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Soulskein
Mr. Happy


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More comfortable naked among strangers or among friends?
#27637176 - 01/29/22 08:29 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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Just curious, its nothing to strip down in front of strangers like at the gym but in front of friends I'm very self conscious. I would like to have a few buddies over and trip naked someday.
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r3volution.gurl



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Loc: Canada
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Re: More comfortable naked among strangers or among friends? [Re: Soulskein]
#27639028 - 01/30/22 09:01 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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I'm more uncomfortable around strangers just cause I'm a woman. So I would say friends, but not all my friends want to see me naked
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Darwin23
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Re: More comfortable naked among strangers or among friends? [Re: Soulskein]
#27643646 - 02/03/22 09:42 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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I've actually encountered this phenomena with camgirls. I may be mildly flirty, but I typically have ulterior motives (finding out about the environment they're in, learning their history, practicing Spanish or Russian). Some of these girls have trusted my intentions and become friendly without the possibility of tokens. It was fairly frequent that these girls would block me from their streams while continuing to text me on Whatsapp. For them, it is humiliating to expose themselves in front of a friend. It's easy in front of random strangers, but because they suddenly cared about my opinion, it became uncomfortable.
As for me, I'm pretty private. If we're not about to have sex, it's uncomfortable for me, no matter our relation. My fiancee has always been hurt that I lock the door when pooping. For her, we should be capable of as much closeness of possible. My reluctance to show her that strikes her as a sort of emotional wall.
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Soulskein
Mr. Happy


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Re: More comfortable naked among strangers or among friends? [Re: Darwin23]
#27643807 - 02/03/22 11:29 AM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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Interesting response! The bathroom thing is real.. I'm not ready to allow that level of access to anyone either. For me, if I've been intimate with someone then I am usually comfortable. Strangers I'm always comfy with it.
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Phx13
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Re: More comfortable naked among strangers or among friends? [Re: Soulskein]
#27652914 - 02/09/22 09:05 PM (1 year, 11 months ago) |
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We’re comfortable either way, but some friends are a little too vanilla and would be shocked if you bring up being naked. Others would take the mindset of “we all trust / know eachother” and would be fine with it.
We do a lot of naked things with friends, and find the key is to group friends who will get along and appreciate each other.
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