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OfflineVats of Blood
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sometimes your best friends are the best at bumming you out.
    #2793586 - 06/15/04 01:26 AM (13 years, 17 days ago)

i dont post in this forum much, and when i do, its always about the same person. for that i apologize.

and just as a disclaimer, i dont necessarily need advice. i just need to vent.

so theres a girl that i really like. for those of you that have read many of my posts you probably know that i have been very very single for the past 9 months (not counting a bullshit 2-week-long relationship with a somewhat [for lack of a better term] stupid girl).

anyways back to the point. the girl i really like. we're friends, and we've been friends since high school, but not super close, although we have a lot of things in common. she goes to school 2 hours north of me, and shes home for the summer.

so we went out to dinner tonight, which was really really good. good food, good conversations, just a good time. so when my roommate came home, i told him about my time, and we got to discussing the possible future with this girl. (also a bit of background - me and my roomie write music together, and we are trying to be focused so we can do something with it within the near future).

so i said to him that i thought it was kind of good that she lived far away because i dont really have time for a girlfriend on the weekdays anyways, what with school, work, and music.

the first thing he said to that (and mind you im very optimistic at this point, until this comment) was "im not going to let you do that." i was a little thrown back., needless to say. his reasoning was that we have a friend who was in a relationship with a girl at the same school and it ultimately wasnt good because of the distance (he was never around, never could hang out with us).

so while i understand that we need to be focused on music, im lonely, man. i am upset because when i finally find a girl that i could possibly have a future with, he has to go and immediately crush my hopes.

however, the most upsetting thing is that i know he's right.

thanks.


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Invisiblemolekyle
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Re: sometimes your best friends are the best at bumming you out. [Re: Vats of Blood]
    #2794086 - 06/15/04 08:10 AM (13 years, 16 days ago)

well your hopes arent depending on him or anyone else exceot that girl. you can tell him to fuck off for stepping on your feelings, not like "get out of my life-fuck off"- not at all.- more like "please show some respect-fuck off" you dont step on another mans dreams and hopes. i hope things works out with the girl :smile:


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Re: sometimes your best friends are the best at bumming you out. [Re: Vats of Blood]
    #2799413 - 06/16/04 04:08 PM (13 years, 15 days ago)

COUGHdowhatmakesYOUhappyCOUGH* :grin:


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Re: sometimes your best friends are the best at bumming you [Re: Vats of Blood]
    #2799850 - 06/16/04 06:26 PM (13 years, 15 days ago)

I don't really see what's the problem here, Vats.

He said his opinion, good for him.


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Re: sometimes your best friends are the best at bumming you out. [Re: Vats of Blood]
    #2800553 - 06/16/04 10:45 PM (13 years, 15 days ago)

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so we went out to dinner tonight, which was really really good. good food, good conversations, just a good time




How great can she be if the first thing you recall about your date is the food? :lol:  She sounds more like a friend.

My advice, hook up with a horny chick who lives within walking distance.


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Re: sometimes your best friends are the best at bumming you out. [Re: pattern]
    #2800723 - 06/16/04 11:21 PM (13 years, 15 days ago)

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pattern said:
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so we went out to dinner tonight, which was really really good. good food, good conversations, just a good time




How great can she be if the first thing you recall about your date is the food? :lol:  She sounds more like a friend.





The best romantic companions are sometimes friends first. 

My husband was and is my best friend.  :heart:


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OfflineVats of Blood
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Re: sometimes your best friends are the best at bumming you [Re: pattern]
    #2803847 - 06/18/04 12:13 AM (13 years, 14 days ago)

lol the order is not important...

i think i was drunk when i posted this anyways :p


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