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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: Holybullshit] 2
#27625428 - 01/20/22 07:28 AM (2 years, 8 days ago) |
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Holybullshit said:
In my experience, for adult men, how often they think about sex itself is directly proportional to how much they objectify women.
Because our species wears clothes, males receive only a tiny fraction of the emotional nutrition that occurs when seeing unclothed females. If male humans grew up constantly around unclothed females, they would not find nudity so wildly exhilarating.
This also impacts the frequency & magnitude of male aggression towards females.
Clothing has a serious deleterious effect on psychology. I believe especially for males.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008] 1
#27628591 - 01/22/22 03:27 PM (2 years, 5 days ago) |
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durian_2008 said:
Female nudists are not exhilarating, mainly due to their lack of youthfulness, fitness, and grooming.
Imagine a world like the chimps where you never experience a clothed person from your birth till death.
BTW, it's quite funny society is OK with 16 yr old boys showering naked together after school sports.
It's OK for boys to see other naked males - but it would be TERRIBLE if they saw females! OMG, that's crazy!
It's amazing many folks view peeping toms as a form of deviant behavior that requires legal punishment.
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008]
#27975294 - 09/30/22 12:16 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Is "objectifying" someone only possible when we do not know the person? I mean, if we actually know someone, is it possible to objectify them? I know a gal who goes on & on & on about how she loves The Rock. If she actually knew the guy, could she still objectify him? Or would that be impossible?
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Re: Men/boys and thinking about sex [Re: durian_2008]
#27975326 - 09/30/22 12:51 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I heard this idea about "beauty" once - it kinda relates to the topic. That if you take someone you find to be extremely attractive, and only observe them in small bite size images, this removes the attractiveness. I mean, when you only can see one little bit at a time (never the whole) the emotional hook is neutralized. For example, looking one at a time at an iris, an ear, a finger, a part of a lip, an elbow, a toe, an eyebrow, the tip of a nose, etc.
I find that interesting. The whole image of person triggers emotion, but the parts seen individually not so much. I guess you can say the same about butterflies & flowers & the sunset, so maybe this is a dumb point.
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