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LemonTekno
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27161863 - 01/21/21 04:10 PM (3 years, 25 days ago) |
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Sorry OP, but while your commitment to meditation is commendable, your posts so far suggest she's got you firmly hooked and won't let go that easily.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: LemonTekno]
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#27165164 - 01/23/21 09:58 AM (3 years, 23 days ago) |
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Once my ex is my ex, I don't care what she does; if she wants to text me everyday she will text me everyday. If I want to respond, I respond. Please don't artificially limit yourself, do what you want while being mindful of the consequences. There's no shame in asking her "what do you want" if it helps you move forward; this culture of "I need to move on and forget" is quite caustic. Ask what you want to ask, do what you want to do, live how you want to live.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#27165242 - 01/23/21 11:02 AM (3 years, 23 days ago) |
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This girls trying to keep ya on the hook. Time to cut the line and swim away
She chose something else over you (and it really doesn't matter what it was, she chose it, not you) and if you're sitting around "waiting", you'll likely miss out during your indefinite waiting period.
Don't let her hold more space in your heart that is good for you
If she ever did come back, this is the kind of woman that would run off again whenever the thought popped into her head. Do you really want someone that flighty?
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Nonagon Infinity
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27165799 - 01/23/21 04:48 PM (3 years, 23 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I think I'm holding out for the prospect of sex and to sound a bit shitty, I'm competitive.
If you're at that level of self awareness, then I don't think it sounds shitty. Then again, as another poster pointed out, you'll have to deal with the consequences of your actions there haha
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27165863 - 01/23/21 05:27 PM (3 years, 23 days ago) |
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The fucking crazy ones are always better lays my friend. I fell into that trap 20 fuckin years ago and it's going to cost me everything I've got plus my sanity and likely my relationship with my kids to get away from her
Do yourself a favor and find someone else to chase
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#27167358 - 01/24/21 02:25 PM (3 years, 22 days ago) |
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Sex with crazy women is always hot until one day you realize you’ve lost your mind, finances, and desire to live.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#27167585 - 01/24/21 04:46 PM (3 years, 22 days ago) |
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Anonymous #4 said: Sex with crazy women is always hot until one day you realize you’ve lost your mind, finances, and desire to live.
Did you just read my mind?!?
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27168509 - 01/25/21 06:25 AM (3 years, 22 days ago) |
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There's no potential dude. She's a jobless hippy
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27169263 - 01/25/21 02:34 PM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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Huh, that's interesting. I was assuming she was some 21 year old kinda confused kid, using a trust fund to live out fantasies.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Lynnch]
#27169429 - 01/25/21 04:20 PM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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Lynnch said: Huh, that's interesting. I was assuming she was some 21 year old kinda confused kid, using a trust fund to live out fantasies.
Life never stops surprising me.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Lynnch]
#27169664 - 01/25/21 06:22 PM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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Lynnch said: Huh, that's interesting. I was assuming she was some 21 year old kinda confused kid, using a trust fund to live out fantasies.
hahaha. exactly how all this reads. Hilarious to me how many people giving legit advice are anon in this thread. What a trip.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: The OCB]
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27170516 - 01/26/21 09:04 AM (3 years, 21 days ago) |
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You assuage her guilt by remaining in contact.
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