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Offlineasterix
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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #27695744 - 03/14/22 10:42 PM (2 years, 15 days ago)

We are both in our late 40's.  Been together about 10 years,

I guess it must be the menopause.  But it happened so suddenly.  Like someone flicked a switch.

The last time we did it, it was as if she found her own orgasms uncomfortable.

Our sex was so pleasurable and uninhibited. I felt things I never knew could be felt.  And she would just come and come and come, we would go through a few towels every time we did it. I didn't think she'd ever get tired of it.

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Anonymous #9

Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: asterix]
    #27695769 - 03/14/22 11:17 PM (2 years, 15 days ago)

Meth and Molly makes you do things you don’t normally do sexually and  once you break the ICE there’s no going back keep the ball ROLLIN !!

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #27695795 - 03/14/22 11:59 PM (2 years, 15 days ago)

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27696142 - 03/15/22 10:07 AM (2 years, 14 days ago)

Yea sure I’ll be right there. As soon as I let my parole officer know I’m leaving. :smile:

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    #27696206 - 03/15/22 11:09 AM (2 years, 14 days ago)

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #27697257 - 03/16/22 04:55 AM (2 years, 13 days ago)

I'm feeling unsatisfied with my current partner too.

In the past, I've had wild, amazing sex with girls. Sex is always better when you get to know a woman and gain her trust and smash boundaries together.

I've been with my girl now for 4 years and she is sexy as fuck but we never clicked sexually. I don't think we will ever be in sync but she is a great match as a life partner.

Unfortunately she just doesn't seem like she'll ever be a nasty girl that will blow my mind. I think someone's that I should just fool atound to scratch that itch.

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Anon 1, you're a babe, you deserve whatever you crave.

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    #27697800 - 03/16/22 03:27 PM (2 years, 13 days ago)

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Offlineasterix
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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27697906 - 03/16/22 04:42 PM (2 years, 13 days ago)

Actually there was one other factor that slipped my mind.

My partner was sexually abused as a child repeatedly by her uncle.  He has since died and when the news of that reached her, that's really when this issue arose.

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice *DELETED* [Re: asterix] * 2
    #27698369 - 03/17/22 12:06 AM (2 years, 13 days ago)

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #27698992 - 03/17/22 02:57 PM (2 years, 12 days ago)

Thanks Anon#1 for starting this topic and thanks everybody else for participating. At least for me it is enlightening in different kind of ways.

I'd like to share thoughts on #1's problem:

First and most important - you should TOTALLY get your hands on some acid.
Having sex while being on a mushroom trip is one thing, but while being on acid it's not just a whole different planet, it's a different solar system, ESPECIALLY if you sleep with somebody you love.
Words cannot describe the way it feels, but there will be no problems like "meh, he didn't smash hard and long enough" etc.
Sex on acid is the holy grail of mankind(i truly believe this) and i can feel it that you and your husband will join the believers ranks instantly.

With that being said, all other thoughts are just rubbish, but here it goes:

For those men who share their seed to early, they shall try 25-50mg of sertraline in the morning they are willing to mate with their wifes.

Black maca root powder does make a diffence for him.

So does a tea of Turnera diffusa the day before the intercourse.

That sounds like a lot of planning, but if one just starts experimenting, nothing can go wrong.

Again: Sex on acid is the key. Trust me, although I'm stranger from the internet whose native language isn't english. :laugh:

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    #27699700 - 03/18/22 02:12 AM (2 years, 12 days ago)

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #27699708 - 03/18/22 02:35 AM (2 years, 12 days ago)

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Anonymous #4

Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #27699772 - 03/18/22 05:45 AM (2 years, 11 days ago)

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Anonymous #1 said:





Does your husband know you're posting sexy photos online for other men to look at? I ask because, by my standards, you are cheating right now if you did so without us talking about it. And as a married woman, regardless of your own personal situation and needs, you should examine that. There are different degrees of cheating, and posting sexy photos to others online when your husband doesn't know about it is the start to nullifying vows, provided those vows are traditional and involve commitment to each other physically, emotionally, spiritually and psychologically. I'm making a lot of assumptions here, but I think I can make them provided your progressing story and earlier stated values.

If you two both consented to these pics, disregard this. I get the sense that this thread is unbeknownst to your husband. Is this the case?

In response to your entry about the situation as you approached it, I truly emphasize with you. It can be extremely dismissive and disheartening for anyone to put in the effort for someone else only to be rejected, especially on the grounds that he is sexually selfish. It does seem he is sexually selfish; but this couldn't have come out of nowhere-- why does he view cumming in the way he does? What are his beliefs on pleasure? It almost sounds like he believes sexual pleasure to be obstructive; as a deed he must do. Was this always the case? Is this a new pattern? Did something significant happen that changed his attitude towards himself and his own pleasure? Did you both have a falling out? Do you both connect on issues outside of sexuality?

One of the subthemes I'm noticing is that, regardless of your statements, you are making this issue about yourself; a need to be pleasured, a need to be wanted, a need to escape (e.g. I didn't get the attention I need, now I want to smoke weed --> you're chasing pleasure, which is awfully close to escapism). I am not saying this to accuse you, rather shed another light-- that this issue likely has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with you. It is a him problem and a you problem; and you must choose how to respond to it. I think if you were single, this would be a non-issue. But as a married woman, you have a commitment to him, and he has a commitment to you. It seems you are trying to be a committed wife and prioritizing him and he is not viewing you in the same light; i.e. it seems as though he isn't putting your needs as a priority to him. Why is he so focused on himself? Is this new? If this is how he has always been, why is it bothering you now? What is the most important thing for you in a relationship? What does sex do for you? Would him having sex with you the way you want it to be had with you solve the central issue that is driving you to post these pictures in the first place?

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Anonymous #12

Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #27699773 - 03/18/22 05:45 AM (2 years, 11 days ago)

“I take care to make sure I have an orgasm, and It is your responsibility to make sure you have one."

Everyone is lazy sometimes but that's not how sex works between a loving couple. Both parties need to put effort in to yourself and the other. I'm sure a lot of what you said is just in the heat of the moment. Honestly the conversation could have gone worse, and I wouldn't overthink it. If he's a good man he'll take it to heart, get over it, and work toward change. But you probably need to change too, in one way or another. You have to change and evolve together, you can't just give him a list of requirements and hope he meets them.

I wanted to say much earlier in this thread, - about your title - it could have just been "woman needs advice." As humourous as I find that I know I have a point. And so do you. You are very in your feelings, and while I recognize you're frustrated the only way forward in these situations is to not get in your own head.

Just to make it clear I'm not trying to diminish your experience at all. Life is complicated. But that long winded diatribe expemplifies the type of behaviour most people don't want to deal with.  I mean lets be real here, you could tell he wanted you to be sexy or some shit or suck his dick, and your response was (from his perspective) to insult him and start an argument. It was poor timing on your part. Next time just make him eat your pussy. Guide his hand instead of telling him where and when to put it and explaining how poorly he's been using said hands. Perspective is a powerful thing.

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Anonymous #12

Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27699774 - 03/18/22 05:46 AM (2 years, 11 days ago)

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Anonymous #4 said:
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Anonymous #1 said:





Does your husband know you're posting sexy photos online for other men to look at? I ask because, by my standards, you are cheating right now if you did so without us talking about it. And as a married woman, regardless of your own personal situation and needs, you should examine that. There are different degrees of cheating, and posting sexy photos to others online when your husband doesn't know about it is the start to nullifying vows, provided those vows are traditional and involve commitment to each other physically, emotionally, spiritually and psychologically. I'm making a lot of assumptions here, but I think I can make them provided your progressing story and earlier stated values.

If you two both consented to these pics, disregard this. I get the sense that this thread is unbeknownst to your husband. Is this the case?



I agree

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Anonymous #11

Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27699778 - 03/18/22 05:53 AM (2 years, 11 days ago)

Makes me sad to read the update and see those melancholic eyes of yours.

Won't write some stupid dalailama'ish nonsense like "it's going to be fine, just stay strong".

Pain is relative and every down can feel like a catastrophe.
People have felt the way you feel, and will feel like that on countless occasions in the future.
Dig into it, experience the pain and dissapointment and find yourself again and again and again.

It's a shame you live on the other side of the planet, otherwise i'd love to help connect you and your husband, a neutral outsider sometimes is the key.
(usa people of the shroomery, here's your opportunity to be shaman in the most origin way - take your chance and offer some help?)

My initial thought concerning the acid and sex thing remains, it will never be the same afterwards.
Especially concerning your husband - he just needs a different angle of view(or point of view?).
But also you: In his mind he is the strong male, who maybe thought for years that he is capable of pleasuring you enough.
Now that you confront him with his incapability maybe is a HUGE attack on his ego. Eventually he will see, that when he goes through this journey with you he'll be able to please you and have evidence - gaining even more value in the cis-male-system for him.

Wishing you all the best!

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Anonymous #12

Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #11] * 2
    #27699781 - 03/18/22 05:59 AM (2 years, 11 days ago)

Confront him when? When did she confront him? Was it the right time? It's a sensitive topic for her but when it comes to him he's got a fragile ego? Yeah I'd caution against this kind of bias. "If only we could meet up I'd be SOO helpful." Lawl. Some of y'all are so creepy and transparent asf

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #12] * 3
    #27699786 - 03/18/22 06:06 AM (2 years, 11 days ago)

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Anonymous #12 said:
Confront him when? When did she confront him? Was it the right time? It's a sensitive topic for her but when it comes to him he's got a fragile ego? Yeah I'd caution against this kind of bias. "If only we could meet up I'd be SOO helpful." Lawl. Some of y'all are so creepy and transparent asf




I'll ally with Anon #12 here and remind people that the shroomery is not a place for professional help, which I think this thread has officially arrived at. Compared to the general population, on the Shroomery you have a higher than average shot of getting advice from someone with amphetamines in their blood who have porn open in the tab just to the left of you. And to be honest, I don't think any of us would approach a random person on the street and ask for marriage advice of this caliber.

OP: would you be willing to re-start couples therapy/individual therapy so you have a safe avenue to explore these themes?

Edited by Anonymous (03/18/22 06:17 AM)

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Offlineberrymybody
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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27699953 - 03/18/22 09:34 AM (2 years, 11 days ago)

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Anonymous #4 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #12 said:
Confront him when? When did she confront him? Was it the right time? It's a sensitive topic for her but when it comes to him he's got a fragile ego? Yeah I'd caution against this kind of bias. "If only we could meet up I'd be SOO helpful." Lawl. Some of y'all are so creepy and transparent asf




I'll ally with Anon #12 here and remind people that the shroomery is not a place for professional help, which I think this thread has officially arrived at. Compared to the general population, on the Shroomery you have a higher than average shot of getting advice from someone with amphetamines in their blood who have porn open in the tab just to the left of you. And to be honest, I don't think any of us would approach a random person on the street and ask for marriage advice of this caliber.

OP: would you be willing to re-start couples therapy/individual therapy so you have a safe avenue to explore these themes?




:lol:


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boldly going nowhere :alien:

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Re: Unsatisfied woman needs advice *DELETED* [Re: berrymybody]
    #27699989 - 03/18/22 10:12 AM (2 years, 11 days ago)

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