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Cilla_Sihbin
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Men/boys and thinking about sex 2
#27408370 - 07/30/21 11:18 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Hi there,
I think most of the 'congregation' here are male. So presumably most of you are experts on the subject of being male.
Do males really think about sex every few minutes ? Is that really true ?
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Cilla_Sihbin] 1
#27408391 - 07/30/21 11:48 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think it depends on a number of factors including schedule, health, beliefs, etc. It's more difficult for younger men imo because they don't have as much going on in their lives.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Shiithead] 1
#27408437 - 07/30/21 12:38 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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For teenagers? Sure. For college aged men? If there's a girl in the vicinity sure.
But that fades as you get older.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Holybullshit] 1
#27417607 - 08/06/21 10:44 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Blazer420] 1
#27417990 - 08/07/21 09:26 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Physically-active men remain hormonal, as though puberty never stopped, but become ogreish in appearance.
Whether we are thought-about, in-kind, depends upon your preferences for men or boys.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008] 2
#27420786 - 08/09/21 10:06 AM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've remained physically active, I work out but never bulked up(6'1", 185lbs), and that hasn't been true for me. Maybe some of these "ogreish" looking men who stay as horny as teenagers are using a little chemical assistance to remain "hormonal"?
In my experience, for adult men, how often they think about sex itself is directly proportional to how much they objectify women.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Holybullshit] 1
#27420927 - 08/09/21 12:02 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Holybullshit said: In my experience, for adult men, how often they think about sex itself is directly proportional to how much they objectify women.
Correct, as a sex object. 
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Holybullshit said: I've remained physically active, I work out but never bulked up(6'1", 185lbs), and that hasn't been true for me. Maybe some of these "ogreish" looking men who stay as horny as teenagers are using a little chemical assistance to remain "hormonal"?
Firstly, it grosses out about 50% of women.
The other half kind-of like to be grossed-out. Very young women. All different hair colors, around town.

I don't look pretty. I have all the secondary sex characteristics, in abundance.
If you've followed me, for long, you already knew that I eat on the permissive side and shy away from chemicals, though.
Nobody else put me up to this. There was no pressure or body image issue.
I liked the idea of putting on as much weights as I can stand, before I knew it was a thing.
When I did labor, I took the same approach, as well as when I ate, afterwards, to regain my strength.
I was your size in about the 6th grade.
Genetics are an issue. I have many unusually tall people and centenarians in my family.
I have friends with different builds who also look like their fathers and male relatives. 
imho, the effect of steroids is cosmetic, to change the balance of water in different tissues. When I saw guys in their 100's taking this stuff, it improved their looks and self confidence. Not genetics.
HGH and testosterone are subject to a negative feedback loop, that will atrophy your organs, over time. I have never literally seen the rumored way, in which someone is supposed to work them off, so have never touched the stuff, even once. Don't mind if you do, but can't recommend it.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Cilla_Sihbin] 1
#27420942 - 08/09/21 12:14 PM (2 years, 5 months ago) |
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Even if you're not into Joe Rogan, I recommend an Episode of Joe Rogan's Experience, episode 1665, with Carole Hooven (evolutionary biologist at Harvard University).
Part of the video, in the first 1/2 hour I think, she talks about how interesting trans man (women who transitioned to men) taking testosterone described how impossible it was for them to understand how man think about women/sex before transitioning and getting the testosterone shots, and after treatment having the "Wow! So that's what like being man high on hormones" moments.
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White knights and beta females don't like me and, half the time, will cross the street to get away from me, and will usually be making up some excuse to call the police.
Chapstick lesbians and alpha bitches usually do like me. Loudly. The ones who are dominant over other females, socially and sexually.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008] 1
#27444177 - 08/26/21 05:39 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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my ex gf go on porn twice a day (same number as me!) and own a lot of sex toys :O
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Cilla_Sihbin] 1
#27444254 - 08/26/21 06:54 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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Cilla_Sihbin said: Do males really think about sex every few minutes ? Is that really true ?
Teenagers do, grown men don't. Of course there's a lot of variability and everyone's unique, so it's not like this applies to all men everywhere.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: nooneman] 1
#27444389 - 08/26/21 09:40 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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On waking from ample sleep or when idle, not when concentrating on something physically dangerous.
One way to consider it is the energy of creation. Driven and spent men have been gauged by their appetites.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008] 1
#27473928 - 09/19/21 05:26 AM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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New here, but I find this thread interesting.
If you're not a male, you may not know that most males wake up "tumescent" due to many factors including the need to urinate (mostly from just being male.) From that second, through the day, yes.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: kc_moshroom] 1
#27478731 - 09/22/21 08:00 PM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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Wouldn't say I think about sex "all the time" but it does pop into my mind frequently. Usually in my idle time.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Douglas Fir] 1
#27480643 - 09/24/21 10:49 AM (2 years, 4 months ago) |
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Not all the time - def not every few minutes.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Holybullshit] 2
#27625428 - 01/20/22 07:28 AM (2 years, 7 days ago) |
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Holybullshit said:
In my experience, for adult men, how often they think about sex itself is directly proportional to how much they objectify women.
Because our species wears clothes, males receive only a tiny fraction of the emotional nutrition that occurs when seeing unclothed females. If male humans grew up constantly around unclothed females, they would not find nudity so wildly exhilarating.
This also impacts the frequency & magnitude of male aggression towards females.
Clothing has a serious deleterious effect on psychology. I believe especially for males.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: RJ Tubs 202] 1
#27625642 - 01/20/22 10:48 AM (2 years, 7 days ago) |
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Female nudists are not exhilerating, mainly due to their lack of youthfulness, fitness, and grooming.
Prenuptials also impact the frequency & magnitude of male aggression towards females.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008] 1
#27625652 - 01/20/22 10:53 AM (2 years, 7 days ago) |
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(This platform messed up my writing after I blocked some people, or vice versa. Quotes disappeared. So, lines seem out of context.)
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008] 1
#27628591 - 01/22/22 03:27 PM (2 years, 5 days ago) |
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Female nudists are not exhilarating, mainly due to their lack of youthfulness, fitness, and grooming.
Imagine a world like the chimps where you never experience a clothed person from your birth till death.
BTW, it's quite funny society is OK with 16 yr old boys showering naked together after school sports.
It's OK for boys to see other naked males - but it would be TERRIBLE if they saw females! OMG, that's crazy!
It's amazing many folks view peeping toms as a form of deviant behavior that requires legal punishment.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: RJ Tubs 202] 1
#27629398 - 01/23/22 09:44 AM (2 years, 4 days ago) |
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durian_2008 said: Female nudists are not exhilarating, mainly due to their lack of youthfulness, fitness, and grooming.
They're very natural. Nature can be improved upon, to a certain point.
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RJ Tubs 202 said: Imagine a world like the chimps where you never experience a clothed person from your birth till death.
I'm already familiar with the concept of social nudity, in a desert state, where social functions look like a barnyard.

I understand that it serves a biological purpose. Most people aren't reproductively fit.
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RJ Tubs 202 said: BTW, it's quite funny society is OK with 16 yr old boys showering naked together after school sports.
Some are way too eager. We have a name for those.
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RJ Tubs 202 said: It's amazing many folks view peeping toms as a form of deviant behavior that requires legal punishment.
Just because it's naked doesn't make it attractive.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Cilla_Sihbin] 1
#27692157 - 03/12/22 07:47 AM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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I dontthink the men on this forum are a good sample population. The psychonaut community has always been different. As for me personally I rarely think anything that isnt pure abstraction, and enen less frequently about sex, especially since I dont have a partner
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Shrooms4menow] 1
#27693095 - 03/12/22 08:54 PM (1 year, 10 months ago) |
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No disrespect...1 or 2 alpha gorillas, some snarky guys, and 85% wallflowers. Literally, a good sample population.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Cilla_Sihbin]
#27956366 - 09/18/22 05:21 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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I objectify women.
Edited by Double (10/16/22 05:37 PM)
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Double]
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Holybullshit said: In my experience, for adult men, how often they think about sex itself is directly proportional to how much they objectify women.

Marriage is an arrangement of ownership, in which your property, or that of another man, can be treated roughly or with careful stewardship.
It does not imply that I ruin a resource, useful for primogeniture (but, usually for my enjoyment.)
It does not imply that I am a homewrecker, because I might offend the chivalry of a strongman (but, usually a simp.)
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008]
#27975294 - 09/30/22 12:16 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Is "objectifying" someone only possible when we do not know the person? I mean, if we actually know someone, is it possible to objectify them? I know a gal who goes on & on & on about how she loves The Rock. If she actually knew the guy, could she still objectify him? Or would that be impossible?
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#27975314 - 09/30/22 12:36 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I don't waste utilitarian fixtures, machines, religious relics, or objets d'art. I am highly territorial but also strongly prefer for all of my things to be well treated.
What happens, when I am trying to negotiate with a type B or craven masochist: They want to be left to their work, without delay, without being mollycoddled; they are mission minded. They know what they're there to do.
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RJ Tubs 202 said: Is "objectifying" someone only possible when we do not know the person?
Yes, when the person is reduced to a label or one dimensional role.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008]
#27975326 - 09/30/22 12:51 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I heard this idea about "beauty" once - it kinda relates to the topic. That if you take someone you find to be extremely attractive, and only observe them in small bite size images, this removes the attractiveness. I mean, when you only can see one little bit at a time (never the whole) the emotional hook is neutralized. For example, looking one at a time at an iris, an ear, a finger, a part of a lip, an elbow, a toe, an eyebrow, the tip of a nose, etc.
I find that interesting. The whole image of person triggers emotion, but the parts seen individually not so much. I guess you can say the same about butterflies & flowers & the sunset, so maybe this is a dumb point.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#27975338 - 09/30/22 01:03 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I say nice things to my dog, every day. It's not hard for me to express myself.
Type B's don't necessarily take compliments very well, in spite of our dysfunctional notions of courtly love.
That troubadour laying his coat upon the mud puddle was someone from a lower, social caste, who had no hope of following through with the wealthier courtesan.
It's considered patronizing, then and now.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008]
#27976237 - 10/01/22 06:57 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Brian Jones]
#27976252 - 10/01/22 07:19 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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The concept of "objectification" is just our bullshit puritan roots showing through.
Sexuality is for the holy sacrament of marriage and one must not be aroused thinking sinful thoughts about a woman outside of marriage! Only knowing her soul first is permitted in the eyes of Christ. Less one commit the sin of "objectification".
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: khatvanga]
#27978519 - 10/02/22 06:56 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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It is written that the bride of Christ is not her own; she was bought for a price.
Also, that the value of a virtuous woman is more than rubies.
Edited by durian_2008 (10/02/22 08:05 PM)
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008]
#27988419 - 10/08/22 02:55 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I try to keep it at once a day. Any more than that and I have thought too much about sex
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Cilla_Sihbin]
#28172477 - 02/04/23 06:44 PM (11 months, 16 days ago) |
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This is definitely not true. The stats say that on average, men think about sex about twice an hour and women about once an hour. But these are averages, there's still a lot of variation.
I'd say it's also probably very context-dependent as I'm someone who almost never thinks about sex but, during spring and summer, it gets unbearable for me to look at all of the half-naked women going around because it elicits sexual desire in me and it gets insufferable. So I won't think about it unless I'm home alone and then it's not sex that I think about, it's just my compulsory desire to watch porn that resurfaces.
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I'm going to be accused of victim blaming, but I blame the exhibitionist, oftentimes.
Wave a hunk of fresh meat in front of a tiger cage, and tell me the tiger is the one with character flaw.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008]
#28173436 - 02/05/23 01:09 PM (11 months, 15 days ago) |
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durian_2008 said:Wave a hunk of fresh meat in front of a tiger cage, and tell me the tiger is the one with character flaw.
Why would anyone do that? It's not useful or reasonable to metaphorically compare women with slabs of butchered meat, nor is it useful or reasonable to metaphorically compare men with undomesticated cats.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: stubb]
#28173438 - 02/05/23 01:13 PM (11 months, 15 days ago) |
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But, now, you're blaming the presumptive voyeur, whose healthy, natural appetite is being exploited by a sadistic act of temptation.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008]
#28173440 - 02/05/23 01:15 PM (11 months, 15 days ago) |
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Which side of that discussion is using the more primitive or higher brain function?
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