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Someone offering friendly companionship of the nature of man and woman type. Not a phd in psych but has studied it in depth supposedly.
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Anonymous #3
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That would probably help the OP quite a bit. I was joking when I implied I wanted a PhD prostitute. I am actually looking to find a real relationship that’s not transactional.
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Anonymous #2
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Mate don't be so quick to judge. There are a lot of super smart women that work in that kind of industry because they can make a tonne of money for not a lot of effort. At least in Australia.
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At least you aren’t in Antarctica on a base
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Brian Jones
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Anonymous #3 said: That would probably help the OP quite a bit. I was joking when I implied I wanted a PhD prostitute. I am actually looking to find a real relationship that’s not transactional.
Trust me they're all transactional. Prostitutes are just cheaper.
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Anonymous #3 said: That would probably help the OP quite a bit. I was joking when I implied I wanted a PhD prostitute. I am actually looking to find a real relationship that’s not transactional.
Trust me they're all transactional. Prostitutes are just cheaper.

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Brian Jones said:
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Anonymous #3 said: That would probably help the OP quite a bit. I was joking when I implied I wanted a PhD prostitute. I am actually looking to find a real relationship that’s not transactional.
Trust me they're all transactional. Prostitutes are just cheaper.
I’ve had real relationships based on real connection. I would not describe them as transactional when both partners are truly invested and nurturing the relationship.
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Acuriousmycologist
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jack_straw2208 said: Dude just go to a massage parlor and join a sports team or something.
The problem isnt the amount of sex you aren't having, the problem seems to me to be how much time you spend thinking about it.
Jerking off is almost as good as boning when you factor all the risks and emotions into it
Fuck that guy, buy that sex toy, but please, focus on the things in life that make you actually happy.
All of which will make you a much more attractive prospective partner and more able to meet people.
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jack_straw2208 said: Dude just go to a massage parlor and join a sports team or something.
The problem isnt the amount of sex you aren't having, the problem seems to me to be how much time you spend thinking about it.
Jerking off is almost as good as boning when you factor all the risks and emotions into it
Fuck that guy, buy that sex toy, but please, focus on the things in life that make you actually happy.
All of which will make you a much more attractive prospective partner and more able to meet people.
Your signature is retarded just saying. Not everyone is fucked up and to try label them as such is a coping mechanism that's just flat out dumb.
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Acuriousmycologist
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Acuriousmycologist said:
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jack_straw2208 said: Dude just go to a massage parlor and join a sports team or something.
The problem isnt the amount of sex you aren't having, the problem seems to me to be how much time you spend thinking about it.
Jerking off is almost as good as boning when you factor all the risks and emotions into it
Fuck that guy, buy that sex toy, but please, focus on the things in life that make you actually happy.
All of which will make you a much more attractive prospective partner and more able to meet people.
Your signature is retarded just saying. Not everyone is fucked up and to try label them as such is a coping mechanism that's just flat out dumb.
That isn't what it's saying but project away
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Rache2020
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As I said in another post, the word incel has negative connotations, it's not a good thing to call yourself. It's ok to not be getting laid right now and it's really not that big a deal. Labelling yourself an incel just gets you thinking about it more and going to sites with other incels hating on women for all your problems-not saying you do this, but the word has that connotation.
All a guy has to do is keep asking women for dates until they find one who says yes and see where that leads...us women have to wait around to be asked, contrary to popular male opinion we are not being propositioned all day long everyday.
As for men who expect to get laid without talking to women, well see above-we are not going to be the ones to do the asking in general. You're going to have to put the work in, we expect to be asked out-no woman is gonna knock on your door. Yes it's 2022 but the general consensus is if a guy is interested in a girl he's gonna be the one doing the asking, that's just the rules of dating. Girls will do their best to show a guy they are interested first such as flirting/touching etc. but not all girls are comfortable with this and most men are crap at reading any of those signs anyway. Dating is complicated, it's not super easy for women either.
I really don't think you should go to a hooker that's just kind of sad, best to have your first time with someone you care about or at least is a genuine experience! But what do I know.
Edited by Rache2020 (06/05/22 06:37 PM)
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I still think that going on line and using an app based dating service is not a terrible idea. At least you know the women you approach want to be asked out. They’re there for the same reason as you. Just remember it’s not the same thing as shopping on Amazon. You still have to meet people and establish some kind of connection.
Yes this means you need a phone and you should probably find the $15-$25/month to pay for the service, but that’s a pretty low barrier to finding a girlfriend.
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Rache2020
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Shrooms4menow said: Ive asked 0 women for jack shit so far so Ive been rejected 0 times. The reasons for this are manifold- not only do I not want to look like a creep- I am not attracted to most women. A powerful personality is necessary but not sufficient to make me attracted to someone- I have to have this but move from ure interest to actual sexual attraction. This has never occured-
Why would asking a woman out make you look like a creep? The only thing creepy that would make a woman run a mile is calling yourself an incel. As long as you are not being sleazy or inappropriate there is nothing wrong with approaching women. Just smile and be friendly. How on earth do you ever expect to get close enough to a woman to get near to having sex if you never approach one? What do you think all the other guys who ARE having sex are doing? How you gonna win the lottery if you never buy a ticket?
You don't even sound that fussed about women from your posts either-are you sure you're not just worried about peer pressure or society telling you what you should be doing?
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Sparky93
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Join in social activities that require interacting with women in a non-sexual way. Working part time at a restaurant, bar, retail store, etc. will allow you to get to know many women as friends, which often leads to more.
Lower your standards of physical attraction. Many women are not beautiful until you get to know them intimately. When they decide they want you, you will pick up the signals. When that happens it feels amazing, regardless of how outwardly attractive they are (or aren't). Then let nature take it's course.
Be honest with yourself. From reading your posts it sounds like you might be into guys. If that is the case, own it. Take the plunge and give your heart and body what they really want. If this is the case, the first 2 suggestions still apply. Friends before lovers, look for the inner beauty.
Good luck brother
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