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Anonymous #1
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Deposit your secret shame here
#27234921 - 03/03/21 09:29 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Deposit your secret shame here. Unburden yourself. I will let your shame commingle with my shame. I will carry it for you, not forever, but just so long as my strength holds out. Once I can no longer carry the weight of your shame, the memory of it will return to you.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#27234951 - 03/03/21 09:48 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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That sounds like a horrible deal. I'll hold onto mine. You hold onto yours. We carry our own weight around here, and teach others to do the same.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #2]
#27234961 - 03/03/21 09:54 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Proud to be an ‘Murican!
That’s fine. It was just an offer.
Let’s not speak for everyone else though, mmmkay?
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27234963 - 03/03/21 09:56 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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I doubt anyone will give out their energy to have it unknowingly come back to them at any given point when it burns you out, for ours and yours.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #2]
#27234967 - 03/03/21 09:58 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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The entire point of you hassling me is to burn me out and sap my energy
You win douchebag
Edited by Anonymous (03/03/21 09:58 AM)
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27235029 - 03/03/21 10:40 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Well let me hold it, for a sec. And charge it with love and a prayers. And send back the good to you. Let me have some bad, and change it, you can have that back too.
Your welcome brotha.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #2]
#27235036 - 03/03/21 10:45 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Damn. Lol. I was gonna mention mine but I have a couple shames, not sure which one to put .
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #3]
#27235040 - 03/03/21 10:47 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Lettem have it! If he wants it that bad.
The shamier one.
Edited by Anonymous (03/03/21 10:47 AM)
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Asante
Mage


Registered: 02/06/02
Posts: 86,795
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #2]
#27235092 - 03/03/21 11:22 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm ashamed to be of the generation who took the boomers shit and made it even shittier for future generations.
Now the young people got their backs against the wall, helicoptered, medicated, sold out and betrayed, in debt from educations that don't fit their reality, geting boo'd by their elders for being spineless and weak.
I'm from a generation of entitled asshats.
No secret, I go on the record for it.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Asante]
#27238130 - 03/05/21 04:57 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm not really ashamed of it but I was reminded this morning as I went to the ATM about this one time years and years ago. My cousin and I were out, I was in my early 20's and he was 18 maybe, we went to get some cash for pizza or some shit. There was this lady in front of us, we were just shooting the shit, giving her distance and waiting our turn. She goes to leave, I put my card in and she just left cash in the machine. I knew I should tell her, but immediately I knew she was being sketchy and being my younger self I figured if she was gonna judge me like I'm gonna rob her ass then she didn't deserve me giving her the money back. She was gone in a flash, and I still think about that every now and then. It was only $40-60 but it wasn't mine, even if she was a scared bitch. I like to think I'd be a little more bold now that I'm older.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27239017 - 03/05/21 04:23 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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No shame in my game.
I have become a professional at taking a bad situation or an unfortunate set of circumstances and turning it around so it doesn't drag me down.
I do have a secret and horrible shame I will not share For never again I promised myself would I go there
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #5]
#27239196 - 03/05/21 06:16 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #5 said: I do have a secret and horrible shame I will not share For never again I promised myself would I go there
you just basically went there. so, out with it!
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #6]
#27239239 - 03/05/21 06:31 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #6 said:
Quote:
Anonymous #5 said: I do have a secret and horrible shame I will not share For never again I promised myself would I go there
you just basically went there. so, out with it!
No I didn't and I certainly won't.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #5]
#27239274 - 03/05/21 06:49 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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denial is not just a river in Egypt
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #6]
#27239369 - 03/05/21 07:40 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Ok. I have many secret shames, from small to ego shattering, which one whould you want to hear knowing that by telling I actually re live the experience via physiological reactions?
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #5]
#27239374 - 03/05/21 07:43 PM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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start small and gradually increase. hell, maybe my shames are more shameful! i believe in you
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #6]
#27239864 - 03/06/21 03:48 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Back when I was heavily addicted to pot I was smoking shatter a lot. I'd go through it faster than I could pay for it.
My roommate had dab in the house and I would regularly clean the oil out of his rigs and smoke the claim.
I started taking tiny pieces of his dab from the silicone container and then melting the dab back down to make it look like I didnt take any.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #7]
#27239938 - 03/06/21 06:42 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Oh ya, your grounded.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #2]
#27239979 - 03/06/21 07:14 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #2 said: Oh ya, your grounded.
10 years later I still think about it.
How could I have gotten so slimy? I couldnt imagine what would happen to me if I got into Meth.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #7]
#27239987 - 03/06/21 07:22 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Maybe you could pay him back then.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #4]
#27240006 - 03/06/21 07:42 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Or just apologize for fucks sake.
When did shame get so complicated lol.
Dobt get me wrong, I get real shame. My shame will shame your shame. Maybe not. But everyone steals a bowl at somepoint. What are we all going to be apologizing for wacking it next?
Stop beating off all the time, apologize. Life will be easier.
Or just give it all to OP.
Edited by Anonymous (03/06/21 07:42 AM)
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #6] 1
#27240276 - 03/06/21 10:43 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous #6 said: start small and gradually increase. hell, maybe my shames are more shameful! i believe in you
Years and years ago...
I let my cousin's girlfriend/ baby momma suck my dick and then watched them kiss a few minutes afterwards.
He sent her over to pick me up and come over for a cookout, I had eaten some klonopin (60mg?) and drank a few beers the night before and these particular pharmaceuticals make me really relaxed and sleepy for a couple days at that dose, so she was pounding on the door, woke me up, I opened the door and laid back down as I was still quite buzzed and the bed was right there(studio apartment), the next thing I know she is slobbering all over my meat stick like she owned it, I wasn't attracted to her in the least and had offered no encouragement whatsoever, but what the hell right, anyway she swallows every drop and when we get back to her house my cousin kisses her right on the lips, frenchy style.
Now, my cousin turned out to be someone who is not what you might call a good person, but even still I felt a little guilty about finding the whole situation kind of hilarious. In fact, I'm chuckling about it right now because my cousin wound up snitching on a bunch of people (me included), to shorten his time for something (not sure what) but then he went and broke into a family friends house when she was away and stole all her Christmas presents under the tree in her house, and shortly after that stole his mom's credit cards and charged them all the way up, she had to press charges on him to get the credit card company to reverse the payments and it literally killed her, she lived about 8 more months and he came to her funeral in shackles. In a way it was like a pre pay back. As far as I know, he still doesn't know about the blow job kiss and is still stealing and scamming whomever he can to get meth.
Or maybe I don't know about the snowball? 
Either way I always feel shame whenever I have sexual relations with a married or involved woman. Seems like it's happened a lot over the years, but I don't knowingly fuck married women anymore. 
OP cannot have the shame tho, it is mine to let go of, not to hold onto and not to give to anyone else. 
Admitting you have done wrong is the first step, forgiveness is the next, and after you have admitted what you did was wrong(it's crazy how many people will not admit they were wrong or get extremely upset if you point it out to them) and forgiven yourself for doing it(this can be the hard part) you change your behavior so as not to reoffend, if you do this there will be no shame leftover because you worked through it in the forgiveness and behavior change phases. It's a simple process that provides excellent mental health for those who practice it. I call it, The Way.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Asante]
#27240286 - 03/06/21 10:48 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Asante said: I'm ashamed to be of the generation who took the boomers shit and made it even shittier for future generations.
Now the young people got their backs against the wall, helicoptered, medicated, sold out and betrayed, in debt from educations that don't fit their reality, geting boo'd by their elders for being spineless and weak.
I'm from a generation of entitled asshats.
No secret, I go on the record for it.
Never forget that you are the one that chooses how much of that you own.
If you are the change you seek in the world you need not be burdened by the ignorance of those who choose the status quo when they know it is wrong.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Deposit your secret shame here [Re: Anonymous #5]
#27240290 - 03/06/21 10:49 AM (2 years, 10 months ago) |
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