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Anonymous #21
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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #9]
#27286675 - 04/29/21 02:21 PM (2 years, 8 months ago) |
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Lol man.. I was looking at some old pics of ex gfs, and damn were they skinny. I was into it at the time, but now I'm like damn, you need to eat girl. Then there was the chick who I totally blew off cuz i thought she was too fat... she actually looked pretty bangin.
Point is it's all subjective.
And that's your problem #3, you're in here all as if your opinion is 100% objective absolute truth, when, it's just not.
Attractiveness is way more complicated than a binary ideal of fat or not fat. More muscles = more attractive? Lol, bud, I've heard girls say "Ew, him? He looks like a gorilla" So, no. Maybe your reality is a little too simple.
There is no grand conspiracy to get gold stars or whatever the fuck nonsense you're on about. Nobody is trying to tell you what body type you have to be attracted to. You're the one demanding that only your subjective ideal is valid.
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Anonymous #21
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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#27287360 - 04/30/21 12:53 AM (2 years, 8 months ago) |
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Define "fat" Define exactly the point where someone becomes unattractive. You can't. Because it's subjective.
You've got someone 200lbs overweight, and you've got an extreme athlete. Survey says: Yea, you're right, generally speaking folks will say the athlete is more attractive.
But how about: You've got someone 5lbs overweight, and someone 15lbs overweight. One carries it in their breasts, the other in their butt. One is blonde, the other brunette. One has a great smile, the other has a great laugh. Survey says: who the fuck knows, because all of these things contribute to how attractive one appears. Only a psychopath would make the distinction based on the numbers from a scale.
Most people are average, and date other people who are average.
You're arguing from extremes to create "facts" that are just generalizations. Nobody gives a shit. Is it good advice for most people to hit the gym and lose a couple pounds? Sure. But it ain't everything. A whole lot of fat, old, nasty fucks are getting it on RIGHT. NOW. Does that make you uncomfortable?
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Anonymous #21
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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#27287428 - 04/30/21 02:59 AM (2 years, 8 months ago) |
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You're a pariah because you're confusing YOUR ideal for THE ideal.
I'm not that into "Hot" chicks, I like "Cute" chicks, but not "Cutesy" chicks. What's the difference between those? Couldn't tell ya, not in a meaningful way. It's defined by a collection of perceptions that only exist in my head.
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Anonymous #21
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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#27289309 - 05/01/21 02:48 PM (2 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hate to break it to ya bud, but, Going to the gym might get you some more hits on tinder, but it doesn't guarantee that people will like you.
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Anonymous #21
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Re: Heavy-sized women - am I an asshole or just myself? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#27295651 - 05/05/21 03:03 PM (2 years, 8 months ago) |
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The point of body positivity is to say that everyone is deserving of love and respect. Some nit-wits may construe that to mean that being fat is healthy, but nit-wits gonna nit-wit.
The second half of it is to get people to love themselves. Idea being, if you love yourself, you might be more motivated to take care of yourself.
Some folks get motivated by hating themselves and their body and become determined to change, other folks think 'im a piece of shit, why bother'... Man, motivation is a tough one.
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