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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: TrancedOutBrah]
    #27911402 - 08/20/22 02:23 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Well once I realized I didn't have to do anything a lot of the energy of life just got sucked out. Even more so when I realized that none of it matters when you die since you can't take any of it with you.

I've been to doctors, therapists, and on meds, but it never changed anything because it wasn't a chemical issue in the brain. It's a matter of philosophy and none of them could really give me a good reason to give a damn, despite me really hoping to be wrong.

Like there are things I believe that I want to be wrong about but so far the arguments are just the same prepackaged stuff that life is worthwhile and I just don't believe them. WHY? Just because they think so? They don't live my life or others lives so how can they make such a blanket statement?


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: starpig] * 2
    #27911511 - 08/20/22 04:04 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

I mean you sound insufferable, really.

You call it a philosophy, is it really? You so clearly want to connect with others, yet why would anyone want to connect with someone who doesn't even want to try the bare minimums in life? What are you going to talk about, how terrible life is?

You don't care to do anything, you don't care for anyone, you don't even WANT to try... I'm not sure what you want from this thread.

Nobody can give you the motivation you need to go out and do things to develop yourself, to develop hobbies.

You definitely sound depressed and lack motivation to do even the basic things in life.

You've tried every medication under the sun? You've talked with how many therapists? How far have you really gone in order to try to improve your life?

You either keep trying to improve your life or this will be it. Whatever this is.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: TrancedOutBrah]
    #27912335 - 08/21/22 11:32 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

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I mean you sound insufferable, really.

You call it a philosophy, is it really? You so clearly want to connect with others, yet why would anyone want to connect with someone who doesn't even want to try the bare minimums in life? What are you going to talk about, how terrible life is?

You don't care to do anything, you don't care for anyone, you don't even WANT to try... I'm not sure what you want from this thread.

Nobody can give you the motivation you need to go out and do things to develop yourself, to develop hobbies.

You definitely sound depressed and lack motivation to do even the basic things in life.

You've tried every medication under the sun? You've talked with how many therapists? How far have you really gone in order to try to improve your life?

You either keep trying to improve your life or this will be it. Whatever this is.



I have tried the bare minimums in life, like I already mentioned before, but nothing really sticks or interests me.

I literally just explained all of it on the last page.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: starpig]
    #27912351 - 08/21/22 11:54 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

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Well once I realized I didn't have to do anything a lot of the energy of life just got sucked out. Even more so when I realized that none of it matters when you die since you can't take any of it with you.

I've been to doctors, therapists, and on meds, but it never changed anything because it wasn't a chemical issue in the brain. It's a matter of philosophy and none of them could really give me a good reason to give a damn, despite me really hoping to be wrong.

Like there are things I believe that I want to be wrong about but so far the arguments are just the same prepackaged stuff that life is worthwhile and I just don't believe them. WHY? Just because they think so? They don't live my life or others lives so how can they make such a blanket statement?




Yeah, none of it matters when you die.  That means the only thing that matters is how you live.  Life is about the journey not the destination.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: starpig]
    #27912359 - 08/21/22 12:06 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

OP, I'm gonna go out on a limb and guess you spent most of your life staring at a phone and hijacking your brain
Now everything else in the world that is worth a damn seems too difficult to be worth the effort because it's not hitting your dopamine receptors like the shit on your phone or TV

That's a lame fucking excuse to say your problem has to do with your philosophy about life


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: TheStallionMang] * 1
    #27912500 - 08/21/22 02:29 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

All the things you've tried are entry level, team sports and karaoke lol. Try something a bit out of the norm. Take out a loan and go travel, like right now, be spontaneous. Throw your phone away and go to a country that doesn't speak English. Don't take a personal device, delete your social media if you have it. Jump in the deep end. It may not interest you to do this but one things for sure you'll have a he'll of a story that people will want to hear.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: TheStallionMang]
    #27912719 - 08/21/22 06:07 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

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OP, I'm gonna go out on a limb and guess you spent most of your life staring at a phone and hijacking your brain
Now everything else in the world that is worth a damn seems too difficult to be worth the effort because it's not hitting your dopamine receptors like the shit on your phone or TV

That's a lame fucking excuse to say your problem has to do with your philosophy about life




Quite the opposite in fact. I've pretty much been into every sort of activity their is from the general like bars, clubs, sports games, sports themselves, etc. To other stuff like gaming, tcgs, comics, gardening, fishing, shooting, hiking, etc. None of it really clicked in me at all, I would be over it in about a week.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: Markamello]
    #27912722 - 08/21/22 06:08 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

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All the things you've tried are entry level, team sports and karaoke lol. Try something a bit out of the norm. Take out a loan and go travel, like right now, be spontaneous. Throw your phone away and go to a country that doesn't speak English. Don't take a personal device, delete your social media if you have it. Jump in the deep end. It may not interest you to do this but one things for sure you'll have a he'll of a story that people will want to hear.




That is a terrible idea, especially since I wouldn't be able to get a loan with my student debt.

Seriously though that has to be the dumbest idea I've ever heard of and a quick path to an early grave.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: starpig]
    #27912742 - 08/21/22 06:25 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

It takes more than a week to get into anything
What are you into?


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: starpig] * 1
    #27912794 - 08/21/22 07:33 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Call it what you like but I've done it without a phone in south america for 20 months and Africa for 12 months. I did it pre smart device in Asia for a year and with a phone for a year in central america.

I'm fine.

In fact I learned so much about myself, the world, culture and life in general that the thought of starting an anonymous thread crying that I'm boring and have no friends has never crossed my mind.

I even learned multiple skills along the way to start up and ultimately sell 2 succefull business between my later trips to fund my travels.

Maybe I misunderstood the purpose of the thread because the question mark at the end of the thread title implied that you were looking for responses.

If life has taught me one thing it's that when you think you know how life works, you'll soon find out that you don't know shit. I don't pretend to act like I know everything in order to remain humble but you just may be an exception to that and it seems that you know every fucking thing so just keep on keeping on and existing as you are. It seems like it's all going to plan for you.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: Markamello]
    #27913048 - 08/22/22 12:55 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

I tend to agree with a few others…I even reached out to Starpig thinking “oh, starpig can’t be that bad” - well, how I was wrong!

You are your own worst enemy, it is your fault that you hold this perception of yourself and on life, in which I’d dare say is the reason you push people away or remove yourself before anything meaningful could occur.

I think you need a little more self reflection on what it is that you want from life moving forward and if that is more “personal” connection, then you need a change in the way you perceive people, yourself, and life in general.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: Markamello]
    #27913220 - 08/22/22 06:53 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

What you are is lucky. That doesn’t work out well for a lot of people. Hence why it’s a bad idea. You because you survived doesn’t mean anything.

I don’t pretend to know everything but I know that no matter where you go it’s not the different. None of it really answers the question of why give a damn when none of it ultimately matters?

It’s like that response about taking a vacation only to find out you can’t escape your mind or the nagging questions.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: Buster30]
    #27913222 - 08/22/22 06:57 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

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I tend to agree with a few others…I even reached out to Starpig thinking “oh, starpig can’t be that bad” - well, how I was wrong!

You are your own worst enemy, it is your fault that you hold this perception of yourself and on life, in which I’d dare say is the reason you push people away or remove yourself before anything meaningful could occur.

I think you need a little more self reflection on what it is that you want from life moving forward and if that is more “personal” connection, then you need a change in the way you perceive people, yourself, and life in general.




It’s not my fault I hold this perception on life, I didn’t choose to see life this way or to be convinced by whatever led me here.

I’ve done nothing but self reflection on the matter but it just leads nowhere. No matter how much I ask myself the question of what it is I want out of life or what to do I get nothing in return. Null. I’m as empty as I was 15 years ago as a teen. Nothing I try or get into moves or inspires me and it gets dropped in a week. I don’t think anyone would choose to be that way if they could help it .

I want to be able to have something I’m passionate about that moves me or gives me a reason to even tolerate this existence, but nothing I’ve tried has done that and every time I fail I lose a little more hope.

But then again that’s attachment which according to Buddhism is bad.

It’s likely that I am hollow, that there is nothing inside me, because how else can someone have tried a these things and still feel nothing towards it all.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: starpig]
    #27913268 - 08/22/22 07:39 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

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It’s not my fault I hold this perception on life, I didn’t choose to see life this way or to be convinced by whatever led me here.





Yeah yeah, you're just a victim of your own thoughts...

You never even said what things you "tried to get into"


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: TheStallionMang]
    #27913455 - 08/22/22 10:07 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

It’s a long list.

All I can really remember is that as a kid what I was interested in didn’t “make money”. I was interested in insects and the ocean, also art, but apparently none of that made money. It made me sad that what I cared about couldn’t make money and I’d have to pick a safe job.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: starpig]
    #27913911 - 08/22/22 04:33 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

If I’m being honest though it’s because I always quit something the minute there’s any set back, or effort or sacrifice that is required of me. So I never get more than a surface level of stuff and that’s why I never develop anything worth caring about, even in stuff I like and want to do.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: starpig] * 1
    #27919008 - 08/25/22 11:01 PM (1 year, 5 months ago)

Have you experimented with psychedelics? Im sure that would make your life and personality more interesting/creative to other people.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #27919137 - 08/26/22 05:04 AM (1 year, 5 months ago)

They really don’t do that and no I haven’t. They seem to have mixed results on people. I’m also sure drugs aren’t a substitute for a personality. Nor would they make my life more interesting.


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: starpig]
    #27920378 - 08/26/22 09:13 PM (1 year, 4 months ago)

But how can you know that without actually living thru the experience?


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Re: How to get a personality or make friends? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 1
    #27920573 - 08/27/22 01:39 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

The op has a personality, its just a negative, argumentative, know-it-all personality. People with personalities like this come across as dickheads so other people distance themselves from people like that.


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