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Anonymous #1
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Relationships
#27715081 - 03/31/22 07:29 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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I've never been in a relationship before serious or non. Been isolated enough that I've given up all hope and faith for one. I consider it pathetic
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Anonymous #2
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It's all about what you do with your time. We all want things but ultimately we rarely get what we really want and tend to want what other people have. I love my life, but it's not like I can't imagine the life of a bachelor either. There are 8 billion people out there my guy. There's nothing special about getting wifed up even if it sounds appealing. Do something interesting
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Anonymous #1
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Yeah I hear that! But allow me to further explain. I do realize that "getting wifed up" isn't very appealing to me at all for a myriad of reasons. But, for a person of my age I think I secretly crave a relationship even if its just a FRIENDSHIP. friendships are relationship s right? I've begun reading a novel which is something I haven't done in an extremely long time. I know reading isn't considered interesting but still its a goal of mine to finish it. Also begun walking about an hour a day outside
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r3volution.gurl



Registered: 10/20/21
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Loc: Canada
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What's the reason you believe you're incapable of forming a relationship?
I understand the isolation aspect. Just wondering if you could be more specific.
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kreg
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Registered: 09/14/21
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Anonymous #1 said: I've never been in a relationship before serious or non. Been isolated enough that I've given up all hope and faith for one. I consider it pathetic
don't be an "incel". You know at the very least somewhere is some girl that is beneath your standards that will do crazy things to you. In the mean time, what are you doing for you
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Relationships [Re: kreg] 1
#27726628 - 04/09/22 02:27 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Thanks all for your input. I just feel that until I get some things worked or figured out about myself then a relationship would be doomed from the start. A little tidbit about me is I'm. A huge introvert and ive never had relations or even kissed a chick. But to be brutally honest most if not all of it is my own fault
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r3volution.gurl



Registered: 10/20/21
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Loc: Canada
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Anonymous #1 said: Thanks all for your input. I just feel that until I get some things worked or figured out about myself then a relationship would be doomed from the start. A little tidbit about me is I'm. A huge introvert and ive never had relations or even kissed a chick. But to be brutally honest most if not all of it is my own fault
I need you to be more specific on what exactly you think you need to have figured out. I can send you some material regarding forming relationships while being a huge introvert if you'd like.
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  "Souls love. That’s what souls do. Egos don’t, but souls do. Become a soul, look around, and you’ll be amazed-all the beings around you are souls. Be one, see one. When many people have this heart connection, then we will know that we are all one, we human beings all over the planet. We will be one. One love. And don’t leave out the animals, and trees, and clouds, and galaxies: it’s all one. It’s one energy." -Ram Dass
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kreg
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Anonymous #1 said: Thanks all for your input. I just feel that until I get some things worked or figured out about myself then a relationship would be doomed from the start. A little tidbit about me is I'm. A huge introvert and ive never had relations or even kissed a chick. But to be brutally honest most if not all of it is my own fault
right on sounds like you're on the right track
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Relationships [Re: kreg]
#27729751 - 04/11/22 02:11 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Well, it kind of bothers me that I don't have ANY DIRECTION whatsoever. I don't know what career I want. I don't know where I stand on religion. I'm a 100% heterosexual male so when I say "I need to figure out who and what I am" I don't mean my sexuality. The isolation and severe anxiety and depression over the years makes my brain feel like a pile of goop. The fact that I'm the age I am and I'm a virgin makes me feel subhuman.
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