Most people don't like big girls. I think fat is a normal thing to be repulsed by, but it's also becoming more socially normal to not be. I remind myself not to give a shit about societal norms and remember what I want: a healthy chick. Doesn't mean I hate fat people, but I am not sexually attracted to rolling around with a big ole sloppy girl. Can't help that. And there's no need to force it.
If you get catfished your choices are to respectfully play out the date and don't call her back, or you can be a dick and let her know how you feel. I'm a fan of being honest, but that's a tough one. It's happened to me once, and my brain's response was not to hurt her feelings because she felt insecure enough to lie and hoped I would see her differently in person than she sees herself. Once again, I am not sexually attracted to big girls and I can't change that. It's not your responsibility to either. They'll find someone else if they want to, and so will you. Everyone has their taste in partner and I think it's stupid to placate somebody you aren't interested in just because someone might think you're rude for not wanting to fuck them.
Walk the line
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