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There is a sexual stereotype that bugs me. This common idea that if a man becomes sexually aroused, he becomes dangerous. You know, if a man's fire is lit, he becomes an uncontrollable wild animal! You know, men always have ONE thing on their mind. What a load of BS.
Guys first begin dealing with erections in the womb. It's not that big of a deal. I've slept with women I've dated without having sex (early in the relationship). I've had women tell me that it's very unusual for a man to be able to sleep with a woman without having sex. That's such a derogatory stereotype.
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LogicaL Chaos
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Thats a great one! Theres a famous meme based on a Tweet post by a woman where the woman says "Men only have one thing on their mind and its disgusting!". An overxaggeration of male sexuality. Some woman traumatized by it, having repeated experiences with guys being over-sexual towards them, which in turn, reamps the stereotype.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: blackhawk]
#28078411 - 12/01/22 04:25 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Yup, thats the one
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: ashfiken]
#28079087 - 12/02/22 05:05 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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ashfiken said: Ahhh koods, the sultan of the tight butthole, here to dispell all possible butthole stereotypes! Praise be the tight butthole
I was chatting on Grindr the other day and the guy wanted a picture of my hole. Do you know how hard it is to get a good picture of your own asshole?
I could imagine it being very difficult, hell my wife complains it's hard for her to get pussy pics and that's (mostly) in the front, but behind is quite a feat. Lul I'd second the camera delay, still feel like it would be a challenge to get the distance and detail right. Geez all these most civilized issues we have. Apparently nudes are now the currency of love
Has your wife perfected the technique?
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: schpat]
#28079100 - 12/02/22 05:33 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Your mom has.
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Nicely done!
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: BikerB]
#28079138 - 12/02/22 06:26 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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lol, why did you go anon for that?
But real talk, my mom was telling me some stories about wild naked weekends at a particular semi-local hot spring. Gave me a very different perspective on weekend trips my family took when I was younger.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: schpat]
#28079570 - 12/02/22 01:00 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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ashfiken said: Ahhh koods, the sultan of the tight butthole, here to dispell all possible butthole stereotypes! Praise be the tight butthole
I was chatting on Grindr the other day and the guy wanted a picture of my hole. Do you know how hard it is to get a good picture of your own asshole?
I could imagine it being very difficult, hell my wife complains it's hard for her to get pussy pics and that's (mostly) in the front, but behind is quite a feat. Lul I'd second the camera delay, still feel like it would be a challenge to get the distance and detail right. Geez all these most civilized issues we have. Apparently nudes are now the currency of love
Has your wife perfected the technique?
I won't say she's perfected it, but I am more than willing to let her keep practicing. Def not as easy as one may think. Taking dick pics is wayyy more str8 forward
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: schpat]
#28080165 - 12/02/22 06:41 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Because your mom and I have a good thing and she wants to keep it discreet. Nothing wrong with what, I am a gentleman.
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thelanzii

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colored hair, non-traditional piercings seem to make me think they are more open
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What sexual stereotypes have you had personal experience with that seemed to be (partially) true?
I have found these to be true for me.
Men that watch a lot of porn are bad in bed. True
Best lovers are usually the most inexperienced. True
Older men do more foreplay, which means orgasams for me. True
Younger men last longer but are all about thrusting. Means orgasms for him. True
Group sex is not a STD petri dish. True
Women on women sex is more sensual and it is. True
Threesomes are overrated but still fun. True
Sometimes the most unattractive men are the best in bed. True
Guys that appreciate and are attracted to all women, have a different appreciation for sex with women. And its .. on a different level. Best sex I have ever had was with men who found something sexy with every women. I don't know how to describe it. They are different Scale of 1-10 and 10 is the highest they are a 9.5 TRUE
Players are not worth it... the sex sucks and it's all about their ego or lack of self esteem. True
Artistic/Hippie guys.. Sex is an adventure and you have sex for days not minutes. True
Affairs or secret relationships are the hottest sex (temporarily) in the beginning. True
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen]
#28105270 - 12/19/22 07:52 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Thats a ton of em!
Im remembering those. Spot on too.
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Once I started thinking about it I thought of soooo many. They are true for me. May not be for others.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28105396 - 12/19/22 10:13 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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A lot of experience with these stereotypes I see
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: thelanzii] 1
#28105486 - 12/20/22 12:17 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I’m 49 So I have lived some. And plan to continue living freely & happily.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen]
#28105490 - 12/20/22 12:22 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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“I've had women tell me that it's very unusual for a man to be able to sleep with a woman without having sex. That's such a derogatory stereotype.
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SO true. It stops women from developing healthy relationships with men. And puts all men in a box. Theres a lot of good men & a lot of women scared of them.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28105516 - 12/20/22 01:30 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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More power to ya, I dig it
What about the porn watchers did u not like?
I watch too much, currently working on that addiction but I feel overall it made me a lot more open minded for more
Probably would have never ate ass or put a foot in my mouth if it wasn't for porn lol
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: thelanzii] 1
#28105520 - 12/20/22 01:49 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I think she means in general, men who watch a lot of porn likely arent very "fair" with sex as most porn is male-orientated (men pleases themselves by "using" a woman). That was my take.
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Re: Stereotypes & Sexuality [Re: loladoreen]
#28105522 - 12/20/22 02:03 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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SO true. It stops women from developing healthy relationships with men. And puts all men in a box. Theres a lot of good men & a lot of women scared of them.
How do I respond to someones post?</font>
I can relate to that one. I had this friend I used to sleep with every now and then and we never had sex. It's actually hard for most people to understand or believe, but true.
@ loladoreen- You can do what I just did with the @, or either hit reply or quote in the top right hand corner of a post you want to reply to. If you hit quote, it will show what they said like above in this post. You can also type quote with [ ] around it to highlight just a portion of what someone said too.
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