unless you're point-blank asking her if she wants to hook up right now, it's irrelevant. You're just asking her if she wants to hang out. Plenty of time to cross that bridge if she says yes.
My brother kept not asking out the girl at the corner store. By our parents' house. Where he lived. Finally, the manager got involved and chewed him out. So he went and talked to her. It was awkward but funny. They ended up getting married.
Just go ask her out. Make a joke about being a dumbass for not doing it sooner if you want to. If she's feeling insecure, that'd probably help.
Edited by Anonymous (12/01/22 08:42 AM)
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