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OfflineSpooge
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Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"?
    #2791474 - 06/14/04 03:05 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Spooge]
    #2791571 - 06/14/04 04:24 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

have you tried looking at lindsey lohans boobs yet


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Spooge]
    #2791584 - 06/14/04 04:32 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Feels good gettin all that off your chest, don't it?
The thing you gotta realize man is everybodys different. I bet most of the time you think your coming off as wierd, or different its just you trippin out, and isn't even noticeable to anybody else. people in general tend to react badly towards anything differant. Its just human nature, but your letting other peoples judgement, and opinions faze you way to much.
You seem like a good, honest dude. Just keep on bien yourself, don't give a fuck what other people think, and you auta be alright.


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Spooge]
    #2791601 - 06/14/04 05:05 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

I saw your post, and had to stop and think about my reply for awhile, because you seem to share the burden of bieng different, and finding it hard to get past the barrier of communication.
Socially i'm quite akward, and can't really find a peer group to fit in to. everybody know that i'm not part of anybodys herd. at the same time, i have very few real close friends.
Like last night i was at a party with a group of people. One is my homie brent, an inner circle nigger, and the rest is guys that i'v been partying with for a few years now. we hang in some of the same circles, and get trashed together every few weekends, but i'd never pick up the phone and call any of them without a reason.
and it was akward. It usually is. Socially i'm just not there. here on this board talking comes easy. I can stop and think about what im saying, but in face to face situations so much is lost in the comunication that it leaves me feeling isolated.
Just don't let that bother you. Its human nature. Some people deal with it by wearing popular clothes, and making lots of superfitial friends.
Thats not the way to go. allways be honest with yourself, and others. Thats how you make real friendships.


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Dreamer987]
    #2791611 - 06/14/04 05:18 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Dreamer987]
    #2791615 - 06/14/04 05:21 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

good post  :thumbup:


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Spooge]
    #2791864 - 06/14/04 11:15 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Hey entityexperiment, I can totally identify with what you are saying, man. I was like that for a long long time. Always as I kid I felt different, even alien- tripping made it even more so because I would have really different trips than all my friends, channeling and travelling to different dimensions and things like that.

Then I went through some things that made me more "normal". I found a partner totally opposite me that really brought me down to earth and balanced me out. We had kids so I stopped doing psychedelics (except for a little pot smoking) and that brought me even more down to earth. Now I know what it is like to be "normal". It isn't all that :lol: But it is nice to know what it is like. I even find myself missing being "weird" in some ways.

I don't know if you have heard of Rudolph Steiner. He was an Austrian philosopher. Amazing. Anyway, he has this theory that when we are born, we as spirit, need time to fully incarnate into our bodies. Many things can impede this process or help it along. I know that I wasn't fully incarnated for a long time, plus I am an air sign which compounded the problem- I was very spacey- cosmic even. :lol:  So if you relate to this, and I have an inkling that you will, there are things you can do to become more grounded. Let me know if you are interested. In the meantime, know that it is ok and that you are not alone.

I think you were right considering moving. I personally LOVE San Francisco- the diversity, the architecture, being able to walk everywhere, the wonderful open-minded attitude, the restaurants, the book stores, I guarantee you would fit in there and meet lots and lots of people who would accept you and love you as you are. I know I would! :heart:


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Spooge]
    #2792247 - 06/14/04 01:29 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Dude, I am almost exactly like that.  I get the exact same reactions from people.  Its all cool though, as long as youy have confidence... you can be the craziest dude on earth, but if you have confidence you can be looked upon is such a positive light.  If your crazy with no confidence, society will look at you as nothing.  Confidence is everything man... It took me a long winding road for me to find that out and get me out of my lazyness to actually front my confidence.

People have this game out there.  Like you say, the looks, the gestures, the "cool speech", speedy hip conversations about dumb things, the movements, the slang... you know what I mean.  Thats the "thing" nowadays, and if your out of it, your out of it... but if you have confidence you dont even need to be in it.  People you will like and whom you can like will dig your weirdness (alot of people do... helll... I love "off" people) and strike up conversations with you.  All you have to do is front your persona no matter how werid it is and front your confidence.  In the end nothing matters, no style, no way, no slang, looks or gestures... its all junk anyway.

I have the same problem as yours though, and it takes me a while to get people around me to get used to me, and when they do I make them deal with me, no matter how weird I am.  Some friends are even a little nervous about having new people around when I'm around, there might be and uncomfortable "he's-weird" like feeling in the air, but then I just make myself really out front weird in a comic way and in the end, everybody can dig it.  Can you dig?

I'm just to :laugh: when people are more  :cool: and  :smirk: and sometimes I'm too :wexican: and :craven: when people are like  :lol: and :mrt: But if you keep yourself all  :shiftyeyes: you will be looked at as  :3rd_eye:... so confidence builds the bridge IME.


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Spooge]
    #2792248 - 06/14/04 01:30 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

This needs to be moved to S&P.


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: filthysock]
    #2792259 - 06/14/04 01:34 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

filthysock said:

I'm just to :laugh: when people are more  :cool: and  :smirk: and sometimes I'm too :wexican: and :craven: when people are like  :lol: and :mrt: But if you keep yourself all  :shiftyeyes: you will be looked at as  :3rd_eye:... so confidence builds the bridge IME.




:lol:  :thumbup: :heart: You are so cool, Filthysock. All us weirdos should hang out in real life someday.


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Phishgrrl]
    #2792277 - 06/14/04 01:41 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

lol  :craven: yeah...


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Phishgrrl]
    #2792957 - 06/14/04 06:37 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

haha right on filthysock. :thumbup: That made me laugh.

good post phishgrrl.  Good posts by both and thanks for the words.  Yes I would like to know more(about the being grounded thing) if you wouldn't mind?

It's a hard situtation.  A lot of the time, I like being unique and different, weird, whatever you want to call it...but other times I don't.  I dunno, I guess I just wish I had the ability to turn it on and off when I please...you know what I mean?  Like, in certain situations, come off as a "normal" grounded person...but let the deeper part of my personality(the weird part  :wink: ) come out in a situation, when I feel comfortable it won't make a difference.  For example, having my weirdness showing more and more everyday at work...is not necessarily going to help me make it through this probationary period.

Thanks for the ideas from both. Totally can understand what you mean.

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You are so cool, Filthysock. All us weirdos should hang out in real life someday. 




haha damn straight!  Start our own weirdo club too!! hehe I'm such a dork.  Yeah, I'd like to move around more.  San fransisco would be cool that's for sure.


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Spooge]
    #2792992 - 06/14/04 06:47 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

are you ugly or somethin??

jk... i have the same problem, in that i seem to come off "standoffish" i've been told. people want to be my friend, but are afraid when they interact with me. i am a nice guy too, so it doesnt make any sense. i've just been told this by some of my close friends, that i intimidate people. the friends i do make i've been friends with for life. personally, i dont care about making new friends. i'm different also, but it isnt all a bad thing.. at least i dont think so


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Spooge]
    #2793080 - 06/14/04 07:28 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

also my best advice for you man, is to stop getting high or tripping. if you stop you will start to feel more grounded. chemicals will only mess with your psyche more. theres a lot of people out there that get really introverted from acid use, and mushroom use.


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Dreamer987]
    #2793897 - 06/15/04 04:19 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

The thing you gotta realize man is everybodys different.

Very true. Some are more differant than most, though :wink:


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Re: Is a change really needed? What it is to be "normal"? [Re: Spooge]
    #2793900 - 06/15/04 04:21 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Please read the PM I sent you!


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You're here because you know something.
What you know you can't explain,
But you feel it;
You've felt it your entire life.
That there's something wrong with the world.
You don't know what it is, but it's there....
Like a splinter in your mind...
Driving you mad.


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