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Offlinebeatlebangboy
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Re: Convince My Girlfriend To Dose With Me [Re: Grizzy]
    #2797619 - 06/16/04 02:42 AM (18 years, 1 month ago)

You know, today I discussed this post with her and I know that she will NEVER trip with me. You know what? I love her to the end of the earth and I don't give a crap if she ever trips with me. As long as she let's me be me. That's O.K. with me.


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Re: Convince My Girlfriend To Dose With Me [Re: beatlebangboy]
    #2798614 - 06/16/04 12:22 PM (18 years, 1 month ago)

Oh shit i had a good idea to help you out...give her one of Leary's books to show her that its not all about dirty Hippies getting fucked up and such...maybe thatd work with my gf better because she has no real drug experience...but i talked to mine about this last night and she seemed intrested...maybe we can take a small dose of shrooms together at the dead show.
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Re: Convince My Girlfriend To Dose With Me [Re: splifftoter]
    #2799800 - 06/16/04 06:06 PM (18 years, 1 month ago)

bealtebangboy - I truly wish I could meet your girlfriend, friend.

I have been successful, more than once - at having a buddy's lady or wife WANT to join us. Notice I never talked any of them into anything, but after spending a day listening to me talk of the trips - they, themselves, made the decisions to WANT to try it. Heck, at this point, right now - my buddy's wife wants to shroom MORE than he does - ha ha. No kidding. And she used to be all against it.


It's not that I tell them - "hey check this out." It's more like the way they observe what it has done to me, and my spirit and mind. I have a very extensive resume, professionally. I have conducted large business on a hell of a caliber for a young guy like myself. I have always been in GATE programs and ahead of the curve in school. I am a major outdoors lover, but I'm also a hunter and fisherman. I think that what happens is they see that I'm not trying to talk them into, but rather sharing with them the secrets of my success.

And most of all, I think this is probably the #1 reason:
I am, in myself - a walking example that flies against the speeches of all the anti's. I'm stable, nice, loving, good-looking(sorry, but I think it does count), spiritual, and "normal". I say normal because I'm not a tweaker. I'm not a wacko, I don't act funny, and I don't smell or anything. I'm a normal guy, and you would not NEVER EVER guess that I would even think of taking shrooms, let alone having done acid hundreds of times, and still looking to score tabs today... ha ha.

If you live anywhere in the western states, I'd like to ask you and yours to join my wife and I over some coffee or a beer sometime. Let's share stories of life and wonder. Who knows - it just may be the influence she needs to see to make herself WANT to be experienced. After all, I'm sure she and my wife have much in common - as my wife pretty much doesn't want to do it. They can share WHY they don't want to, and then my wife can tell her WHY it was important for her to try with me, and what additional joy, truth, and love it's brought to our lives.


"To fear the psychedelic trip is to fear the truth." <- Grizzy, 06-16-04


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Re: Convince My Girlfriend To Dose With Me [Re: beatlebangboy]
    #2800620 - 06/16/04 10:59 PM (18 years, 1 month ago)

Noone should be ever peer preasured into taking a psychedelic. Set, setting, and attitude are crucial. If she will not trip, but lets you alone within reason (don't stay fried constantly) leave be and she may come around, particularly if you let her be with you during a trip while she is sober. If she doesn't it is not important; couples do not have to have all the same interests. If she doesn't like or want to understand your practice and she will not ever do so then drop her like a hot potato as it will be an unending source of pain for you. I have been dealing with this issue for 20 years of marriage. Keep Leary's books away...she'll know your a drugged up lunatic if she reads that tibetan book of the dead spinoff.


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Re: Convince My Girlfriend To Dose With Me [Re: Huehuecoyotl]
    #2801188 - 06/17/04 02:48 AM (18 years, 1 month ago)

Not trying to be a dick but she actually found the book intresting...hell i could careless if she thinks im a drugged up crazy, she will still love me anyway...if she finds it intresting im not going to keep her from it...


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Re: Convince My Girlfriend To Dose With Me [Re: Grizzy]
    #2801950 - 06/17/04 11:57 AM (18 years, 1 month ago)

Here's the outcome, like I said she will NEVER trip with me. That's cool because it wouldn't be enjoyable if she spent 5-8 hours paranoid wishing to be straight. And I wouldn't want her to do that. That happened to me once after eating 3 1/2 grams of black opiated hash. I was beggin the good lord above to be straight and told god that I'll never do it again. I never did.
She has been with me once while tripping in the Keys. It was more of an issue with me than her. What I mean is that she was gung ho for me to have a great time. I, on the other hand, was constantly thinking to myself: Oh, she is watching everything I'm doing. Oh, she must think I'm going to turn retarded. Oh my god, she thinks shroomies are bad. It was more of a head trip for me than for her. And I got a tad paranoid. She just took me in a fetal position and hugged me till I felt better. Now that's a woman!!!!
So for now, I'll just enjoy shroomies with my shroomie friends and share love with my girlfriend (wife).
Thanks for all your input. Especially the book idea. I'm gonna get the books for myself.


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Re: Convince My Girlfriend To Dose With Me [Re: beatlebangboy]
    #2802064 - 06/17/04 12:46 PM (18 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

beatlebangboy said:
You know what? I love her to the end of the earth and I don't give a crap if she ever trips with me. As long as she let's me be me. That's O.K. with me.




Now that sounds like something she can truly find nirvana with.
peace to both of you,
Joe


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Re: Convince My Girlfriend To Dose With Me [Re: beatlebangboy]
    #2802153 - 06/17/04 01:29 PM (18 years, 1 month ago)

> You know, today I discussed this post with her and I know that she will NEVER trip with me.

We should respect her wishes not to trip the same way we would want her to respect our wishes to allow us to trip.


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Re: Convince My Girlfriend To Dose With Me [Re: Seuss]
    #2803590 - 06/17/04 10:34 PM (18 years, 1 month ago)

I think the guy has it squared away just fine.

And I totally understand him. Hell, everytime I shroom, I wish my wife was with me. Because otherwise, we're in different places in the universe, and she can't relate to what I'm experience. So - I start to feel a little apprehensive about her. But just like you said, if I need her - she'll cuddle with me until man's last day if need be.

Cheers to you and her. May you two enjoy each other forever.


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