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Anonymous #1

I'm getting old and have never had romance etc
    #28061023 - 11/20/22 01:14 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

Hey guys. I don't think any of you know me that well, but I am a 20 year old woman/girl and I've never had a boyfriend. In real life, that is. As I age I'm starting to wonder if love just isn't for me. I've also never had sex, it really sucks and it's so unfair. I just wanna cry at how unfair life is ;-; I thought I was cute and why don't guys like me?! I had one guy recently tell me I was smoking hot but then why don't I have a bf? I'm starting to get old and really worried that I won't get a bf ever. I'm really annoyed that I've never had sex.


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Anonymous #2

Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28061037 - 11/20/22 01:35 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

Why don't you ask that guy who called you hot on a date?

Maybe you are intimidating and have to shoot more shots.


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Anonymous #3

Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28061142 - 11/20/22 05:31 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

At 20 you still have many decades ahead of you. Being virgin at 20 is not that uncommon. Don't feel like you are being left behind. As Anon#2 said, you could ask the guy who called you hot on a date (yes, it is usually the guy who asks the girl on a date but that is not always the case). See, guys can be insecure and feel intimidated by a hot girl. Especially if this guy hasn't dated much or at all. It is easy for a guy to think a hot girl is out of his league. Do yourself a favor, plan something to go out with this guy. If it doesn't work there are many more out there. Dating can also be a learning process and you may need some practice.


Edited by Anonymous (11/20/22 05:32 AM)


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28061148 - 11/20/22 05:38 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

Try tinder


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28061811 - 11/20/22 02:19 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
Hey guys. I don't think any of you know me that well, but I am a 20 year old woman/girl and I've never had a boyfriend. In real life, that is. As I age I'm starting to wonder if love just isn't for me. I've also never had sex, it really sucks and it's so unfair. I just wanna cry at how unfair life is ;-; I thought I was cute and why don't guys like me?! I had one guy recently tell me I was smoking hot but then why don't I have a bf? I'm starting to get old and really worried that I won't get a bf ever. I'm really annoyed that I've never had sex.



You're only 20, get out there and shoot your shot. Believe in yourself.
You're beautiful, no matter what.
Also, I've been single like 12 years and I'm happy as fuck. I'm not a virgin but sex and relationships aren't the key to happiness. Just do what makes you happy. If someone is meant for you, they will fall into your life. Remember, trust the process.


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #1] * 4
    #28062273 - 11/20/22 06:50 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

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Anonymous #1 said:
Hey guys. I don't think any of you know me that well, but I am a 20 year old woman/girl and I've never had a boyfriend. In real life, that is. As I age I'm starting to wonder if love just isn't for me. I've also never had sex, it really sucks and it's so unfair. I just wanna cry at how unfair life is ;-; I thought I was cute and why don't guys like me?! I had one guy recently tell me I was smoking hot but then why don't I have a bf? I'm starting to get old and really worried that I won't get a bf ever. I'm really annoyed that I've never had sex.



:callingbullshit:

Too many commas and periods for a 20yo


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Ice9]
    #28062487 - 11/20/22 10:20 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

I like proper grammar bro.

Thanks for your advice guys, the guy who called me hot was my Tinder date, yeah he only wanted sex. So I was out.


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28062511 - 11/20/22 10:47 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

20's not that old. Its definitely not too late for it.

Why do you think no guys have hit on you? Your appearance? Your personality? Have you ever kissed a guy at all?


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28062689 - 11/21/22 03:28 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

Oftentimes, if a girl is not intellectually stimulating, sex is the only thing that can bring her and her date together. For instance, a lot of Christian guys these days would love to go to Sunday school with you.

Go to Sunday school with him and be his partner in trying to be a true Christian. Then talk to him about how it makes him feel when his efforts to be true to the text are confounded by traditions. Act sorry. Then suck his dick.

This is a guaranteed plan for an excellent life together, if you seek Jesus with all your heart together. Most probably, you'll make lasting memories while you realize that demons don't exist and that Christianity is a sham. Then you can help him get rich while you use your intellect to make lots of money.


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Hartford]
    #28062724 - 11/21/22 04:18 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

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Hartford said:
Oftentimes, if a girl is not intellectually stimulating, sex is the only thing that can bring her and her date together. For instance, a lot of Christian guys these days would love to go to Sunday school with you.

Go to Sunday school with him and be his partner in trying to be a true Christian. Then talk to him about how it makes him feel when his efforts to be true to the text are confounded by traditions. Act sorry. Then suck his dick.

This is a guaranteed plan for an excellent life together, if you seek Jesus with all your heart together. Most probably, you'll make lasting memories while you realize that demons don't exist and that Christianity is a sham. Then you can help him get rich while you use your intellect to make lots of money.




Wow, just wow.

But seriously for the OP:  What do you want out of a relationship.  Finding someone to have sex with is easy, it looks like you don't want just that though, and that's fine.

Understand what it is you are looking for and go out there looking for it.

From personal experience casual sex doesn't have to be emotionless, I've had great emotional connection with casual partners.  I've never even had fun without it.  But emotional connection doesn't have to be take a lot of time to grow or be long term, it just requires empathy and respect between the two people sharing a moment.  I'm not saying you should go out there and find you some casual sex, but think about what it is you are wanting.

Also love is great, I highly recommend it, but if you've never had it you may not be able to recognise it.  Find someone you like and hang out with them, see what happens, it doesn't have to be permanent.  Love takes practice.


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #28064353 - 11/22/22 06:41 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

"Love takes practice."

Buddy I've had one relationship and I've been with her for over a decade.


OP. My best relationship and dating advice is to never take relationship or dating advice from anyone. People are too different and circumstances are too different to give advice that will work at a time when "reading the room" and using confidence is what needs to happen. 20 years old is basically a baby still. Just because your friends are whores that doesn't mean it's not completely acceptable and normal to not have a partner by now. It'll happen when it happens. If that's not soon enough then find ways to seem like you're "available" from a distance without seeming like a hoe. I had sex for the first time at your age and I remember feeling like the wait was right.


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Hartford]
    #28064382 - 11/22/22 07:54 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Hartford said:
Oftentimes, if a girl is not intellectually stimulating, sex is the only thing that can bring her and her date together. For instance, a lot of Christian guys these days would love to go to Sunday school with you.

Go to Sunday school with him and be his partner in trying to be a true Christian. Then talk to him about how it makes him feel when his efforts to be true to the text are confounded by traditions. Act sorry. Then suck his dick.

This is a guaranteed plan for an excellent life together, if you seek Jesus with all your heart together. Most probably, you'll make lasting memories while you realize that demons don't exist and that Christianity is a sham. Then you can help him get rich while you use your intellect to make lots of money.




:bringiton: truth


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: CapSlinger]
    #28070954 - 11/27/22 12:19 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

Lol 20 years is not even remotely getting old


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #28071374 - 11/27/22 10:47 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

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Anonymous #4 said:
Wow, just wow.

But seriously for the OP:  What do you want out of a relationship.  Finding someone to have sex with is easy, it looks like you don't want just that though, and that's fine.

Understand what it is you are looking for and go out there looking for it.

From personal experience casual sex doesn't have to be emotionless, I've had great emotional connection with casual partners.  I've never even had fun without it.  But emotional connection doesn't have to be take a lot of time to grow or be long term, it just requires empathy and respect between the two people sharing a moment.  I'm not saying you should go out there and find you some casual sex, but think about what it is you are wanting.

Also love is great, I highly recommend it, but if you've never had it you may not be able to recognise it.  Find someone you like and hang out with them, see what happens, it doesn't have to be permanent.  Love takes practice.





There must be a glitch in the anon system.  When people reply it is saying who they responded to above the post instead of anon 1, 2, 3 or whatever. 
It's saying OP (anon1) is hartford pretending to be a girl


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #28081048 - 12/03/22 09:34 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

Hartford (OP/anon 1), why did you abandon your thread?
I thought you enjoyed pretending to be a 20 yr old girl acting like you don't know why men don't like you
Sounds about like you...


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28081091 - 12/03/22 09:59 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

It legitimately wasn't me that posted this.


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #6] * 1
    #28082582 - 12/04/22 07:14 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous #6 said:
Hartford (OP/anon 1), why did you abandon your thread?
I thought you enjoyed pretending to be a 20 yr old girl acting like you don't know why men don't like you
Sounds about like you...



If you're going to take a shot at someone the least you could do is man up and not go anonymous...


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28082649 - 12/04/22 08:04 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

You're still really young. It'll happen, it's only human.
I'll give the same advice that I give to guys: make your interest known.
More female specific but goes for guys too, put yourself out there.
I once did an experiment where I uploaded the ugliest picture of a friend on a dating site. She had the flu and her face was puffy and leaking. I used terrible grammar and made this profile sound like a total idiot. Regardless, her inbox was absolutely flooded with messages.
The point is, it doesn't matter how beautiful or not beautiful you are, put yourself out there and guys will come. You'll have to weed through the weirdos, sure, but it's as simple as putting yourself out there.


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28105769 - 12/20/22 09:59 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

I have had a lot of men tell me I intimidate them and it used to hurt my feelings. And they said that was why they did not ask me out, etc. BUT do not change who you are to appear less intimidating. Just recognize that perhaps you need to be more assertive.
I am only speaking from my own experience, your experience will be your own.
Perhaps be more assertive, challenge some of your personal views and beliefs. Become sexual for yourself, make your appearance attractive to you. If you dont feel attractive that will resonate with others.
Be confident in yourself and others will be attracted to that. And if they are intimidated.. do you really want a man that is intimidated by you?
I do not. THOUGH... I did end up dating a man that said he didnt ask me out because he was intimidated by me and it was great.
Be true to yourself and ask yourself some questions and be honest and challenge your responses.


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Re: I'm getting old and have never had romance etc [Re: loladoreen] * 1
    #28113527 - 12/26/22 11:29 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

Thank you guys. :heart:


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