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OfflineSkizor1337
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    #27698585 - 03/17/22 08:18 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

The more I enjoy the things I like the more I jokingly think I was supposed to end up on a different planet haha.
It's been years and years since I met someone I considered "on similar wave length" more or less mentally
It might have to do with the fact I do my very best at taking care of myself physically but even more importantly mentally. Life can be hard but deep down I was a born fighter. Even in some of my scariest and darkest days in life that seemed to go on forever I knew with a %100 fact the shit would end and I would be OKAY. And yea I was correct because right now everything is very solid and I'm happy. There are some things I'd like to tweak here and there but overall I'm loving my position. Now with this being said and also being single I find it extremely frustrating with "What" I run into.

To be completely honest I can't even remember the last time I met a female I thought was on the same wave length as me. To make it easier I mean a chill and clear headed kind of wave. Might be because I enjoy tripping, meditation, lifting as well as smoking weed here and there but Still lol. I keep things very cooool and don't have much to worry about so I'm looking for someone that can just match the vibe I have. All previous ex girlfriends had that in common. Now the reasons we broke up was unrelated to this so I digress. 

This doesn't just stop with trying to find a girlfriend. This applies to guys my age, younger, or even sometimes older. Trying to find a guy friend is sometimes even harder IMO. And trust me I have tried :pipesmoke:

I find it very strange overall. Anyone else have a similar experience? I just accept it at this point because I have my own 8-5pm life to do and bills to pay but still as an extroverted person I wish things we different.


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: Skizor1337]
    #27698611 - 03/17/22 08:47 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

I’m in this situation greatly.

Alpha female, not the ball busting type — I love to be of service to people but I have a career, I 100% sole provider for my two children; I enjoy intellectually expanding myself. I’m alert in changes internally to my mental and emotional state, I ride the energy really well.


The more self aware, the more settled in life you are, the less people will be on your wave.


It takes a lot of experience to surf a huge wave, all the newbies can’t do it, the ones that don’t practice can’t do it, etc.


So only the masters.


It is limiting, but don’t change. Be fair in expectations. Adaptable, and enjoy the ride.


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: Jewstress] * 1
    #27698678 - 03/17/22 09:57 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

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Yawntobed said:
I’m in this situation greatly.

Alpha female, not the ball busting type — I love to be of service to people but I have a career, I 100% sole provider for my two children; I enjoy intellectually expanding myself. I’m alert in changes internally to my mental and emotional state, I ride the energy really well.


The more self aware, the more settled in life you are, the less people will be on your wave.


It takes a lot of experience to surf a huge wave, all the newbies can’t do it, the ones that don’t practice can’t do it, etc.


So only the masters.


It is limiting, but don’t change. Be fair in expectations. Adaptable, and enjoy the ride.





Aye! Thanks for sharing. I'm glad I'm not alone here haha.
I wouldn't trade self awareness for anything


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: Skizor1337]
    #27698704 - 03/17/22 10:27 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

Yea man, it can be hard. Particularly with the drug use thing. Either I meet someone who's like "Weed? No thanks, OMG you've done acid, isn't that a HARD drug?? omg you're crazzzzy!" at which point I decide not to tell them about any of the other stuff I've done :lol: or they're a straight up junkie raver party-girl who I wouldn't trust in my house.. I just want someone who would be down to trip here and there, but is also, like, an adult :lol:

Sometimes you have to accept that you're not in the mainstream, and so it makes sense that not everyone is for you.

Really feel you about the guy friends thing.. mostly I just think 'why would I ever want to hang out with this person?' hanging out with girls I enjoy, cuz, ya know.. but guys? We're gonna sit around and drink beer and watch football? Meh.


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: Lynnch] * 2
    #27698941 - 03/17/22 02:17 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

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Yea man, it can be hard. Particularly with the drug use thing. Either I meet someone who's like "Weed? No thanks, OMG you've done acid, isn't that a HARD drug?? omg you're crazzzzy!" at which point I decide not to tell them about any of the other stuff I've done :lol: or they're a straight up junkie raver party-girl who I wouldn't trust in my house.. I just want someone who would be down to trip here and there, but is also, like, an adult :lol:

Sometimes you have to accept that you're not in the mainstream, and so it makes sense that not everyone is for you.

Really feel you about the guy friends thing.. mostly I just think 'why would I ever want to hang out with this person?' hanging out with girls I enjoy, cuz, ya know.. but guys? We're gonna sit around and drink beer and watch football? Meh.




Yea not into sports. I like deep and intellectual stuff but idk it's strange. In college people were always down for something interesting or even conversations. I still feel like the dude from 2012 just wiser, more mature, and established. Always the same damn kid though. Loving shrooms and smoking weed. Except now I pay bills but also have a little kingdom to call as my own. IDK maybe it's just us who are not fit for the crazy wild world that has rapidly changed so much in the past 10 years. Who knows


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: Skizor1337] * 1
    #27700183 - 03/18/22 01:07 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

There's so few people living the life you do. It's difficult for majority of people to balance a 9-5 job, be physically, mentally stable and be capable of having deep discussions relating to existence, consciousness, society and nature as examples. 9-5 jobs frankly suck the life out of people lol and our society in general encourages people to be close minded. There are also a ton of distractions such as sports, news, social media etc. which can make people who aren't dependent on these distractions feel indifferent.

I made the plunge to start living off grid two years ago (still in progress). Living there and getting to know the people who lived around me, I met a lot of people who were exactly what I couldn't find in the city and they came from all places of the country trying to accomplish the same goals as myself. Now we have our own community working on projects together such as forest rehabilitation. I could only dream of relating to my friends and family in the city that way.


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: r3volution.gurl]
    #27705494 - 03/23/22 07:42 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

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There's so few people living the life you do. It's difficult for majority of people to balance a 9-5 job, be physically, mentally stable and be capable of having deep discussions relating to existence, consciousness, society and nature as examples. 9-5 jobs frankly suck the life out of people lol and our society in general encourages people to be close minded. There are also a ton of distractions such as sports, news, social media etc. which can make people who aren't dependent on these distractions feel indifferent.

I made the plunge to start living off grid two years ago (still in progress). Living there and getting to know the people who lived around me, I met a lot of people who were exactly what I couldn't find in the city and they came from all places of the country trying to accomplish the same goals as myself. Now we have our own community working on projects together such as forest rehabilitation. I could only dream of relating to my friends and family in the city that way.





Now that you put it that way it makes sense. I'm so glad I never decided to move into a city I would have lost it.


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: Skizor1337]
    #27710049 - 03/27/22 12:46 AM (1 year, 9 months ago)

Yeah same, I'm so glad I'm moving out of the city lol

If you can pinpoint what people with your interests generally are up to, you can figure out where to find them and hopefully connect.


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: Jewstress]
    #27710588 - 03/27/22 02:17 PM (1 year, 9 months ago)

Skizor, I feel ya.  I haven't met a woman I felt I vibed with in over 20 years, and it turns out I was wrong about her anyway so...

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Yawntobed said:
The more self aware, the more settled in life you are, the less people will be on your wave.





This is soooo true.  I've gotten to where I can't stand to have people in my life unless they are fairly self aware which has left very few people and the few that are left are close to getting cut out because I just can't stand the one-sided self-centered bullshit anymore.  I've cut out friends, mom, and currently spouse.  All have been told why and most were warned in advance but it doesn't matter, when I pull back they all act so fucking shocked that it's unbelievable.  I see them pretend to care about such things and they can notice and be bothered by other people's lack of self awareness but if I try to let them know about their own room for improvement in that department, I quickly realize how little they truly care about being self aware and I have to back away slowly
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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: TheStallionMang]
    #27714063 - 03/30/22 01:22 PM (1 year, 9 months ago)

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Skizor, I feel ya.  I haven't met a woman I felt I vibed with in over 20 years, and it turns out I was wrong about her anyway so...

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Yawntobed said:
The more self aware, the more settled in life you are, the less people will be on your wave.





This is soooo true.  I've gotten to where I can't stand to have people in my life unless they are fairly self aware which has left very few people and the few that are left are close to getting cut out because I just can't stand the one-sided self-centered bullshit anymore.  I've cut out friends, mom, and currently spouse.  All have been told why and most were warned in advance but it doesn't matter, when I pull back they all act so fucking shocked that it's unbelievable.  I see them pretend to care about such things and they can notice and be bothered by other people's lack of self awareness but if I try to let them know about their own room for improvement in that department, I quickly realize how little they truly care about being self aware and I have to back away slowly
:homerlurk:





Damn crazy to think I'm not alone here. I feel like self awareness doesn't have to come from trippin either. Like I swear maybe taught at a young age or something but yea it's really rough out here. I am quite thankful I have some online gaming friends who would 100% be my best friends if we lived closer haha. So to the outside world I'm just a guy who stays home and plays video games and explores nature alone. Then again this dude is open and willing to become close to anyone who's at least 75% on my same wave length. Been questioning a lot of things lately ever since I moved out on my own again recently. Slowly restarting my inner spiritual journeys as well. I know that's where I'll find my answers and peace. Just got to relax and focus on what I can do for myself.

Appreciate the comments!


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: Skizor1337]
    #27725043 - 04/07/22 08:49 PM (1 year, 9 months ago)

Personally I just think we are old souls my man.
Heavy is the head you know? (I mean that in the humblest of ways)

We are just drastically out numbered. IMO it’s our duty to share share our wealth of experience and intuition, help these young souls out. Covertly if need be.

I was was lucky enough to find the love of my life at a young age, 23 years later still strong as ever,
But,
If it wasn’t for her and our family I would absolutely be off grid somewhere foraging and growing cannabis & mushrooms for a living :shrug:


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: Soloist]
    #27736122 - 04/15/22 03:16 PM (1 year, 9 months ago)

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Soloist said:
Personally I just think we are old souls my man.
Heavy is the head you know? (I mean that in the humblest of ways)

We are just drastically out numbered. IMO it’s our duty to share share our wealth of experience and intuition, help these young souls out. Covertly if need be.

I was was lucky enough to find the love of my life at a young age, 23 years later still strong as ever,
But,
If it wasn’t for her and our family I would absolutely be off grid somewhere foraging and growing cannabis & mushrooms for a living :shrug:




I agree haha. I don't wanna be in the woods somewhere and would LOVE to have my Girl who I can trip with forever and ever and still have a normal covert life.


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Re: Living on the wrong planet [Re: Skizor1337] * 1
    #27736147 - 04/15/22 03:32 PM (1 year, 9 months ago)

I hope you find what you are looking for.
Just love one day at a time and don’t fight the current.

Edit: I meant to write live one day at a time but…


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