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Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? 1
#28013542 - 10/24/22 03:30 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Maybe my brain just isn’t wired right. But yesterday I had maybe the best sex of my life (won’t go into detail) with my girlfriend who I love very much. Incredibly intense, for well over an hour. But later in the evening and now even today I just feel utterly spent, drained emotionally, beyond tired and mentally fatigued. The closest way I can describe it is like a mighty MDMA come-down! Bit shit considering how intensely amazing the sex was.
Anyone ever experienced this?
Edited by Anonymous (10/24/22 04:38 AM)
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28013596 - 10/24/22 05:20 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: Maybe my brain just isn’t wired right. But yesterday I had maybe the best sex of my life (won’t go into detail) with my girlfriend who I love very much. Incredibly intense, for well over an hour. But later in the evening and now even today I just feel utterly spent, drained emotionally, beyond tired and mentally fatigued. The closest way I can describe it is like a mighty MDMA come-down! Bit shit considering how intensely amazing the sex was.
Anyone ever experienced this?
Maybe she drugged you?
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28013601 - 10/24/22 05:27 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Sometimes anal sex is so powerful when you insert it into another person the potential amount of pleasure is so great that when it's over the next day you can be depressed about life and not want to live anymore
Especially if you find out the next day that the person that provided you this anal sex just not intend on having a monogamous relationship and is allowing several other partners to have sex with them on a daily basis. Perhaps with several new people everyday that they've never met before
A person can become very depressed over this it is just the nature of these things. The sexual experiences are powerful and when a person realizes it was a one-time thing that is potentially never going to happen again the experience of life that is powerful that leaves a person feeling so good when it is gone it can be a very serious letdown of depression
Have you tried seeking therapy?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #3] 1
#28014072 - 10/24/22 01:05 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Not the answers I was expecting 😂 I have depression anyway that I manage relatively well. I have had lots of therapy… I just noticed, on this occasion, that the sex on this emotionally drained me so much, for the next 24 hours. I was numb, and exhausted, not quite depressed, but just abnormal feeling. Like I had no chemicals in my brain left to process normal everyday emotions. That’s why I likened it to a comedown from a big night on MDMA. Empty. (great puns here I know) Kinda humorous topic I get it lol, just wondered if anyone else had ever experienced this?
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28014110 - 10/24/22 01:30 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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You got her pregnant, you are feeling the cosmic energy leaving ur body and into hers
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #4] 2
#28014210 - 10/24/22 02:49 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Well I’m a lesbian female, so I’d be surprised.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28014264 - 10/24/22 03:23 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: Well I’m a lesbian female, so I’d be surprised.
Scissoring is known to cause this.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28014649 - 10/24/22 06:13 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Oh wow this thread is full of useful information
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28014689 - 10/24/22 06:34 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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When we go from one extreme, great pleasure or great suffering, the body needs to rebalance and we can feel that fluctuation before it reaches a balance. So feeling ‘bad’ after feeling ‘good’, or even vice verse, is normal. Sounds like it was worth it though 👏😂👍
Edited by Anonymous (10/24/22 06:35 PM)
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#28014782 - 10/24/22 07:15 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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It sounds like an extremely large amount of pleasure
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28015254 - 10/24/22 11:29 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Seems like a fairly normal occurrence to me. 
Good to hear things are going well.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28023991 - 10/30/22 04:26 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Ive had a similar experience. Not quite as strong as a XTC hangover but definitely an emotional, mental drain the next day.
Sex is literally a drug as it releases endorphins inside your brain (just like XTC does). Sex is addictive as drugs and they work in similar ways.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #7] 1
#28024198 - 10/30/22 09:08 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Endorphins are drugs, albeit naturally occuring drugs, sex is an activity that stimulates the production and release of these chemicals by your body.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#28024543 - 10/30/22 02:03 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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FACTS.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#28025200 - 10/30/22 08:06 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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ALWAYS. FACTS
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#28025246 - 10/30/22 08:54 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Maybe you just got a really good workout
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #8] 1
#28034460 - 11/05/22 01:26 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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This has absolutely happened to me, usually after more involved scenes with a power dynamic and other BDSM activities involved.
All those endorphins usually leaves me feeling a little depleted the next day.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #9]
#28034729 - 11/05/22 04:07 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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If you were a sexaholic then it's incredibly difficult to stop having sex for 5 minutes without getting extremely depressed. I mean you could end out all night with all types of people like married people with a kid and stuff like that trying to get them to leave their spouse just so you can get laid.
But yeah you know coming can be the kind of thing that just takes a lot of energy and stresses a person's life out a lot.
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Ever had sex so good you had a massive come-down next day? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#28034986 - 11/05/22 06:06 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #3 said: If you were a sexaholic then it's incredibly difficult to stop having sex for 5 minutes without getting extremely depressed. I mean you could end out all night with all types of people like married people with a kid and stuff like that trying to get them to leave their spouse just so you can get laid.
But yeah you know coming can be the kind of thing that just takes a lot of energy and stresses a person's life out a lot.
I don't know how you're making a leap to sex addiction here.
I personally am referring to sub drop. It's a thing. Look it up.
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