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OfflineShrooms4menow
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Advice on finding apartner * 2
    #27706320 - 03/23/22 10:43 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

I am a 22 year old autistic male who probably has Schitzophrinia as well as autism and I am still a virgin. However, I want sex despite being iffy about being touched, which is very confusing and frustrating. More importantly I don't know anyone, have very limited communication skills and am very shy- I would probably be the submissive partner.

So what I need is a truly deranged girlfreind, preferably on cocaine,


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: Shrooms4menow] * 4
    #27706355 - 03/23/22 11:38 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

Make a tinder profile and use the OP as your bio. They will love it.


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: ApostleofAzathoth]
    #27706546 - 03/24/22 07:19 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

what the people on tinder-


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: Shrooms4menow] * 3
    #27706629 - 03/24/22 08:58 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

You need fetlife... tinder chicks won't know what to do with you


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: HyphaeHooligan]
    #27706773 - 03/24/22 10:43 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

but i dont have fetishes. Although a bdsm chick may work best just because Id probaly need the aggressiveness


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: Shrooms4menow] * 2
    #27706882 - 03/24/22 12:08 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

Everybody has fetishes. You just don't know what they are yet.
People in the BDSM community are typically slightly more conscious of humans and how they feel. BDSM also doesn't just mean chains and whips. It's a pretty broad spectrum. Everyone falls somewhere on it. Fetlife will allow you to voice what you want in a place that welcomes those sort of specific preferences.


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: HyphaeHooligan]
    #27709673 - 03/26/22 04:23 PM (1 year, 9 months ago)

Yeah but I dont know who the fuck is going to reply- how am I supposedto do that?


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: Shrooms4menow]
    #27710041 - 03/27/22 12:38 AM (1 year, 9 months ago)

I would work on making some friends first. Preferably, with no intentions of becoming partners. Build up some communication and relationship skills with friendships.

One of my best friends is autistic and unfortunately physically disabled. He could make friends, but would lose them easily when he used their friendship as a way to try and form a romantic relationship with them which is why I advise not to do that.


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: Shrooms4menow]
    #27710188 - 03/27/22 06:53 AM (1 year, 9 months ago)

Okay i say fetlife because those people are more open and it's wayy easier to talk to them...
R3vo.gurl has a point though. You should probably work on how to build a simple relationship with open communication. If you are having trouble meeting anyone then fetlife has meet ups called munches where everyone just goes out to eat togetheror something. Just find one in your area. Don't go soliciting your dick around... that'll get you less friends. people deserve respect. You gotta talk to people, make friends, let em know you're on the spectrum and they should be fine. Things will happen naturally.


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: HyphaeHooligan]
    #27710422 - 03/27/22 11:31 AM (1 year, 9 months ago)

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Shrooms4menow said:
but i dont have fetishes. Although a bdsm chick may work best just because Id probaly need the aggressiveness




Fem doms are not necessarily aggressive personally. You may be looking for someone who is socially dominant but normal sexually. But maybe both is what you're looking for.

But either way you are NOT looking for someone 'deranged' and 'on cocaine'. Have more respect for yourself. It is better to be single than to have a deranged girlfriend on cocaine - I should think that is pretty obvious.

A person can be dominant without being mean, malicious or selfish. The image of the 'dominatrix' is not accurate to the way most dominant women live with their partners.

For an idea of what it might actually be like to date a dominant woman, this blog is good. It is a mix of erotica and real-life relationship problems that'd occur in a relationship of that nature. Obviously she does things a certain way and others differ, but you get the idea.

Good dominants do it equally to help the submissive as for their own pleasure, or they may even priviledge the other person's needs even though they are the ones who are supposed to be 'in control'. Power is responsibility.

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HyphaeHooligan said:
People in the BDSM community are typically slightly more conscious of humans and how they feel. BDSM also doesn't just mean chains and whips. It's a pretty broad spectrum. Everyone falls somewhere on it. Fetlife will allow you to voice what you want in a place that welcomes those sort of specific preferences.




Fetlife can be good but must be used properly! It is not a dating site. It is to connect to community. You use it to find events near you.

Munches are little get-togethers of kinky people. They are always in public places, no fetish wear. I'd say find a local munch and give it a try if this idea appeals to you. Awkwardness is expected and people tend to be looking out for new people to welcome. Be very careful about anyone who wants to isolate you though, the community is the way to go, lots of people claim to know BDSM and they are just pretenders who don't understand safety or worse, users and abusers. The community is how people are vetted and prove themselves there.

But if BDSM is not actually inherently attractive to you, you won't like a munch either.


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: Shrooms4menow]
    #27710427 - 03/27/22 11:37 AM (1 year, 9 months ago)

Love is transient. It's only the lucky few that find it at the right time and hold on to it. What I'm saying is, it'll come when it comes and appreciate it while it's there. Just work on yourself and finding contentment, the rest falls in to place when the time is right. I like to think of it like fishing. Unless you're going for a particular kind of fish then patience is the game, not casting over and over again hoping your activity will make things work better. No, most of the time a good fisherman will spend most of his time with his rod in his hand(:smilingpuppy:) and a beer in the other. The best way to enjoy fishing is to not care if you catch one, and just be there for the experience in the mean time


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Re: Advice on finding apartner [Re: Shrooms4menow]
    #27718375 - 04/02/22 05:57 PM (1 year, 9 months ago)

I would look into Adult Friend Finder. You might find someone who is open to your situation.


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