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Hobotechnology
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I am the confusion(woman advice)
#27616860 - 01/13/22 01:51 AM (2 years, 15 days ago) |
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So i started this new job about 4 months ago and i met this girl who was super sweet and nice to me. We would talk all the time, and she would help me out sometimes with work stuff.
Well eventually i started talking to this other girl and we really hit it off like two peas in a pod. But between me and her, she let me know we are only friends blah blah blah.
Well while me and girl#2 are living our best lives girl#1 changes up real quick! Now she is really mean to me and aggressive. Almost not the same person. ...almost. We begin to argue over stupid stuff yada yada.
So i start to think maybe she likes me and so eventually we start talking more and stuff and i get her FB and phone# I know its unprofessional to ask a co worker out on a date but i went for it....
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Hobotechnology
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Amyways i ask her out and she says no basically.
What she really said is that she has a bf. Which she later told me the next day at work wasnt true?.
Im starting to think she is just rlly immature and mean and possibly projecting her own life stuff onto me. Or maybe she just likes me?
I def like her! She really is(was) a sweet person at once and is gorgeous.
Am i barking up the wrong tree?
P.s sorry about the grammar and stuff im kinda stupid
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UnderNose
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By your own account she seems to be a jealous, two faced, manipulative liar... what more info do you need
Plus I've never been a fan of dating colleagues. Regardless if things are going good or bad there is all that potential for weirdness at work. No one needs the drama, that includes all the other staff.
Edited by UnderNose (01/13/22 02:35 AM)
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Run bro... she's no bueno
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You gotta be more mature about this, my dude, otherwise you are just making life more difficult for yourself. Dating a co-worker is always a bad idea, and you want to do it with someone who is obviously batshit crazy? You sound like a cool enough dude if you're hitting it off with two ladies like that, so you shouldn't have any trouble finding a super cool woman to fuck who isn't going to make your life harder than is necessary. It's probably best that you look elsewhere for love.
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Run Dude! No bueno.
I once went for a job and some attractive blonde was front desk. The job I not pursue. Got drunk with the girl, the college professor of Philosophy was buying us drinks and cab ride home. She no good to sleep with and later date found floating river together finding she has mental head case to past relations.
I almost bid, if the woman is working, no bueno. Ha!
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Re: I am the confusion(woman advice) [Re: WhoManBeing] 1
#27618658 - 01/14/22 02:28 PM (2 years, 14 days ago) |
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Fuck her. Do whatever is necessary
These other posters are right tho do not get attached she's bad news long term
Use her pussy till you want a new one
She def likes you but is a combo of crazy/immature/a liar
As long as you don't get attached and you have clear text messages that show consent she cannot fuck you over when you decide that you finally met someone who isn't crazy and is interested in you
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Edited by theRealrollforever (01/14/22 02:30 PM)
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Roflspammer
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theRealrollforever said: Fuck her. Do whatever is necessary
These other posters are right tho do not get attached she's bad news long term
Use her pussy till you want a new one
She def likes you but is a combo of crazy/immature/a liar
As long as you don't get attached and you have clear text messages that show consent she cannot fuck you over when you decide that you finally met someone who isn't crazy and is interested in you
If you want a chaotic life, follow this advice. If you want to build a life worth living when you look back, don't do this. Don't make people a means to an end. Chaos is chaotic, and only fantasy will make it appear otherwise.
theRealrollforever, this isn't a jab at you; I think your advice is in poor taste.
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Re: I am the confusion(woman advice) [Re: Roflspammer]
#27619019 - 01/14/22 06:48 PM (2 years, 13 days ago) |
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You don't wanna mess it up with one that matters because you're out of practice. I'm not telling him to deceive her
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Roflspammer
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I hear your point; I think it makes more sense to "practice" with a stable individual.
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r3volution.gurl



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I'm confused. Did girl#1 know girl#2? Is everything you're talking about at work?
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Hobotechnology
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r3volution.gurl said: I'm confused. Did girl#1 know girl#2? Is everything you're talking about at work?
Yes all at work. Also they do know each other.
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r3volution.gurl



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Yeah not a good start to a relationship lol.
If you really really want to have something with her you need to talk to girl#1 about girl#2 and understand girl#1's feelings about it because she was obviously jealous and I mean you did want both of them lol nothing wrong with that to me, but to someone who's not into that well you know how girl#1 acted about it.
Either way, you should talk to her about it to come to an understanding so you guys can have a good work relationship as well.
That's my opinion. The other option which is easiest is to just accept the situation for what it is and find another girl outside of the workplace. Plenty of fish in the sea!
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Hobotechnology said: Amyways i ask her out and she says no basically.
What she really said is that she has a bf. Which she later told me the next day at work wasnt true?.
Im starting to think she is just rlly immature and mean and possibly projecting her own life stuff onto me. Or maybe she just likes me?
I def like her! She really is(was) a sweet person at once and is gorgeous.
Am i barking up the wrong tree?
P.s sorry about the grammar and stuff im kinda stupid
Man, here is the thing. The behaviour you describe is rather toxic and destructive. She is playing a very dangerous game, and you would be destroyed in the midds of it. This girl, yes girl, not a woman, is used to manipulation and head games, behaviours that you see in teenagers. What makes it more dangerous is the delusional, pathologically narcissistic tendencies this young woman has displayed towards you. Mind you only open communication and truth can really bring a level field forward in which you both can express your feelings without pretentious manipulative games. I doubt she would go for a convo like that. Skip this one and remind yourself there are more women in the world who are amazing, kind, respectful, spicy, loving and deserving.
Yet, a friendly reminder. Ask yourself this question, what are you doing to encourage her behaviour towards you. You must also respect your self and take responsibility for your happiness.
there my two cents,
good luck.
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Re: I am the confusion(woman advice) [Re: hongito33] 1
#27655376 - 02/11/22 04:11 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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Girl #1 got stood up when you talked to that other girl. Now shes got mixed feelings. Either way shes kinda makin a grotesque start to a shitty ending.
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