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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #4]
#27240006 - 03/06/21 07:42 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Or just apologize for fucks sake.
When did shame get so complicated lol.
Dobt get me wrong, I get real shame. My shame will shame your shame. Maybe not. But everyone steals a bowl at somepoint. What are we all going to be apologizing for wacking it next?
Stop beating off all the time, apologize. Life will be easier.
Or just give it all to OP.
Edited by Anonymous (03/06/21 07:42 AM)
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #6] 1
#27240276 - 03/06/21 10:43 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous #6 said: start small and gradually increase. hell, maybe my shames are more shameful! i believe in you
Years and years ago...
I let my cousin's girlfriend/ baby momma suck my dick and then watched them kiss a few minutes afterwards.
He sent her over to pick me up and come over for a cookout, I had eaten some klonopin (60mg?) and drank a few beers the night before and these particular pharmaceuticals make me really relaxed and sleepy for a couple days at that dose, so she was pounding on the door, woke me up, I opened the door and laid back down as I was still quite buzzed and the bed was right there(studio apartment), the next thing I know she is slobbering all over my meat stick like she owned it, I wasn't attracted to her in the least and had offered no encouragement whatsoever, but what the hell right, anyway she swallows every drop and when we get back to her house my cousin kisses her right on the lips, frenchy style.
Now, my cousin turned out to be someone who is not what you might call a good person, but even still I felt a little guilty about finding the whole situation kind of hilarious. In fact, I'm chuckling about it right now because my cousin wound up snitching on a bunch of people (me included), to shorten his time for something (not sure what) but then he went and broke into a family friends house when she was away and stole all her Christmas presents under the tree in her house, and shortly after that stole his mom's credit cards and charged them all the way up, she had to press charges on him to get the credit card company to reverse the payments and it literally killed her, she lived about 8 more months and he came to her funeral in shackles. In a way it was like a pre pay back. As far as I know, he still doesn't know about the blow job kiss and is still stealing and scamming whomever he can to get meth.
Or maybe I don't know about the snowball? 
Either way I always feel shame whenever I have sexual relations with a married or involved woman. Seems like it's happened a lot over the years, but I don't knowingly fuck married women anymore. 
OP cannot have the shame tho, it is mine to let go of, not to hold onto and not to give to anyone else. 
Admitting you have done wrong is the first step, forgiveness is the next, and after you have admitted what you did was wrong(it's crazy how many people will not admit they were wrong or get extremely upset if you point it out to them) and forgiven yourself for doing it(this can be the hard part) you change your behavior so as not to reoffend, if you do this there will be no shame leftover because you worked through it in the forgiveness and behavior change phases. It's a simple process that provides excellent mental health for those who practice it. I call it, The Way.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Asante]
#27240286 - 03/06/21 10:48 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Asante said: I'm ashamed to be of the generation who took the boomers shit and made it even shittier for future generations.
Now the young people got their backs against the wall, helicoptered, medicated, sold out and betrayed, in debt from educations that don't fit their reality, geting boo'd by their elders for being spineless and weak.
I'm from a generation of entitled asshats.
No secret, I go on the record for it.
Never forget that you are the one that chooses how much of that you own.
If you are the change you seek in the world you need not be burdened by the ignorance of those who choose the status quo when they know it is wrong.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #5]
#27240290 - 03/06/21 10:49 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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