Story time, my mushroom eating friends. This one's about sexuality and my opinions on what works best. I don't consider myself an expert, but I've been married for a long time and don't get me started on my younger years.
First I want to talk about foreplay. This is very important. When you kiss a woman, grab their head and hair. Hold them tightly. (Don't mess up their hair!) Grab the back of their hair in your hand and hold it tightly. It's hard to pull this off, but when done right it really gets them going. If they let you get to their neck it's all over. Be very gentle kissing their neck, give them Goosebumps. That'll get the juices flowing. Here's some spots that work for me. Back of their ears, barely caressing their side, feet, and Numero Uno, their inner thigh. Again, if you get to that spot it's all over.
If you want to really impress, you're best bet is eating her out. This takes a lot of practice. Every woman's different, they all have different g spots. I'll get to that later. Once you start to lick her, focus on her clit. Lick it like a lollipop, but don't lick up! If you lick up on their clit, you can cause some discomfort. Then you work your way in and make sure the juices are flown really good. You might get an orgasm.
Fingering a woman also takes skill. The best way I could describe it is that every woman has a map. You have to locate all of her spots. You also have to pay attention to her responses . You'll start to notice that she responds to different things that you do , so do it more! My generic fingering goes like this, you insert one finger and slowly and eventually getting two fingers, your index and your middle finger, into her. But don't push in and out, insert your fingers all the way and curve your fingers upwards. That's a G-spot. You'll find it. It's almost like doing the 'come here' gesture with your fingers.
Once she is totally engulfed in the experience and soaking wet, that's when you give her the d. Don't just jam it in there! Slowly give her inch by inch and make her want more. When she ask you for more give it to her! And give it to her good! A couple humps that worked for me: Sometimes they like it slow, other times they'll like it to be tore up, but this move was named by my wife, she calls it "bang bang" that's when I'm slowly giving it to her and then I do a fast 'two stroke.' I do that over and over. Sometimes it's best just to stick it all the way in and leave it there. Especially when she's cuming. Look for the signs.
Just use common sense, read what she wants and give it to her. Simple as that, guys.
I know there's some dudes on here that would put me to shame, I'm not bragging by any means, I'm just sharing what works best for me.
Lastly, don't be afraid to lick that asshole!
So, what works best for you?
Edited by Psatellite (10/28/22 09:17 PM)
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