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Roflspammer
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: The OCB]
#27170586 - 01/26/21 09:45 AM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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Why are we trying to make her feel guilty? You're not a match for each other, no shame or wrongdoing in that.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Roflspammer]
#27170619 - 01/26/21 10:08 AM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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Nobody is trying to make her feel any sort of way. Maybe re-read the earlier posts.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: The OCB]
#27170682 - 01/26/21 10:52 AM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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What he was saying is that by remaining in contact with her, he is minimizing her guilt if not completely eliminating it; which will inevitably result in her continuing her behavior
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: theRealrollforever]
#27170695 - 01/26/21 11:03 AM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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Knowing how those drug cults work shes probably getting passed around like a J of reggie. Not missing much there.. the machine elves are probably even running one on her.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#27170700 - 01/26/21 11:08 AM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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She's going to do what she wants-- its not his job to sculpt her.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Roflspammer]
#27170703 - 01/26/21 11:13 AM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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Yea, it’s the cult leaders job to sculpt her.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#27170720 - 01/26/21 11:22 AM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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ROFL
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #5]
#27170744 - 01/26/21 11:38 AM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#27170762 - 01/26/21 11:50 AM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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Honestly It sounds like a great fucking cult, I wanna join. Is everyone there intelligent and scientifically driven?
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#27171125 - 01/26/21 03:00 PM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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What country is this episode of Hippie Real World taking place?
Also; sculpt her? What is she an art piece? ROFL!
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: The OCB]
#27171673 - 01/26/21 07:51 PM (3 years, 20 days ago) |
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Hell no maybe
Edited by Roflspammer (01/26/21 07:52 PM)
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#27175666 - 01/29/21 06:50 AM (3 years, 18 days ago) |
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I didnt mean to spend much time on a response....as you can see i was extremely successful
THE HERO'S JOURNEY
crafted for anon's all around the world
just my thoughts... i can tell you that from reading your post you really do like this chick if you really do find her intellect excellent and also find a good connection between you two..id keep on talking on the daily especially if you dont have alot going on for you and/or your ugly as fuck or bored as fuck..(which we all feel like at times) ...but.... with that in mind i would like to point out.. you said in the beginning she was gonna go back to the commune but she chose to stay because of this new found connection between you which then turned into and i quote "she’s choosing to stay there for these experiences (every 2-3 months), she’s ended the relationship." but still wants a relationship and to talk on the daily...shes pretty much saying ...yo anon #1 ..i want you to stick around cause i like you so much.. but im on a different wave link right now and want you to suffer the pains of love untouchable and the thoughts and everything that go along with that type of situation ...yes a lil selfish on her part but hey we all go through different mindsets and phases ......i could keep on rambling and giving my recommendations and jargon but at the end of the day ....you gotta do whats right for you bro!..i mean thats exactly what shes doing and you owe it to yourself to do whats right for you!! im a believer in LOVE being the greatest gift next to water and air for a human..... and im on a friend basis with every woman ive ever slept with... even the chicks that are now married ...we still all talk...its all about how you handle yourself and how you constructed your relationships and your own thoughts....now how bad ass you are for being a man with that kinda mentality and finese! ... you one bad mutha!!!...damn this post struck a strong instinct for me to reply so much that this is now the biggest post/response of my entire life (seriously!) but imma wrap this up .....ME: id keep on talking and enjoying each other and your conversations.... (if you find her actually intellegent this shouldnt be hard) ..she may be back soon ...and she may not be a person you wanna let go of easily or she may be a totally different chick than you knew..just something else to think on..id keep that relationship going if you can and would like to...but dont cause yourself mental pains and stresses ...this could work out for you in the near future as a solid relationship or not but whats more dominate than a dude who could lay that kinda solid foundation in the beginning of the first year?! ...NOT SHIT!...to anyone who read all this and made it this far...thank you for your time and efforts this has been my longest post ever!!!!!! anon #1 i wish you the best of luck and my final bullshit analogy of the day.. .......life is what you make it, some people compare life to a movie or a book(we will name it (the hero's journey) ) the big secret to success in life you may wonder?...simple... just write it to your liking!!!..were all trying to figure it all out in this world just living the hero's journey ...thanks for your time lol..all comments and input on my longest post/tangent of my life is wanted and welcomed good or bad.. please stop by the merch tent on your way out
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: rjreynoldsinc]
#27175855 - 01/29/21 09:13 AM (3 years, 18 days ago) |
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27175885 - 01/29/21 09:34 AM (3 years, 18 days ago) |
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Bro you got to sort yourself out. Going through a divorce is complex and all good, but if you don't take proper time you do run the risk of falling over yourself again.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #2]
#27176055 - 01/29/21 11:07 AM (3 years, 18 days ago) |
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#27176318 - 01/29/21 02:15 PM (3 years, 18 days ago) |
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So you're with this girl and out of the blue she decides that getting high and banging other dudes is more important than her relationship with you. She moves off to spend time in a cult and gets in a relationship with the first guy that comes along. Meanwhile she keep stringing you along probably because she's a sociopath and enjoys the power trip and your solution is to move in together and try to have a relationship with her. I'm not saying it's a bad idea and won't work out but it's a bad idea and won't work out.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: Kwyjibo]
#27176489 - 01/29/21 03:48 PM (3 years, 18 days ago) |
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27176531 - 01/29/21 04:08 PM (3 years, 18 days ago) |
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You can justify and spin it as you like but she's already shown drugs and a random guy she just met are higher on her priority list than you and if you're ok with that and ok with the possibility of her taking off again on a whim for some other shiny new drug or guy then go for it but as much as you think it won't bother you when it happens it will. I get it, girls like that are tons of fun but is the fun now worth all of the bs that will surely follow later?
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: Kwyjibo]
#27176581 - 01/29/21 04:35 PM (3 years, 18 days ago) |
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27176625 - 01/29/21 05:00 PM (3 years, 18 days ago) |
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It sounds like the best thing for both of you right now is to be her friend and only her friend. Let her sort through and deal with her issues and when she's in a better place then discuss the possibility of pursuing a relationship.
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