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theRealrollforever
I DID-DENT



Registered: 08/31/13
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How many times have you been rejected this week?
If the answer is less than 3 (kind of arbitrary but used for my point), you DO CARE about being rejected which is the crux of your issue. Getting numbers is a numbers game, pun intended. Then using those numbers to advance to a sex situation is another numbers game. if you feel like you need sex this bad you should be soliciting every chick you converse with. McDonald's drive thru? Tell her she's pretty and see if you can get her to write her number on the receipt. Cashiers are great to practice conversation on. There are plenty of ways to get rejected, just don't be creepy. Don't mention sex. Just ask them if they want to do (insert fun/weird thing here) that they would never do and tell them they're pretty or whatever to clarify your intentions. That way you hook less girls that will never pan out.
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“Women don’t owe you sex” is 💯 fax. In fact no one owns anyone sex period. But the rest is definitely cap. Just go to a pro and get it over with. Chances are once you get it out of the way it won’t be such a big deal to you and you can put it into proportion.
Also IME women don’t appreciate randos hitting them up at work and everywhere. That is Chad/PUA advice that works fine for some about 20% of the time but is a good way to just piss most ladies off. I got two friends, one is a player chad and he hits on every woman he sees. Works for him at least 1/4 of the time. Hell once I got laid just by being around him while he charmed the ladies. My other friend is pretty ugly and he also hits on every woman he sees. He’s been kicked out of more bars, gotten his ass kicked, been maced and has zero success. Two guys, same tactics, completely different outcomes.
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jack_straw2208
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Registered: 02/12/07
Posts: 3,115
Loc: Earth
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Self hypnosis idea:
Record a script on your phones voice memo recorder. Watch a YouTube video if you're unsure but I promise it is easier than it sounds.
The script should start with breathing and relaxation exercises for a few minutes.
Then it should move on to, whenever you have a negative thought about getting laid, let that be a trigger stimulus to do a set of push-ups or practice your scales on a keyboard.
Being small minded is no bar to success with women. You just gotta learn how to think stupid shit without saying it.
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Both that's been said is bullshit because you ARE over analysing this to the fucking extreme.
I said before go pay a hooker or prostitute. That's what I did when I turned 18 because I was insecure. I over analysed everything and got in my own head.
So I paid for a hooker and got it over with. Trust me most women have seen everything when it comes to dicks and if they haven't seen it they've heard it from another girl friend.
If you've got spare money and can afford to buy drinks at a bar then do that and talk.
I swear to god if your open and honest with a girl she will be happy to fuck a virgin unless she herself is one.
And no I'm not a Chad or something but for fuck Sake bro women aren't unicorns they're just people and they like sex as well.
It's all about effort mate and the only effort your putting in is on these forums. So go out and pay a prostitute or buy some drinks and get talking!!
I don't get girls coming and talking to me ever. Not once. Yet I still can talk to them and fuck them so if I can you can.
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And stop saying shit like incel! I think everyone here can agree that word is a red flag and if you put yourself in that group it's dangerous.
I'm assuming you live in the states because of the way you write.
You're not an incel your a virgin. You haven't tried so your not involuntary Celibate. You're voluntarily not having sex because you're not trying.
If it means enough to you to post this on a forum then you should be out every night at a nice bar or club or something trying and I bet you haven't.
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Shrooms4menow
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Registered: 01/31/22
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Last seen: 1 month, 13 days
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Ive asked 0 women for jack shit so far so Ive been rejected 0 times. The reasons for this are manifold- not only do I not want to look like a creep- I am not attracted to most women. A powerful personality is necessary but not sufficient to make me attracted to someone- I have to have this but move from ure interest to actual sexual attraction. This has never occured-
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Sounds complicated. You are making too much out of this.
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Shrooms4menow said: Ive asked 0 women for jack shit so far so Ive been rejected 0 times. The reasons for this are manifold- not only do I not want to look like a creep- I am not attracted to most women. A powerful personality is necessary but not sufficient to make me attracted to someone- I have to have this but move from ure interest to actual sexual attraction. This has never occured-
My god guy please stop and listen.
Sex is sex. If you've wanked before, sex ain't that much different.
You're attaching an emotional and Intellectual side that doesn't need to be and probably shouldn't be attached.
It sounds like you've spent way too long and way to deep of thoughts and have stuck yourself in a position where it's almost impossible.
And being open and honest doesn't make you a creep my guy. It makes you open and honest! Which women appreciate and find attractive.
Do you know how many older more experienced women out there would love to root a virgin guy? FUCKING ALLL OF THEM!
PLEASE for the love of all fuck. Go have a beer (or apple martini probably for you) and just talk to a woman.
Stop saying oh but I'm not attracted to this or that or she needs to be this or that. You're a virgin you don't have any right to be making demands of what a woman should be for YOU to have sex. All she needs to be, is of legal age and consenting. That's you're only two things, doesn't matter the size or colour or temperament or political view.
Pussy is pussy and that's that. Get your first one or two over with then start deciding what you really want. Or stay a virgin ( not an incel because you are voluntarily not having sex because you're standards are too rediculous ) It's not that hard or complicated dude I know rejection is scary and all that I was a virgin till I was 18 because I was insecure about stuff. Then I had enough and got hammered and paid a prostitute. And then I paid her and her friend for a threesome.
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And also change your post title because as I said you're not involuntary celibate. You're making a conscious decision to not persue women. And making excuses. You're being a pussy and yes I know you have autism, guess what bud, so do I.
Please my dude please. Go pay a hooker. I don't know where you are or if it's legal or not but I don't care.
They will sort you out and honestly it's no different than a guy who goes and pays someone to fix his car.
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jack_straw2208
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Registered: 02/12/07
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Loc: Earth
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Also it's good to keep in mind that people often become what they hate...
Not to make this political, but neonazis are supporting Russia, hippies are acting like cops, and cops are selling drugs.
Hate is not the answer, unless you want to die a virgin.
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Eminence



Registered: 07/25/10
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Loc: Richmond, VA
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The Russia comment is hilarious considering it's Ukraine that has Azov in their military lol. Although if you look at the people who fund them and their ethnicity/religion it hardly makes any sense
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The Blind Ass
Bodhi


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Re: I hate inceldom [Re: Eminence]
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militaries often have naziesque elements, including Russia.
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Eminence



Registered: 07/25/10
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Loc: Richmond, VA
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I'm just laughing at how the people that so often call people Nazis now vehemently sides with the country that has a dedicated group of people in the military wearing the sonnenrad or swastika on their uniforms, is all. But also like I said, their biggest funders are Jewish oligarchs so I'm not even sure what to think about it either.
But that's for another thread I guess I just had to mention that since I saw it brought up haha
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theRealrollforever
I DID-DENT



Registered: 08/31/13
Posts: 12,736
Loc: Bada-Bing!
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Quote:
Shrooms4menow said: Ive asked 0 women for jack shit so far so Ive been rejected 0 times. The reasons for this are manifold- not only do I not want to look like a creep- I am not attracted to most women. A powerful personality is necessary but not sufficient to make me attracted to someone- I have to have this but move from ure interest to actual sexual attraction. This has never occured-
So you have a 0/0 rate of success, maybe try once or twice before saying you cannot? Usually the person who says they can and they person who says they cannot are BOTH CORRECT
And I agree you're making too much of it. you're desperate to get laid but gonna make potential suitors jump through multiple imaginary hoops for you to shoot your first ever shot?
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Edited by theRealrollforever (05/18/22 08:09 AM)
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Quote:
theRealrollforever said:
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Shrooms4menow said: Ive asked 0 women for jack shit so far so Ive been rejected 0 times. The reasons for this are manifold- not only do I not want to look like a creep- I am not attracted to most women. A powerful personality is necessary but not sufficient to make me attracted to someone- I have to have this but move from ure interest to actual sexual attraction. This has never occured-
So you have a 0/0 rate of success, maybe try once or twice before saying you cannot? Usually the person who says they can and they person who says they can are BOTH CORRECT
And I agree you're making too much of it. you're desperate to get laid but gonna make potential suitors jump through multiple imaginary hoops for you to shoot your first ever shot?
I think we need to start a go fund me for this guy to get a hooker.
Or a therapist
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I’d donate for a therapist/dating coach. I don’t think the hooker solves the actual problem.
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Anonymous #4
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Get a hooker with a PhD in psychology, problem solved.
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Anonymous #3
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Anonymous #4 said: Get a hooker with a PhD in psychology, problem solved.
Those are hard to find. (So I’ve heard…)
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Anonymous #4
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You are in luck. There happens to be one that is well studied in the field of psychology that is a member of the shroomery right now.
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Anonymous #3
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A hooker with a PhD in psychology? I’d be surprised.
I have no doubt there are PhDs on this site.
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