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Stereotypes & Sexuality
#28068197 - 11/25/22 01:32 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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What sexual stereotypes have you had personal experience with that seemed to be (partially) true?
For me, its heterosexual brunette women who are more sexually active/sexually open. Blondes too be lately its been brunette/dark haired ladies.
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Black dudes have bigger dicks
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: koods]
#28068282 - 11/25/22 05:52 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Black dudes' gay boyfriends have looser anuses.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: BikerB] 1
#28068285 - 11/25/22 05:55 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Girls who ride horses are dirty (in a nice way)
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: Janus62] 1
#28068766 - 11/25/22 12:34 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Blondes love sucking dick.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: Janus62]
#28068809 - 11/25/22 01:05 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I almost had an relationship with a "horse babe". Didnt work out sadly. Could have been nice.
I have noticed the blondes are into the BJs, even the bleached-brunette ones
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: BikerB]
#28068840 - 11/25/22 01:19 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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BikerB said: Black dudes' gay boyfriends have looser anuses.
Omg that’s not how a butthole works
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: koods]
#28068850 - 11/25/22 01:28 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Hold up, can you tell us how buttholes *are* supposed to work then?
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: koods]
#28068865 - 11/25/22 01:42 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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BikerB said: Black dudes' gay boyfriends have looser anuses.
Omg that’s not how a butthole works
I wouldn't know.
I dated a girl with an Arabian that was worth over $250k in 1990. That stallion hated me and tried to bite my face off...
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They don’t get stretched out by big dicks
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: koods]
#28068941 - 11/25/22 02:27 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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That can't be right, do you have any scientific studies to link?
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Well my bhole isn’t
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: koods]
#28068973 - 11/25/22 02:53 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Have you been taking large black cocks Koods?
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Maybe a couple
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: koods]
#28069785 - 11/26/22 06:39 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Ahhh koods, the sultan of the tight butthole, here to dispell all possible butthole stereotypes! Praise be the tight butthole
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: koods]
#28075184 - 11/29/22 08:24 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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koods said: They don’t get stretched out by big dicks
The anus of Trent begs to differ
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: ashfiken] 1
#28075266 - 11/29/22 09:39 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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ashfiken said: Ahhh koods, the sultan of the tight butthole, here to dispell all possible butthole stereotypes! Praise be the tight butthole
I was chatting on Grindr the other day and the guy wanted a picture of my hole. Do you know how hard it is to get a good picture of your own asshole?
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: koods]
#28075360 - 11/29/22 11:41 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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ashfiken said: Ahhh koods, the sultan of the tight butthole, here to dispell all possible butthole stereotypes! Praise be the tight butthole
I was chatting on Grindr the other day and the guy wanted a picture of my hole. Do you know how hard it is to get a good picture of your own asshole?
Set your phone camera on a timer and squat? I'm just thinking aloud here, but I kinda want to know if it works.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: koods] 3
#28075382 - 11/30/22 12:19 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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All it takes is a bit of practice! That would be a good art project, take a picture of your own b hole every day for a few years and then upload the slideshow to ebaumsworld
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: koods] 1
#28075463 - 11/30/22 04:47 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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ashfiken said: Ahhh koods, the sultan of the tight butthole, here to dispell all possible butthole stereotypes! Praise be the tight butthole
I was chatting on Grindr the other day and the guy wanted a picture of my hole. Do you know how hard it is to get a good picture of your own asshole?
I could imagine it being very difficult, hell my wife complains it's hard for her to get pussy pics and that's (mostly) in the front, but behind is quite a feat. Lul I'd second the camera delay, still feel like it would be a challenge to get the distance and detail right. Geez all these most civilized issues we have. Apparently nudes are now the currency of love
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There is a sexual stereotype that bugs me. This common idea that if a man becomes sexually aroused, he becomes dangerous. You know, if a man's fire is lit, he becomes an uncontrollable wild animal! You know, men always have ONE thing on their mind. What a load of BS.
Guys first begin dealing with erections in the womb. It's not that big of a deal. I've slept with women I've dated without having sex (early in the relationship). I've had women tell me that it's very unusual for a man to be able to sleep with a woman without having sex. That's such a derogatory stereotype.
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Thats a great one! Theres a famous meme based on a Tweet post by a woman where the woman says "Men only have one thing on their mind and its disgusting!". An overxaggeration of male sexuality. Some woman traumatized by it, having repeated experiences with guys being over-sexual towards them, which in turn, reamps the stereotype.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: blackhawk]
#28078411 - 12/01/22 04:25 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Yup, thats the one
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: ashfiken]
#28079087 - 12/02/22 05:05 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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ashfiken said: Ahhh koods, the sultan of the tight butthole, here to dispell all possible butthole stereotypes! Praise be the tight butthole
I was chatting on Grindr the other day and the guy wanted a picture of my hole. Do you know how hard it is to get a good picture of your own asshole?
I could imagine it being very difficult, hell my wife complains it's hard for her to get pussy pics and that's (mostly) in the front, but behind is quite a feat. Lul I'd second the camera delay, still feel like it would be a challenge to get the distance and detail right. Geez all these most civilized issues we have. Apparently nudes are now the currency of love
Has your wife perfected the technique?
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: schpat]
#28079100 - 12/02/22 05:33 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Your mom has.
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Nicely done!
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: BikerB]
#28079138 - 12/02/22 06:26 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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lol, why did you go anon for that?
But real talk, my mom was telling me some stories about wild naked weekends at a particular semi-local hot spring. Gave me a very different perspective on weekend trips my family took when I was younger.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: schpat]
#28079570 - 12/02/22 01:00 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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ashfiken said: Ahhh koods, the sultan of the tight butthole, here to dispell all possible butthole stereotypes! Praise be the tight butthole
I was chatting on Grindr the other day and the guy wanted a picture of my hole. Do you know how hard it is to get a good picture of your own asshole?
I could imagine it being very difficult, hell my wife complains it's hard for her to get pussy pics and that's (mostly) in the front, but behind is quite a feat. Lul I'd second the camera delay, still feel like it would be a challenge to get the distance and detail right. Geez all these most civilized issues we have. Apparently nudes are now the currency of love
Has your wife perfected the technique?
I won't say she's perfected it, but I am more than willing to let her keep practicing. Def not as easy as one may think. Taking dick pics is wayyy more str8 forward
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: schpat]
#28080165 - 12/02/22 06:41 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Because your mom and I have a good thing and she wants to keep it discreet. Nothing wrong with what, I am a gentleman.
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colored hair, non-traditional piercings seem to make me think they are more open
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What sexual stereotypes have you had personal experience with that seemed to be (partially) true?
I have found these to be true for me.
Men that watch a lot of porn are bad in bed. True
Best lovers are usually the most inexperienced. True
Older men do more foreplay, which means orgasams for me. True
Younger men last longer but are all about thrusting. Means orgasms for him. True
Group sex is not a STD petri dish. True
Women on women sex is more sensual and it is. True
Threesomes are overrated but still fun. True
Sometimes the most unattractive men are the best in bed. True
Guys that appreciate and are attracted to all women, have a different appreciation for sex with women. And its .. on a different level. Best sex I have ever had was with men who found something sexy with every women. I don't know how to describe it. They are different Scale of 1-10 and 10 is the highest they are a 9.5 TRUE
Players are not worth it... the sex sucks and it's all about their ego or lack of self esteem. True
Artistic/Hippie guys.. Sex is an adventure and you have sex for days not minutes. True
Affairs or secret relationships are the hottest sex (temporarily) in the beginning. True
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen]
#28105270 - 12/19/22 07:52 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Thats a ton of em!
Im remembering those. Spot on too.
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Once I started thinking about it I thought of soooo many. They are true for me. May not be for others.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28105396 - 12/19/22 10:13 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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A lot of experience with these stereotypes I see
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: thelanzii] 1
#28105486 - 12/20/22 12:17 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I’m 49 So I have lived some. And plan to continue living freely & happily.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen]
#28105490 - 12/20/22 12:22 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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“I've had women tell me that it's very unusual for a man to be able to sleep with a woman without having sex. That's such a derogatory stereotype.
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SO true. It stops women from developing healthy relationships with men. And puts all men in a box. Theres a lot of good men & a lot of women scared of them.
How do I respond to someones post?
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28105516 - 12/20/22 01:30 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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More power to ya, I dig it
What about the porn watchers did u not like?
I watch too much, currently working on that addiction but I feel overall it made me a lot more open minded for more
Probably would have never ate ass or put a foot in my mouth if it wasn't for porn lol
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#28105520 - 12/20/22 01:49 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I think she means in general, men who watch a lot of porn likely arent very "fair" with sex as most porn is male-orientated (men pleases themselves by "using" a woman). That was my take.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen]
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SO true. It stops women from developing healthy relationships with men. And puts all men in a box. Theres a lot of good men & a lot of women scared of them.
How do I respond to someones post?</font>
I can relate to that one. I had this friend I used to sleep with every now and then and we never had sex. It's actually hard for most people to understand or believe, but true.
@ loladoreen- You can do what I just did with the @, or either hit reply or quote in the top right hand corner of a post you want to reply to. If you hit quote, it will show what they said like above in this post. You can also type quote with [ ] around it to highlight just a portion of what someone said too.
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@hummingbird My best friend is a man and I have slept in the same bed with him and we have never been sexual. I have never even considered it. He is my friend. I quit doing things like that when he got engaged then married .
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: thelanzii]
#28105743 - 12/20/22 09:36 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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@thelanzil More power to ya, I dig it
What about the porn watchers did u not like?
They skip foreplay and just thrust.
I watch too much, currently working on that addiction but I feel overall it made me a lot more open minded for more
I am sure you are more open minded. But it takes away from the intimacy that allows you to feel safe enough to try new things, explore and enjoy it. My opinion
Probably would have never ate ass or put a foot in my mouth if it wasn't for porn lol Probably... probably for a lot of people.
What is it about porn that you like so much? Genuinely curious. I like it but it serves a purpose for me.
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That is it. They are focused on their own pleasure and view women as sexual objects. There is no respect, intimacy or even trust. Because you are only there for his pleasure. Not someone I personally want to have sex with. The best part of sex to me is the intimacy and being able to trust and try new things. And someone interested in what you like and wanting to provide it. And vice versa. This is completely my opinion based on my own life experiences. I have no room in my life for not being respected, valued or desired by someone I am going to be intimate with. It is not what I am seeking or want. And I dont mean falling in love I mean respect, valued as a person and desired.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen]
#28105749 - 12/20/22 09:43 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I can definitely relate gotta have intimacy and connection for truly enjoyable sex to occur.
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@logicalchaos YES I mean you can go and be with someone and get off. Right? But when you have trust and intimacy.. it's amazing. And you can explore and it improves and gets better and better. .... I miss that sooo much.. so much.
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#28105754 - 12/20/22 09:48 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Its a rare connection, in my experience. The right person, the right mood, the right feeling, the right night. All have to line up to really experience it....
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Agree.... Like yes and no though. If you don't rush then it happens or doesn't but usually it is worth it. I truly need an emotional connection. I have had sex without one but.. its .. its ok. I definetely don't prefer it. I think allowing yourself to be vulnerable is the key . Probably the most difficult for me, but I try.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen]
#28105791 - 12/20/22 10:11 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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loladoreen said: @hummingbird My best friend is a man and I have slept in the same bed with him and we have never been sexual. I have never even considered it. He is my friend. I quit doing things like that when he got engaged then married .
You may not have thought about it, but he definitely did; and if you flipped over and offered to bone, he would not have said "but you're my friend."
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No idea... never tried
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#28105959 - 12/20/22 11:59 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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loladoreen said: @thelanzil More power to ya, I dig it
What about the porn watchers did u not like?
They skip foreplay and just thrust.
I watch too much, currently working on that addiction but I feel overall it made me a lot more open minded for more
I am sure you are more open minded. But it takes away from the intimacy that allows you to feel safe enough to try new things, explore and enjoy it. My opinion
Probably would have never ate ass or put a foot in my mouth if it wasn't for porn lol Probably... probably for a lot of people.
What is it about porn that you like so much? Genuinely curious. I like it but it serves a purpose for me.
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loladoreen said: @thelanzil More power to ya, I dig it
What about the porn watchers did u not like?
They skip foreplay and just thrust.
I watch too much, currently working on that addiction but I feel overall it made me a lot more open minded for more
I am sure you are more open minded. But it takes away from the intimacy that allows you to feel safe enough to try new things, explore and enjoy it. My opinion
Probably would have never ate ass or put a foot in my mouth if it wasn't for porn lol Probably... probably for a lot of people.
What is it about porn that you like so much? Genuinely curious. I like it but it serves a purpose for me.
They skip foreplay and just thrust. Sounds like a shallow male thing in general
What is it about porn that you like so much? I work too much and in the process of a move that will make having a sex life a lot easier. Variety, each scene has a different flavor. It satisfies a need/want. I get unbearably horny without porn. Hopefully having one or multiple sexual partners will come about in my near future.
Porn at the end of the day feels fake and bad for the brain, and I enjoy real sex far more. Sex and the actions leading up to it is something that I want to be hours long. The last girl I was with said it felt like we were on a honeymoon because we would just lay in bed and have sex for days.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: thelanzii]
#28105972 - 12/20/22 12:07 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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If this is offensive to you, don't answer it.I am just genuinely curious. Have you ever had any addiction or compulsive issues in your lifetime?
They skip foreplay and just thrust. Sounds like a shallow male thing in general- I agree. BUT do you think porn could intensify that male shallow behavior in some men?
What is it about porn that you like so much? I work too much and in the process of a move that will make having a sex life a lot easier. Variety, each scene has a different flavor. It satisfies a need/want. I get unbearably horny without porn. Hopefully having one or multiple sexual partners will come about in my near future.
That is intriguing to me. I never viewed it as variety.
Porn at the end of the day feels fake and bad for the brain, and I enjoy real sex far more. Sex and the actions leading up to it is something that I want to be hours long. The last girl I was with said it felt like we were on a honeymoon because we would just lay in bed and have sex for days.
Very interesting to me. Porn to me makes me feel lonely and more frustrated in a sense. Because it is me alone and I am lacking intimacy.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen]
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Have you ever had any addiction or compulsive issues in your lifetime? Yes, drugs and porn
BUT do you think porn could intensify that shallow male behavior in some men?
Yes, depending on the type of porn. I think it is more of an overall societal influence, though. I grew up around a bunch of men who thought the idea of going down on a woman was pathetic and it didn't seem like they got this idea from porn.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: thelanzii]
#28106050 - 12/20/22 01:16 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Yes, drugs and porn
Does your porn decrease when you have a sexual partner. I remember you said possible multiple partners. Do you have monogamous relationships? BTW No judgement I am on the fence with my own personal feelings on that subject.
Yes, depending on the type of porn. I think it is more of an overall societal influence, though. I grew up around a bunch of men who thought the idea of going down on a woman was pathetic and it didn't seem like they got this idea from porn.
Wow...how old are you? Why did you choose to be different? Are these to personal?
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen]
#28106144 - 12/20/22 02:29 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Does your porn decrease when you have a sexual partner. I remember you said possible multiple partners. Do you have monogamous relationships? BTW No judgement I am on the fence with my own personal feelings on that subject.
Porn use definitely decreases; the urge is still there, though. I haven't been in love yet, so I am curious if the urge will fully go away with someone I deeply care about. I have only ever had a few monogamous relationships, never anything outside of that. I haven't developed my views on non-monogamous relationships yet. It adds a different dynamic and brings variety and new experiences. I am more open to the idea of a group as opposed to a couple being with other partners separately.
The urge for variety and new partners is bound to come up in any long-lasting relationship. I would prefer to have open communication about it as opposed to being dishonest and breaking trust and commitment. Wow...how old are you? Why did you choose to be different? Are these to personal? 28 As far as differing views - my family roots are pretty non-traditonal so I was always putting effort to fit in with my more traditionally raised friends.
Always viewed all the aspects of life in more depth. As one of my mentors has said a lot of people never get past the first few segments of maslows hierarchy. I also have a high appreciation for some of the women I have been in relationships with. Women I have given orgasms to seem to feel the orgasm far deeper than me ejaculating or having intimate sex and being part of that experience for them is fun, ego-boosting and meaningful to me.
none of this is too personal, were on a mushie forum exchanging thoughts and ideas
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: thelanzii]
#28106233 - 12/20/22 04:06 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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If you truly have an addiction to porn, and I made an educated guess. Your viewing of it would only decrease because your time is taken from being with another person. Know what I mean? It is a compulsion. You'll either replace it, continue it, it increases or you will address it. It will probably just change form but still be there.
I was raised really religious and it messed me up on my views on relationships, sex, marriage etc.. I was not true to myself but doing what I thought I was supposed to do. It was awful.
I had an open marriage the last couple years of my marriage. Different then most people, he wanted to know nothing and I told him nothing. He said go do what you gotta do, just don't tell me about it.We also had a sexless marriage. It fucked me up bad. It destroyed how I viewed myself. And when I started seeing other people I was literally shocked and in disbelief that other men found me attractive. It was the best thing I ever did for myself. I question monogamy, espeacilly after spending so much time with swingers. I just have a different view then I used to. And I despise the idea of people belonging to each other. I have had to challenge a lot of my own personal beliefs. I dont know if I would ever get married again. I am unsure if I truly even wanted to be super committed. I don't like the idea of having sex with someone and they are having sex with someone else and I dont know. But I dont know if I want a relationship where it is only one person. Not because I need variety. I just am not sure that is my happiness. Then I wonder what it will be like being 70 and alone.. you know.. Good for you when I was 28 I definately did not have a man trying to give me orgasams. Absolutely not. But I also think men have evolved and espeacilly some men my age. The ones that have opened their minds and allowed for personal growth become the best lovers. They enjoy the experience .. I think sex changes into an experience rather then a nut. And thats.... awesome!
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