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My wife refuses to exercise 1
#27794302 - 05/26/22 08:03 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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My wife refuses to exercise and it is very frusterating to me
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Re: My wife refuses to exercise [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#27794396 - 05/26/22 09:16 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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Have you tried fucking her more
Plan activities that don't seem like exercise such as moshing at punk shows or going to the beach and going on long walks and fucking
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Anonymous #3
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Re: My wife refuses to exercise [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#27794533 - 05/26/22 11:54 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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ask her to go for walks with you. under the guise of spending time together/talking. then you get quality time together, and your both exercising. Maybe you can find out why she is feeling the way she is
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous #2 said: Have you tried fucking her more
Plan activities that don't seem like exercise such as moshing at punk shows or going to the beach and going on long walks and fucking
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Anonymous #5
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Be honest with her. Just tell her shes getting fatter by the day. Pinch her gut and ask "what is this?!" And finally when she talks about how shes getting fat, agree with her and acknowledge that she is fat.
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Is she fat? Be honest with her, tell her you don't like it, Get her to do a little every day, even if it's ten minutes it's the consistency that counts.
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I mean it's either she exercises or gets sick as she ages... diabetes, high cholesterol, high blood pressure..
I know that's not the case for everyone, but definitely majority of people.
You need to explain to her it's important to exercise because it's really for her health. The aesthetics is a bonus.
Get her into yoga maybe. I enjoy yoga when I don't want to use weights.
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Is there some reason she finds it uncomfortable to exercise?
Getting to the root of the problem will go a long way to helping.
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Buy her an oculus quest.
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Do you do everything you could be doing to be presentable and well kept? Do you have good hygiene and watch what you eat? Do you exercise regularly? Or make a point of it to continually show desire and interest in your partner?
My first thought when I read this is she's either happy and comfortable or she's unsatisfied one way or another. Make her feel sexy and she'll put more thought in to being sexy n stuff. Have you tried fucking her more?
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Offer to go to the gym with her - Make it a couples agreement
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Is this about being overweight? Weight loss is about diet. “You can’t outrun the fork”. If this is about fitness, she can be stronger and have greater flexibility and aerobic capacity from exercise and still be overweight if she exercises. I’m curious what your actual goal is for her.
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Anonymous #2 said: Have you tried fucking her more
Plan activities that don't seem like exercise such as moshing at punk shows or going to the beach and going on long walks and fucking
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Anonymous #6 said: Do you do everything you could be doing to be presentable and well kept? Do you have good hygiene and watch what you eat? Do you exercise regularly? Or make a point of it to continually show desire and interest in your partner?
My first thought when I read this is she's either happy and comfortable or she's unsatisfied one way or another. Make her feel sexy and she'll put more thought in to being sexy n stuff. Have you tried fucking her more?
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Re: My wife refuses to exercise [Re: Anonymous #7] 1
#27799183 - 05/30/22 03:22 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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In my experience both diet and exercise go hand in hand. I don't eat the best, but I am able to offset it through regular exercise.
So we did have sex on Saturday. I sucked on her pussy a little bit, she sucked on my dick a little bit then we fucked. Sunday morning I slept in longer than she did and when I woke up she proceeds to tell me that she cancelled her gym membership because she doesn't like being around the people. I told her I was suprised she hated it that much to just cancel her gym membership all together.
Fastforward to the evening and we are cooking dinner together. I fuck up the rice because I got the water ratio wrong for basmati rice. She proceeds to be a total ass and have a major attitude about it. I ask her why its such a big deal. She says she's mad because I can't accept the fact she won't go to the gym.
The problem isn't that she won't go to the gym, but that she does just enough to say she "tried". She does a short exercise video maybe twice a month and goes on a 5 minute walk maybe once a week. It's gotten to the point where even though I love her it's hard to get a boner unless she sucks my dick / I masturbate first and if I close my eyes and pretend I'm fucking sombody else. She says she wants to loose weight to improve health and appearance but she is just not trying enough and won't. Whenever I nicely make suggestions or encouragements she just gets mad at me. I'm not asking her to be a fitness model, I just want her to make a more serious effort.
We've been married for 5 years, when we were dating she told me she would loose weight but she just never has. She's spent almost 24 hours in the bedroom only coming out to use the restroom or when I'm outside of the apartment. She says she wants a divorce and half of the savings account which is over $100,000.00 and that she plans on leaving next weekend. She's said this dozens of times but has never gone through with in.
To put things in prospective I am 29 and she is almost 31. I weigh 195 pounds and she is somewhere around 230 pounds. I go to the gym 3 to 5 times a week for around an hour each time and on the weekends I try to go on a long walk for a few hours or several miles.
Am I really such an asshole for wanting my wife to exercise 3 times a week for 30-40 minutes each time?? I can't see it any other way than she is just being lazy. There are no medical conditions preventing her from exercizing. I do love her but its a huge turnoff that she won't even try for real.
Edited by Anonymous (05/30/22 03:29 PM)
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Anonymous #6
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You need to present it differently. Longevity and activity limitations, those come first. "Everything else is just a bonus."
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Anonymous #2
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Take her out to fancy dinners, you gotta rub that lamp dude. Find a way to pep her up from the inside out. It's like starting a lawn mower.
Focus on what you love about her, go easy on yourself while maintaining your current fitness regimen, do whatever ya gotta do to see her as sexy again and then kill her with kindness.
Not kill but *start*
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BlueAndOrange
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Re: My wife refuses to exercise [Re: Anonymous #2] 2
#27799545 - 05/30/22 08:53 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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Maybe accept that most people can’t out exercise a bad diet, especially if they’re already overweight. She probably doesn’t have the energy required to exercise enough to overcome her food intake.
I know how hard it is, but I also know it can be done. I was significantly overweight. I lost over half my body weight. I did most of it through nutrition, and only added in exercise after I lost enough weight and improved my energy levels. I have studied a LOT of nutritional material. I have tried everything from raw vegan to strict carnivore. The most success I have had was through a higher protein whole food based keto approach focusing on nutrient density. It’s addictive not ever being hungry and watching the pounds fall away.
I dropped from a 4XL to an L, and took 12 inches off my waist. Never exercising more aggressively than walking. And most of the time not exercising at all.
I exercise more now that I’ve hit my goal weight, have energy, and it’s less stress on my body.
Get involved with meal planning and cooking with her. It can happen fast. I averaged losing 10 pounds a month for over a year.
Suggested ideas: avoid high fat keto. Avoid processed foods. Look into P:E ratio based sources. Eat lots of varied low net carb veggies and healthy raised meat and fish.
Edited by BlueAndOrange (05/30/22 08:56 PM)
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That's really awesome BlueAndOrange. It's really cool to read about someone who has successfully lost and maintained a lower weight.
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BlueAndOrange
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Thanks. I’ve kept it off for over 2 years. It feels great to have done this after the age of 50. It is completely possible.
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