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Anonymous #3

Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: wayworm]
    #28025076 - 10/30/22 06:51 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

It's almost like the people with foreskin want circumcised people to get therapy or surgery?? :rolleyes:


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Anonymous #3

Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28025117 - 10/30/22 07:10 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

All the chicks I've been with tell me that the first time they seen an uncircumcised dick it freaked them out.

From my experience, women prefer circumcised over uncircumcised. They think it's prettier and cleaner. You don't want to be labeled a cheese dick.

I hope you get over any issues you have about being circumcised. It's the norm.


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28025193 - 10/30/22 07:59 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

I live on the west coast, where it is not the norm and I'm 20 years old. It's like 10% where I'm at based on what I've read. It's also decreasingly common all the time.

Besides I'm would never have cut my dick out of fear of some stupid whore calling me "cheese dick". That's a retarded protestant American thing.

Edit: I am OP, not sure why it shows this post as a different account.


Edited by acrobaticelk123 (10/30/22 08:02 PM)


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Anonymous #3

Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: acrobaticelk123]
    #28025196 - 10/30/22 08:05 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

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acrobaticelk123 said:
I live on the west coast, where it is not the norm and I'm 20 years old. It's like 10% where I'm at based on what I've read. It's also decreasingly common all the time.

Besides I'm would never have cut my dick out of fear of some stupid whore calling me "cheese dick". That's a retarded protestant American thing.

Edit: I am OP, not sure why it shows this post as a different account.





I was just joking about the cheese dick comment. I really hope you figure things out. You're so young, your whole life's ahead of you. I'm sure a female is going to come along and straighten you out. Just let it happen it's the only advice I can give you.

Btw, cuts and scars Heal.. :heart:



uncheck the post anonymously box and it will show Who You Are


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28025199 - 10/30/22 08:06 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

Like this

I understand now, it's a British thing. Not sexual in nature. Don't let your culture control you. Or come to America where everybody's circumcised and chicks dig it.


Edited by Psatellite (10/30/22 08:14 PM)


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28025218 - 10/30/22 08:22 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

Thanks, anon. This gives me some hope.


Edited by acrobaticelk123 (10/30/22 08:24 PM)


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: Psatellite]
    #28025219 - 10/30/22 08:23 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

No, I am American. I probably wasn't clear enough. I'm on the west coast of the US.


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Anonymous #3

Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: acrobaticelk123]
    #28025235 - 10/30/22 08:37 PM (1 year, 2 months ago)

You're welcome. I'm sure As you age it will get better.


Edited by Anonymous (10/30/22 08:37 PM)


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: Anonymous #3] * 2
    #28025545 - 10/31/22 02:35 AM (1 year, 2 months ago)

Hey OP,

It’s normal to feel a little upset about the discovery of your circumcision.  You are not alone.  I too was very distraught over the discovery of my own circumcision when I was a young man. 

Your autonomy was violated. You didn’t have a say, therefore none of this is your fault. Your parents were probably just doing what the doctor told them to do and thought they were acting in your best-interest.  It is an extremely common practice in the United States. So at the very least, if it is any consolation to you please know that women will not at all be surprised to see your cut penis. It’s normal.

I don’t really know how to talk to you about cutting yourself. I did it too when I was a teenager. Now I am 38yrs old, and to be honest with you. I regret it so damn much. Everyday I regret doing that to myself. You might have a long journey ahead of you before you find love for yourself. I would implore you to to be nice to your body until you get there. Our flesh has a very very long memory, and scars are can never be undone…


Edited by Mojo (10/31/22 02:38 AM)


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Anonymous #4

Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: Ima Trooper]
    #28072261 - 11/27/22 08:58 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

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Ima Trooper said:
I think you're wrong about it creating sexual disfunction and mental issues with sex, at least in a majority of men. Seriously, everyone I know is cut and they have zero issues. I think the exception is much rarer than what you think.




If you and everyone you knew were lobotomized, how would anyone know if it had a negative effect?

It's normalized in US, unnecessary, and when the media catches wind of female genitalia mutation stories in other countries (not much different than circumcision) everyone acts like it's barbaric, but not when it happens to males in the US...weird


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: acrobaticelk]
    #28073312 - 11/28/22 04:19 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

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acrobaticelk said:
You're right that my reaction is out of left field. I have this strange obsession but I've been trying to make myself stop thinking about it constantly. I haven't been able to make myself shut up about it for more than a few hours. It hasn't occurred to me that I'm trying to blame my problems on something I am not in control of, that's an interesting idea. I don't know about that though, since the fact I am not in control of being circumcised is what bothers me the most about it.




I'm not a guy but your reaction seems normal. It's okay to be upset over it, you can't control the past or other people - to a degree but you can control what you do.


Edited by Glacia (11/28/22 04:20 PM)


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: Glacia] * 3
    #28073990 - 11/29/22 04:54 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

@OP I hope you get the courage to go to therapy and to see a psychiatrist.  I hesitate to say this, but it seems like you may have some repressed issues that are manifesting on this manner. Regardless, how you are coping with the sexual guilt you have is very unhealthy.  At minimum therapy will let you explore these issues with an individual who has a qualified understanding of them.  You are reaching out here, so it seems like you want to be able to talk through this, that is best done with a professional.  Good luck.


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The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man. -- George Brenard Shaw


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: Ice9]
    #28077346 - 12/01/22 12:15 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

So well said Ice9 :justastonishing:


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: acrobaticelk]
    #28077387 - 12/01/22 01:17 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

Is it possible the fear, shame, and self-hatred you're experiencing has nothing to do with being circumcised?

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acrobaticelk said:

I did some reflection recently and I think I would like to have a romantic relationship but it just seems so pointless.




Why would you conclude an intimate relationship is pointless?

That's some seriously dangerous territory.


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
    #28078799 - 12/01/22 08:55 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

Because I hate sex.


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Anonymous #4

Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: acrobaticelk]
    #28079196 - 12/02/22 07:44 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

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acrobaticelk said:
Because I hate sex.




Don't knock it till ya try it bud!
Maybe you aren't someone who's gonna be into sex, some people truly aren't for who knows what reason despite most people wanting it so badly.  I love sex but I don't have to have it and can quite happily go months without it.  When things aren't right in life, I don't seek it out but when things are good and I do have sex, I freakin love it

Also, just because you don't like masturbation you can't say you wouldn't like sex.  It's two totally different things

You really do need to get out of your head though.  Many problems with people today involve being stuck in their own heads. It's a horrible place to live no matter who you are

I believe you'll find your way :fistbump:


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #28084081 - 12/04/22 10:23 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

Don't knock it till ya try it bud!

Fair enough, I'm working on it. I got a better job, changed my diet and started working out in the time since I made this post. I'm also trying to make some friends. Hopefully I will stop being such a self-pitying bitch over time.

You really do need to get out of your head though.

This is a good point and very true. It's also kind of why I made this post. I don't know how to get out of my head.
I feel like no matter how much work I do on myself, the sexual aspect of my lift will be fucked up. It's very demotivating.


Edited by acrobaticelk (12/04/22 10:23 PM)


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Re: How can I overcome insecurity with regards to sex? Personal info in post [Re: acrobaticelk]
    #28084390 - 12/05/22 08:24 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

Find an energetic healer who can help you deal w the trauma

For example Andrew Bartzis or Eric Raines

I agree most people wouldn’t be aware the root of the issues. Sex is a primal instinct I assume the trauma is what lies between you and enjoying sex

Therapy is good too if your ready to embrace it and truly work on accepting things the way they are/were


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