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    #27673250 - 02/25/22 03:36 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #27673253 - 02/25/22 03:44 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

Get him to practice keegles. Buy him a drum set to build coordination. Discuss your fantasies with him.


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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #2] * 2
    #27673309 - 02/25/22 04:44 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

How about sex while tripping together, or on the come-down from tripping? Just asking since psychedelics tend to dissolve old patterns and enhance creativity and openness


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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #27673392 - 02/25/22 05:50 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

Print out your post and give it to him,
some people can't take hints...

Get him some viagra,  it makes me last longer...

Take him to a sex shop and yall pick out stuff that you'd like (be it a strap on for him to wear if he needs to, if he's iffy about it just tell him it's for double penatration but don't let him stop till you come.)

I'd tell him exactly what you told us tho... communication is key


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    #27673517 - 02/25/22 08:14 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27673896 - 02/26/22 06:54 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

I don't know him or you, but I believe there's hope. I think you should keep pushing him a bit and be careful to avoid frustration. I'm tempted to call him a lazy bastard myself, so I get where your coming from, but I suspect there are psychological hangups at play that are better addressed within a supportive environment. That doesn't mean you should settle for anything less than his best efforts though. You can playfully tease him a little and egg him on during sex if he won't do easy stuff or try new things; it's important to encourage experimentation so people can test new and old boundaries, and doing it playfully can make it feel less threatening and more engaging. You can also have some supportive pillow talk if he's dropping the ball on something too easy to miss like wiggling his hips (come on guy...); I'd use that space to talk about stuff where you don't feel understood, and I'd be careful to make sure to keep the tone supportive. Be clear about what you want, but make sure you don't push too hard and that you give him a way to stay productively engaged in the problem space. It's kind of like teaching a kid to tie his shoes; you need to be both supportive and honest with feedback\criticism. Too little criticism and the shoes won't stay tied, and with a lack support the kid won't even try and he won't listen to the criticism. If you keep constructively working on the problem and stay somewhat goal focused, then the real reasons for the hangups should either come to light or resolve themselves. You have to take some risks when you communicate though. Otherwise you're not going to be heard or taken seriously, and you'll only have yourself to blame when you settle for vanilla inorgasmic sex (come on lady...).


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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Mr.GuessWork] * 2
    #27673906 - 02/26/22 07:03 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

I don't know, I'm not sure how much this is resolvable to some extent. To do freaky things you got to be a bit of a freak. Interesting topic, excited to hear more. Either way, you both will need to make compromises if the chemistry isn't perfect.


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Anonymous #5

Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27674024 - 02/26/22 09:50 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

Sorry to say it but your husband doesn't prioritize your sexual needs.  Saying his wrist doesn't move that way is a lame excuse
I make my lady squirt sucking her clit and fingering her g-spot and it hurts but I do it anyway

You seem like an awesome partner and seriously, reaching around to rub the clit isn't difficult.  To me, seeing my woman get off is just as good as getting off myself

Sorry your man is a selfish prick.  Sounds like you've been reasonable and said enough things already that if he gave a shit he would've done something about it by now

I say cut him off cause it's clearly one sided


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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #27674082 - 02/26/22 10:57 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

Bro how are you going to say "cut him off" to someone who is the father of her children AND is someone she clearly loves because they aren't sexually compatible?


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    #27674117 - 02/26/22 11:35 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

Not compatible?  What kind of person would you say is compatible with an obviously a selfish asshole?  He doesn't care about her sexual needs so why should his be fulfilled? 

IMO OP has allowed herself to be taken advantage of by showing that she's a giver.  Most men would love to have a woman like that but this guy doesn't deserve her.  She needs a man, not a boy


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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #5] * 1
    #27674146 - 02/26/22 11:55 AM (1 year, 10 months ago)

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #27674155 - 02/26/22 12:04 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

Sorry to take things in a direction you didn't like.  I just don't understand men that don't want their women as satisfied as possible and I hate seeing things out of balance in relationships
Is he by any chance religious?


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    #27674213 - 02/26/22 12:36 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27674254 - 02/26/22 01:04 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

I was asking because sometimes religion makes people feel too dirty to really explore their darker sexual side.

I know this sounds like a dangerous game, but if played correctly it could pay off big time for both of you.  Try explaining that his lack of concern for your needs that you have expressed is leaving you feeling unimportant and that your mind can't help but drift into thinking of being with other men that would be more willing to fulfill you.  Sometime jealousy works, sometimes it backfires so you have to be careful if you play that card


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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27674264 - 02/26/22 01:11 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

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then he likes to bend me over a table and have sex until HE cums. He never tries to stimulate me. I have a magic wand Vibrator that we will bring into the mix sometimes for clit stimulation, but that is the only way I will cum. I have never had an orgasm with him without a toy.




This is very telling and after reading your first post again, it's pretty fucked up that you're so willing to do these things that most women won't and yet he has never made you cum without a toy?

It sounds like he thinks of you as a sex doll


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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #27674313 - 02/26/22 01:44 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

I remain of the opinion that not everyone is into the openess that other's are and there isn't much you can do-- if someone doesn't like a finger in their butt, they're not going to suddenly like a finger in their butt (I say this as someone who has had more than a finger in his butt). I think ultimately y'all should try and experiment but also, people are people. You may not be 100% compatible and I hesitate to say the grass is always greener, because the grass is always green unless you stop watering it. But also grass that is brown can be green again. So I personally just water my own damn grass and don't really care about other's grass enough because I KNOW my grass is greener. You catch my drift?

It's great to fantasize but I would not recommend chasing fantasy. You *could* have better sex but you ARE having good sex.


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    #27674326 - 02/26/22 01:57 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

Good sex happens when both people get off by what the other person does.  From what OP said, she doesn't cum that often by her husbands actions

Yes, some people aren't that into experimenting and that's a shame.  I tried some kinky stuff a couple times.  It wasn't my thing though so it only happened twice.  The second time was just to make sure I wasn't going to get into it

Fast forward a couple years and I found out she told some people about it so no more kinky shit for her anymore!
:babypalm:


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    #27674372 - 02/26/22 02:23 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

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I love him, and I can't have an affair. I can't lie, and say it had never crossed my mind. But how selfish would that be! It's not all about me, I can get a orgasam with a Vibrator.




The fact that you don't want to make it all about you says you're a kind and decent woman and honestly I'm feeling a little jealous of your husband.  It's hard to find that balance of having the appropriate level of making things about ourselves while not excluding other peoples' feelings.  I think he's luckier to have you than he realizes.  I don't know how much you've tried to communicate these needs to him but I wish you luck and hope you can get through to him


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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #5] * 2
    #27674710 - 02/26/22 07:12 PM (1 year, 10 months ago)

If you don't already do this, use the wand vibrator on your clit while he is fucking you from behind.

He needs to masturbate more often so he can last longer. If he's not willing to do that, viagara will definitely make him last longer. It's not something to be ashamed of. It's not like he has an issue of getting it up and you should explain that to him. MDMA works too, but he wouldn't want to do that all the time lol

You need to communicate to him none of this is to hurt his feelings because if anything your feelings really should be hurt cause he is not that interested in making you orgasm lol 

As far as him performing oral on you or fingering you.. you need to ask him why he isn't interested in it cause honestly from my experience I haven't met a guy who isn't. Mind you a lot of them are terrible at it.


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