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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: Markamello]
#28061254 - 11/20/22 07:45 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I don't know if she does, but he never wears a ring.
You're asking questions regarding someone I don't know at all.
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: r3volution.gurl]
#28062653 - 11/21/22 02:17 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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r3volution.gurl said:You're asking questions regarding someone I don't know at all.
Fair enough but youre in a complicated relationship and ththe way his wife feels is important to the future of your relationship.
My first thought is that your bf is bullshitting you and he hasnt actually seperated from his wife. I mean, he may not love her and doesn't want to be with her but does she reciprocate the same feeling? Are they actually seperated or does she feel like they're just in a rough spot and they're going to come good? There are a fuck tonne of guys who don't have the guts to end things with a woman. I just get the the vibe that you're being played here.
The divorce is just a piece of paper. It really means nothing. The separation or break up is what's important. I wouldn't stress about a divorce unless you want to make some sort of financial commitment together or you're hoping to marry.
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: Markamello]
#28064646 - 11/22/22 11:57 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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He sleeps on the couch. I understand it's not believable, but he'd have to be a master manipulator piece of shit to lie about that and he's not.
I personally think she believes it's a rough patch(a really long one), but they aren't romantically involved at all. I hear their phone conversations when him and I are together, it's all about the kid, I have never ever heard an I love you in there.. ever. It's not intimate at all, just a coparenting relationship from my perspective.
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: r3volution.gurl]
#28064872 - 11/22/22 02:40 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Heres a hypothetical question for ya. I know some places in Canada allow poly-marriages. What if he married you in the near future and kept his seperated but legal marriage with his "ex" wife (for the sake of the kid)? Would that suit you at all?
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 1
#28064997 - 11/22/22 04:33 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah.. no lol I deserve a lot better than that honestly.
It's not like I expect him to not spend time with her at all or marry me anytime soon. She's apart of his life forever because she's the mother of his child. I don't even want to conceive children.
My ex had an ex wife and two kids who are older. I'm familiar with the dynamic(s). Not a big deal or difficulty if people behave like adults right.
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: r3volution.gurl]
#28065175 - 11/22/22 07:24 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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r3volution.gurl said: Yeah.. no lol I deserve a lot better than that honestly.
Yeah, you do. You seem to have a good handle on the situation.
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: r3volution.gurl] 1
#28065251 - 11/22/22 08:46 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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You should ask that question on Quora. There's always lots of really random and strange questions on Quora that are (as a joke a % of the time) asked by people.
Also, my answer would be.. when they stop having feelings for each other.
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: thirtygoats]
#28065258 - 11/22/22 08:52 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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BikerB said:
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r3volution.gurl said: Yeah.. no lol I deserve a lot better than that honestly.
Yeah, you do. You seem to have a good handle on the situation.
thank you
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thirtygoats said: You should ask that question on Quora. There's always lots of really random and strange questions on Quora that are (as a joke a % of the time) asked by people.
Also, my answer would be.. when they stop having feelings for each other.
I don't use Quora.
Well one person has definitely lost feelings for the other lol
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LogicaL Chaos
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: thirtygoats]
#28065301 - 11/22/22 10:01 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Sometimes i ask Bing or Google a very specific question and one of the results is a Quora question asked by a person online. Its a trip.
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: r3volution.gurl] 2
#28071893 - 11/27/22 05:14 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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LogicaL Chaos said: Heres a hypothetical question for ya. I know some places in Canada allow poly-marriages. What if he married you in the near future and kept his seperated but legal marriage with his "ex" wife (for the sake of the kid)? Would that suit you at all?
Canada allows like wife swapping clubs but no polygamy. Some of the Mormons do it anyway but one one wife is legal the rest are under the table. I'm okay with banning it those baby machines are all on welfare
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Why hasn't he divorced her long time ago? They have a 2 year old together and I think he just knows it's going to be messy and doesn't want to deal with it alone.
As someone who puts shit off and avoids legal conflicts like the plague I can see remaining married out of desire to avoid having to go thru all that shit. Divorce with children is going to be a bitch. That's a decent reason. You could probably light the fire under his feat with motivation, but if you two just split up in a few months its kind of a dick move to force him him to spend all the money on divorce. I would say if you two are meant to be he'll motivate himself.
I wouldn't care if a chick was separated and super slow on the divorce but my motivations are different than yours as I give zero fucks about getting married. I lived with a chick like five years who never got divorced, I think she's still married to this day, though they never got back together. I liked her husband we got along fine. I guess every situation is different, I'd have to meet all 3 people can't tell from the internet. And I'm no Dr Phil.
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: viraldrome]
#28071927 - 11/27/22 05:37 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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The dude will hang on to his separated wife/life up until he finds something worth more than that. It's an easy tell for rev to see how serious the dude is. You know it's real when he serves divorce papers. Up until that point, she's just a side piece. Guy gets his to have his cake and eat it
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: Ice9] 1
#28113425 - 12/26/22 09:39 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Update:
It's happening

He told his wife today he's dating me and they are getting a divorce.
I can't believe it honestly, can't stop smiling
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: r3volution.gurl]
#28113489 - 12/26/22 10:38 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Its official! Congrats on update
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 1
#28113536 - 12/26/22 11:34 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Thanks so much logical chaos
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: r3volution.gurl]
#28114042 - 12/27/22 01:19 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Interesting that he hadn't already told her that you guys were dating. It'll be even more interesting to see how long it takes for this divorce to play out and finalise.
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: Markamello]
#28151387 - 01/22/23 01:29 AM (1 year, 6 days ago) |
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Ive been in your situation and all I can say is that I wish you all the best. Thats really a hard spot to be in and I hope it works out better for you than it did me. be good to yourself.
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Re: When is the right time for my boyfriend to divorce his already separated wife? [Re: BeefSupremeJr]
#28151708 - 01/22/23 08:36 AM (1 year, 6 days ago) |
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Thanks, yeah me too
So far so good on that front
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