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SharaVabdas



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Re: Question *DELETED* [Re: Lynnch] 2
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r3volution.gurl



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Lynnch said: I dunno man, are you planning on having kids? Your wife gains some baby weight, are you going to drop her? (I would hope not) My point is just that, along with making changes for your partner, it can be necessary to overlook superficial things in the long term. I think that's in line with what you're getting at talking about emotional connection.
Fuuuck no we're not gonna have kids. She's an anti-natalist and I enjoy my freedom. We are surgically sterilized and even if we changed our minds, which we won't, we would choose adoption long before we would yank an unsuspecting soul from the void to live in this hellscape.
We're both already chubsters. I'm not concerned about a bit of voluptuousness. She's expressed some concern that I might be less attractive if I lose too much weight. That's a pretty unlikely scenario at this point, though.
This is the main problem with the people criticizing this thread. Y'all really have no idea the context behind the decisions being discussed, yet y'all jump to conclusions about our mindset and how it might change.
The fact of the matter is that attractiveness matters in romantic relationships and it is normal for partners to expect some attempt to maintain attractiveness.

We're going to foster or adopt too. Respect.
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Edit: oops. I deserved that...
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SharaVabdas



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r3volution.gurl



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So I took my bf shopping yesterday, I got him some really nice stuff also took him out for dinner for his bday. Was already wearing his new hat and jacket. Caught a few young ladies checking him out which I am ecstatic about.
Still missing shoes, dressy casual pants, sweater and cologne. So hopefully we'll have time either today or tmrw to find that. The salon was a no go so far. I was told his hair needs to grow out more cause even though it's long, it's not at all on the sides. He's still unsure and saying no about the dye, but I'm pushing it hehe. He did shave his face much shorter though which is nice.

I just want to say thank you for the advice and support throughout the thread.
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r3volution.gurl



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SharaVabdas said: My dad abused me nearly to death before I was six years old.
Sorry to hear that btw
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SharaVabdas



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Lynnch
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I don't think revgurl even has a boyfriend, this thread is clearly a thinly veiled attempt to remind us old hippies to cut our hair. And for that, I have to thank you, I definitely need a haircut, thanks revgurl
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r3volution.gurl



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Re: Question [Re: Lynnch]
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3 Go D3ath
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This seems like a pretty shallow concern. If you truly love someone you wouldn’t be concerned about aging, gray hair, etc. You simply love them for who they are & the way they make you feel. Maybe you should reevaluate what’s truly important in life.
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r3volution.gurl



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Where did I say I was concerned?
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  "Souls love. That’s what souls do. Egos don’t, but souls do. Become a soul, look around, and you’ll be amazed-all the beings around you are souls. Be one, see one. When many people have this heart connection, then we will know that we are all one, we human beings all over the planet. We will be one. One love. And don’t leave out the animals, and trees, and clouds, and galaxies: it’s all one. It’s one energy." -Ram Dass
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