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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27239863 - 03/06/21 03:45 AM (2 years, 10 months ago)

Fatness isnt attractive in todays society. It means the person is lazy, overeats, or both. (or obviously has a condition that makes them fat)

Its just a simple fact. Not moving around and having a higher calories in than calories out produces fatness.


You should get with who you want to get with. Them not showing accurate representations of themselves is a negative that they produced. You shouldnt feel guilt if they look different in person. Thats on them.

It is likely due to their insecurities but at some level they know what they are doing. They know they are trying to trick a guy into thinking they are more attractive than they are.

But I guess thats what makeup is.



Just fuck who you want. Fall in love with who you want.


Outrageous to think ANYONE should be shamed/guilt-tripped into being with someone. That is called rape. And you should have self-worth mate.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27251914 - 03/13/21 10:24 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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The definition of health isn’t variable, stupid




What is health to some is nonsense to others, pull your head out of your ass and wipe the poop crust from your eyes and you may be able to see others that are not cardboard cutouts of you....




Naw I think you are objectively wrong. It is not healthy to be overweight. Even by 10 pounds. The further over you are the less healthy you are. Its just science bud.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27251916 - 03/13/21 10:25 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

And if fat is something youre not attracted to theres nothing you can do about it.

Just like gays be interested in the same sex. Or any of the other sexual interests.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27251918 - 03/13/21 10:26 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

Its so sad that we cant just state facts in this world. What is the world coming to? Meh.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27251985 - 03/13/21 11:53 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

Rage rant. Just respect Doctors and Nurses. They are Heroes.


Edited by Anonymous (03/14/21 01:19 AM)


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27252701 - 03/14/21 03:38 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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Rage rant. Just respect Doctors and Nurses. They are Heroes.




So are police (pigs) and soldiers (hired murderers) if you believe your indoctrination. Fuck these assholes right along with all doctors and nurses that pad or fake a file for a couple extra dollars from the insurance companies, these assholes are criminals, however lots of people have criminals for heroes. 

Doctors & nurses are human, that means there are both good and bad, to blanket them with hero worship suggest that you do not think for yourself.

- Back on topic, you like what you like op, if you like fat chicks in leather slapping your ass and running you in with a strapon that's your thing, no biggie. If you like skinny girls in missionary position, that's your thing. You like what you like. Unless you're into rape, or little kids, your sexual preferences are not really any big deal to anyone but you and maybe some uptight idiots that never have the sex they want anyway.






Sorry I prefer to talk to people who have consistent patterns in their thoughts. Also prefer to talk to people who came to their opinions through careful consideration of facts and evidence rather than personal anger at status quo.



Your first post doesnt go along with your second post. And your irritation at doctors and nurses can only exist in america. There are many other countries on earth. And even in the states many nurses and doctors are good.


Its so stupid. You can only have this argument because I made a superlative statement of "doctors and nurses are heroes" and you can argue "not all are good" and we have no idea what percentage you think are good or bad but you can argue it because there of course will be some that are bad.



This entire convo is just fucking stupid. Its semantics at its most basic level.




Fat people are unhealthy.

Doctors and nurses see horrible shit that you wouldnt be able to handle. And if you were able to handle it..... you definitely wouldnt talk shit about them after you saw what they deal with.



Try fucking losing a few kids on the table bud. Give that a go. Tell me how you feel after.'



And its not like this is a RARE occurrence. You realize their line of work this is their daily fucking life? Maybe not for a plastic surgeon. But for an ER Doctor? Every day! A huge percentage of nurses see it all the time as well.



And then you got king kong mega idiots who start arguing with basic science. How quaint is it that you dont argue when they pump the opiate into you after you get ejected from your car and skid across the asphalt with massive roadrash all over your body. Suddenly that science fucking works right? Or the magic voodoo Xray machine that tells them how to put your arms or legs back together. Or the consistently higher death rate a fat person has to a skinnier person.

You gonna argue that smoking doesnt cause cancer next?


You dont even offer a retort with science. You just say "Healthcare bad cuz I dont trust it". If youre gonna remove what most people consider fact from play..... you have to replace it with your own science. You dont get to just topple shit over because you "dont like it".


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27252890 - 03/14/21 06:51 PM (2 years, 10 months ago)

I dont wanna talk to anyone who puts "medical science" in quotes as if its not science LOL.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #27262959 - 03/21/21 08:52 AM (2 years, 10 months ago)

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Anonymous #13 said:
LOL at Post above.

Where do you live so I can come smack the dog shit out of you?!


How rude. What are you, 12? Women are not commodities to be bought and compared. Let me see your dick bitch. I’ll give you a free dick rate




You get on some real sex-orientated sites and you get to see what women really think.

Women want a muscle guy who is tall with a big dick.

Thats what they want.

2 of those things arent something you can change about your body.


There are of course exceptions.... but Id wager a lot of those exceptions are women settling for what they CAN get rather than what they want. And if they tell themself a "dad bod" is what they like enough times they start to believe it.


Put a sexy heroic big muscle 6 foot 4 guy in front of them with a massive dick that is DESPERATE for her and she will go for it.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27282987 - 04/26/21 05:29 PM (2 years, 8 months ago)

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^^^^^ the post of some guy who can't get laid so he demeans random women online.




As a fat dude who lost weight.... No one just showered down from above to give me sex or a relationship. I dieted and went to the gym. Now womens eyes catch me when I walk into a room.


Dunno what else to say if you want to literally reject reality.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27283363 - 04/27/21 02:02 AM (2 years, 8 months ago)

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You will never get laid if you don't put yourself in the position to get laid.




sage wisdom, my friend.




This is not sage wisdom. Its stupid. Its just..... so stupid. Sigh.

Being attractive matters. It doesnt matter what your bullshit emotional wishes were about the fairness of the world. A girl will be more attracted to muscles and a big dick. Thats why the super models that are popular and the porn stars that are popular and the people hired to strip for bachelorette parties are "attractive". Thats why the word "attractive" exists.


This is an absolute MADNESS discussion. My dating partners went from being fat to skinny. I fuck a LOT. All the fucking time. When I was fat too. I have a sex addiction. I pull hotter women now. Its just a fact. When I walk into a room women LOOK at me. I can SEE them looking. They STARE. I remember when it started happening. I had lost weight built some muscle and finally switched over to new tighter clothes. Immediately I started getting eyes like that.

And you guys drawing me out to say stuff like "I pull hotter women" makes it easy for you guys to respond with "WOW what an egotistical guy who doesnt care about emoooootions." But these are the facts.


The world ISNT fair. I'm sorry its not. A 400 kilo dude is less likely to find love than Jason Mamoa. There ARE notable exceptions of fat people finding more attractive partners with charisma and a good personality. But an exception to a rule doesnt disprove it. If a fat dude and a muscular dude are walking shirtless into the beach the women arent looking at the fat dude thinking "Mmmmm I wanna touch his body."



And you know what the fuck else? Neither are you! You act so perfect and shit. You see a fat person of the gender you find appealing and a muscular one next to it or a fit one next to it. Youre gonna look at the fit one if they are all half naked.


So shut the fuck up with your bullshit. This is exactly like fucking catholic priests preaching all this nonsense while they fuck little boys behind the curtains.



Grow up.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #19]
    #27283365 - 04/27/21 02:05 AM (2 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #19 said:
I haven't had sex since 2016.. I feel like shit. All the time.





Having sex changes the way our brains work. Chasing a partner down does too.

I dont know what your issues are. But proper diet and exercise will make life better. And chasing a relationship will too.

We are animals. We are meant to procreate. The body senses the lack of vitality and tells the organism to die.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #19]
    #27283379 - 04/27/21 02:22 AM (2 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #19 said:
Yeah I'm exercising again and been sober for awhile. I feel like I have to get my shit together first.




I found the biggest factor for me with losing weight was stopping the god damn alcohol.


It has SO MANY things that stops you from winning.

Its got calories. It fucks up your digestion. It makes it hard to work out the next day. Knocks you off balance. It makes you depressed.


Alcohol is almost objectively a fucking shit thing. I hate the stuff. Everytime I drink it I am ruined for my regiment for a day or two.



Glad youre working on you mate.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27284615 - 04/28/21 03:38 AM (2 years, 8 months ago)

Interesting cognitive dissonance.

Apparently we shouldnt care about weight..... but ALSO fat women are more loving and caring.


You sure youre not just trying to be the righteous one and refusing to see things as they actually are?


Its easy to say the things that make everyone love you. Like children for example..... after a divorce if you give your kids cookies and let them stay up late.... youre the good parent.

Sometimes you need to be spanked. Need your games taken away. Need structure.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #27286056 - 04/29/21 04:17 AM (2 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #12 said:
So come on down off of the high horse and give yourself all the structure you need.

And what does that have to do with the subject matter of the post? So you don't like my advice? It rubs you the wrong way? Your interpretation is not correct? Perhaps you are the one that needs a spanking and you also need a big boned women to do it?





I'm not sure what your point is.


Fat women taking sneaky pictures making it look like they arent fat so they can pick up men who wouldnt respond to them if they didnt take sneaky pictures = lying and manipulating.


The mere fact that they DO take sneaky pictures proves the entire point. Otherwise they'd send non-sneaky pictures if being fat didnt matter.



It does. Sorry if that hurts your feeling bud.



And your "some people like fat people" bit doesnt mean anything. If you were born with a horn on your forehead that would turn on some people. Doesnt mean having a horn on your head wouldn't repel potential mates.




What is your point? Do you have a point? Or is it just that I'm an asshole for having the opinions that I have? How dare the big mean anon 3 say all these meanie mean mean things!



With a simulator we could send you in as a fat dude into a bar and then send you in as a muscular dude. Muscular dude gonna get more attention. Its fucking OBVIOUS. Like jesus christ. Having a mustard stain on your shirt would make you less appealing vs not having a mustard stain.


There are simple realities. I wont join the deluded party just so I can feel superior that my belief system is considered inclusive of all peoples and get little gold stars from others. I try to think whatever is accurate to the best of my abilities.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #21]
    #27287006 - 04/29/21 06:56 PM (2 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #21 said:
Lol man.. I was looking at some old pics of ex gfs, and damn were they skinny. I was into it at the time, but now I'm like damn, you need to eat girl. Then there was the chick who I totally blew off cuz i thought she was too fat... she actually looked pretty bangin.

Point is it's all subjective.

And that's your problem #3, you're in here all :luvdemshrooms: as if your opinion is 100% objective absolute truth, when, it's just not.

Attractiveness is way more complicated than a binary ideal of fat or not fat.
More muscles = more attractive? Lol, bud, I've heard girls say "Ew, him? He looks like a gorilla" So, no. Maybe your reality is a little too simple.

There is no grand conspiracy to get gold stars or whatever the fuck nonsense you're on about. Nobody is trying to tell you what body type you have to be attracted to. You're the one demanding that only your subjective ideal is valid.





Naw mate. Its just true.

The issue is.... you guys can say things like "I know a person who likes X" or "Well I kinda like Y"

But fatness does not benefit you in the dating world. Just because you could locate 10 people to stock a bar with that would like a fat version of you doesnt mean shit. A bar will deny a fat person. Or online profiles.


It is literally the exact reason this chick the OP talks about takes fake profile pictures with weird angles.



Denying this is just stupid. Plain and simple.


Its also fucking unhealthy to be fat.



When people like me.... let idiots like you guys run off with the "everyones pretty in their own special way" lines..... eventually you get motherfuckers on mainstream channels like Oprah arguing that being fat isnt unhealthy. And it becomes a douchebag move to even suggest being fat leads to heart disease and shit.



Its fucking stupid. You shouldnt be fat. You shouldnt have any pounds at all over ideal. If you do..... its a problem. 5 pounds isnt that much of a problem. 15 pounds is a little worse. 50 pounds is pretty bad. 100 pounds is super bad. 200 pounds is really really bad.

And so on.



Its VERY simple. You are making it complex and hiding in the nuance. Dont be fat. If you are... its a problem. You can choose to accept that problem because you like food and dont like exercise..... the same way people ride motorcycles or base jump. Just dont come around saying riding a motorcycle is safe and base jumping doesnt have risks.




Its just so stupid. Who are the people fucking nonstop? Attractive men and women. Its because they are attractive. Porn stars. Super models. Even famous actors and shit are typically hot.


We even have a word "Hot" or "attractive". When someone goes from no muscles to having muscles... people that knew that person go "GOD DAMN! Wow!"


I am LITERALLY just pointing out common sense.




Its like me saying "Men are stronger than women physically." Even that is getting attacked nowadays.


Shut the fuck up with your load of bullshit. You fucking fake reality living morons. Wake up to yourself.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27287014 - 04/29/21 07:02 PM (2 years, 8 months ago)

Here. Here. Here.

I've got it.


Argue with this point:

Creating a profile on an online dating site with a muscular guy will get more messages from women that are attractive.


Creating a profile on an online dating site with an overweight out of shape guy will get less messages overall and more messages from unattractive women. (if they get any messages at all without first sending a message)


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27287020 - 04/29/21 07:04 PM (2 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #20 said:
You're pretty confident with yourself pretending you know what people like and don't like. There's a whole wide world out there, filled with people whose views most certainly align with yours when it comes to the dating world. You're obviously pretty young but you're gonna find out soon.

Life isn't black and white. People are attracted to who they're attracted to, and fat isn't always a hindrance. THAT's the truth.





You can mock what you think my age or maturity levels are all you want. Reality doesnt give a fuck about your feelings.


I am NOT wrong. And I won't pretend some bullshit reality just so YOU dont think I'm arrogant or immature. My goal isnt to IMPRESS you. Its to be as accurate as I can with my worldview.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27287042 - 04/29/21 07:20 PM (2 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #20 said:
I think Reality should get some ice for that boo boo on your feelings :shrug:




I talk like this about anything I'm talking about.


But hey if my points are too valid for you to make a response thats cool bud.


Delusional land always a happier place. I remember being there years ago :smile:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #20]
    #27287058 - 04/29/21 07:35 PM (2 years, 8 months ago)

Oooo I got another one youre not going to like.


Having a mental illness is unattractive.

Or a physical deformity.



Both unattractive. People without mental illnesses can pick up more women. And people without physical deformities can pick up more women.



Ooooo I got another one! People that are black are more able to pickup black people as a date. People that are white are more able to pickup white people as a date.



I bet those bug the hell out of you :smile: :smile: :smile:


Gotta love how facts dont care about feelings.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #21]
    #27287387 - 04/30/21 01:59 AM (2 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #21 said:
Define "fat"
Define exactly the point where someone becomes unattractive.
You can't.
Because it's subjective.

You've got someone 200lbs overweight, and you've got an extreme athlete. Survey says: Yea, you're right, generally speaking folks will say the athlete is more attractive.

But how about: You've got someone 5lbs overweight, and someone 15lbs overweight. One carries it in their breasts, the other in their butt. One is blonde, the other brunette. One has a great smile, the other has a great laugh.
Survey says: who the fuck knows, because all of these things contribute to how attractive one appears. Only a psychopath would make the distinction based on the numbers from a scale.

Most people are average, and date other people who are average.

You're arguing from extremes to create "facts" that are just generalizations. Nobody gives a shit.
Is it good advice for most people to hit the gym and lose a couple pounds? Sure. But it ain't everything.
A whole lot of fat, old, nasty fucks are getting it on RIGHT. NOW. Does that make you uncomfortable?




It does not make me uncomfortable. My relevance to this issue is non existent.

You say on one hand a two hundred pounds over weight person would not be as attractive as an athletic person. On the other hand you say someone who thinks in terms of numbers on the scale is a psychopath. So which is it?


The variance of 0-30 pounds or even more depending on the body does come down to body proportions and aesthetic. It definitely however does negatively impact health.


I can't tell you where between 0 pounds overweight and 400 pounds overweight they become "less" attractive. Clearly though the transition does take place.


I would argue it starts at 0.5 pounds based on body proportions. Some women of course would look more attractive with extra weight if it was sacrificing their breasts for example. Additionally fully emaciated people tend to be less attractive as well.


It would appear..... As a common sense bystander..... Having athletics and a bit of muscle.... With little to no fat..... Is the ideal.


In the exact same way I visually see that women tend to be less strong than men. I am merely stating the obvious here. And I'm a pariah! How mad is this?


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