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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27679778 - 03/02/22 02:30 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Invest in a fucking machine!
You could explore other avenues too, such as role play, bondage, etc, see where that gets ya.
The two of you could always look into swinging also.
The solutions are everywhere the problem isn't.
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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27679807 - 03/02/22 02:59 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Is this something new or has he always been lame in bed? 10 years is along time to go unsatisfied....
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#27679816 - 03/02/22 03:10 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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There are definitely attractive swingers. You just have to find the right crowd
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#27680394 - 03/03/22 12:57 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Hot pics. 
Thanks for sharing 
Some guys just arent built for wild and crazy "porn sex". Its like a gift for some guys. I think you have no choice but to open up your marriage to other guys and in trade, he gets to have sex with other women, to keep everything fair.
I feel like monogamy in the long run just isnt practical.
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#27681907 - 03/04/22 02:41 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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I think it's important to remember the fact that it sounds like everything else but sometimes the sex is going well. That's what is actually hard to find in someone. Don't play games or cheat, that's not going to help in the end. It sounds like you have good morals and won't go that route anyways, which is cool. I don't think you should lose hope with this.
Definitely have more sex and talk about it as well while tripping together. Sex on mushrooms can be awesome, as well as the ability to connect deeper about stuff. I'm not usually interested in sex when I'm full blown tripping, and physically it doesn't usually work then...but towards the beginning or the end of a trip it seems to work out better. If you have access to MDMA and are interested, that would be a good thing to try together too. I definitely last longer having sex on that, and it's a great tool for talking about things as well. Alcohol can negatively affect sex(and communication) sometimes, especially a little too much...maybe keep an eye on that.
It would probably help if he masturbated more, but you can't exactly make someone do that. You should play around with edging with him though, I think that would help for sure. Not fingering while eating pussy is lazy, sorry, that's not difficult(my apology if he has bad wrists, lol) Reach around clit rub from behind is more tricky especially if you want him to do that while giving it to you rough. You should get a foam wedge or put pillows under your lower back/hips so he can hit your g spot easier if he doesn't want to/can't work angles.
Communication is key obviously. If you bring this kind of stuff up in a cute playful way, especially in the moment...you're much more likely to get through how you want to IMO. Maybe you can gradually turn him into the beast you want him to be sometimes.
Awesome body, btw. You have nice nipples and perfect pubic hair length.
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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27682140 - 03/04/22 07:49 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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I am like the male version of you. But worse. In my 50s. Married for 25 years to a woman who never "enjoyed" sex. I LOVE SEX!
I would try to go down on her and she would push me away. She never let me lick her. Just the old in and out. A few times when I beg she would reluctantly suck me in the early days. Sex became less and less frequent, and feel more rapey. She says it's uncomfortable. She would NEVER reach out and touch my body unless I ask her to.
I can only fantasize about what it would be like to have a wild woman again. Mostly I miss licking pussy. (I have had several ex-girlfriends who enjoyed having sex!)
She also hates all drugs except alcohol. And my state just legalized cannabis.  But I love her, so that's it.
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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #8]
#27682450 - 03/04/22 12:06 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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That sounds awful Anon #8. I couldn't do it.
Anon #1 Ive read that even lesbians like gay porn in some cases. Im sure many women dream of a threesum with 2 guys who are bi. Women seem to be more open minded about sex and attraction in my experience.
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#27682575 - 03/04/22 02:18 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous #7 said: Im sure many women dream of a threesum with 2 guys who are bi.
Hell yeah
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#27686876 - 03/08/22 12:04 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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I bet not very many guys dream of having a threesome with 2 bi girls though...j/k.
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#27686883 - 03/08/22 12:22 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah, there's probably a couple of them out there I bet.
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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27686900 - 03/08/22 12:45 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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First of all, you should tell your boyfriend/husband all of this stuff if you haven't already. That's step 1.
Let's say things stay the same forever. How long could you live like that? It's a legit choice to choose to live like you are now forever, but that would be the choice you'd have to make. You'd be choosing the person you're with over your sexual fulfillment, and if you love that person enough that can be a legitimate decision. Many people have done it for many generations.
The alternative seems like breaking up, either now or eventually. But that comes with risks too; you might find yourself in the same situation with someone else, or with different problems altogether. You have to choose what you're willing to deal with, and it's a gamble every time. You never know how things are going to turn out.
If you tell him and nothing changes in the long run, then you really have to decide how important this is to you, and whether or not you're willing to try again with someone else. Things there might be worse, or better, who knows. You'll have to decide for yourself if you want to choose that over this, and it comes down to how important this is to you compared to the other things in your relationship.
If it's very important to you, then you should probably gamble.
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#27686948 - 03/08/22 02:43 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous #7 said: Im sure many women dream of a threesum with 2 guys who are bi.
Hell yeah
I second that "Hell yeah"!
Gurl! I just finished a book tonight and I think you will LOVE it! It's goodness...

If you don't audible yet, I can send to you as a gift
OoOoo looks good I would love that! We'll be in touch
I was actually thinking about you the other day while I was watching the Amy Wong: Don Wong Netflix comedy special. I feel like you'd enjoy it too.
If you don't have Netflix I can send you a link.
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#27694865 - 03/14/22 10:37 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27695034 - 03/14/22 01:29 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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Very sexy and creative! You are a catch
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#27695580 - 03/14/22 08:25 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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I used to have wild and crazy sex several times a day with my partner. Better, more satisfying sex that I knew was actually possible until I found out it was. She would squirt like MAD and multiple orgasm and let me stick it wherever I wanted and everything.
It was a wet dream come true.
Then she totally lost her mojo for it. She doesn't understand why, I don't understand why.
Im still with her and love her very much, won't leave her, and I would never cheat, but she's turned me into an incel.
Oh well, at least there's still porn.
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