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As a gay man, I have female friends that have talked to me about their boyfriends and pregnancy scares. Also, I have a straight male friends who have talked to me about their girlfriends and shit about their kids and this and that.
All I'm going to say is that heterosexual relationship dynamics are fucking weird and fucking fucked up too. Heterosexual sex and relationships are so much more complicated than gay relationships, dynamics, and sex.
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split_by_nine
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if he doesnt want a kid, he takes responsibility and wears a condom. its not rocket science
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: spirit_shadow]
#28129959 - 01/07/23 10:35 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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Lots of babies being born nowadays are going to end up being bastards, or without a father. Also being born to parents who fucked out of wedlock.
It seems like being gay is a luxury these days since we never have to worry about getting pregnant.
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split_by_nine
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All I'm going to say is that heterosexual relationship dynamics are fucking weird and fucking fucked up too. Heterosexual sex and relationships are so much more complicated than gay relationships, dynamics, and sex.
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You mentioned double standard but not once have you called the man a derogatory name.
Do you call yourself names if you chose to have sex?
This could be a great discussion.. but listen to how you are writing.
Of course I agree with my body my choice. I agree with all bodies. All sexes.
People are allowed to change their mind.
One thing you said was it was a hook up from Tinder. Not a relationship. So.. my body my choice why was he not wearing a condom if he did not want a baby? Abortion is not a birth control method.
You also stated that they discussed it prior to having sex. Why were no precautions taken?
A human having a bond with an unborn child is a natural thing. It is also a natural thing for women and men both to bond with an unborn child. Oxytocin is released which assists with the bonding. It is also released with ejaculation. When the baby is born the same chemical is released in the mans body. And at a greater rate after the birth but spread out 3 days. Both experience the same bonding to the child but in different stages. And both experience the same amount of hormone.
Women enjoy sex also. Is there some reason why women are not allowed to enjoy sex? Everytime you referred to a woman having sex you are calling her a name or make a crude remark.
Men are also capable just like women in making attempts to control if they produce a child or not. Men are not stupid.
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OutsideOfMyMind said: As a gay man, I have female friends that have talked to me about their boyfriends and pregnancy scares. Also, I have a straight male friends who have talked to me about their girlfriends and shit about their kids and this and that.
In my personal experience there is drama in hetero and non hetero relationships. All I'm going to say is that heterosexual relationship dynamics are fucking weird and fucking fucked up too. Heterosexual sex and relationships are so much more complicated than gay relationships, dynamics, and sex.
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OutsideOfMyMind said: Lots of babies being born nowadays are going to end up being bastards, or without a father. Also being born to parents who fucked out of wedlock.
It seems like being gay is a luxury these days since we never have to worry about getting pregnant.
Gay could be viewed as a luxury if you didn't want bio children. I suppose. I think that is a personal preference.
Why are you so angry about it?
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: loladoreen]
#28129975 - 01/07/23 10:59 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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lola this guy is not worth the effort of conversation. he once blew up on his sister and said he wouldnt speak to her again because she wouldnt let him use her amazon account so he could avoid paying $6 shipping on some tea cups lol
he is textbook entitled millennial with narcissistic tendencies
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: split_by_nine]
#28129977 - 01/07/23 11:02 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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split_by_nine said: lola this guy is not worth the effort of conversation. he once blew up on his sister and said he wouldnt speak to her again because she wouldnt let him use her amazon account so he could avoid paying $6 shipping on some tea cups lol he is textbook entitled millennial with narcissistic tendencies
It actually would of been an intriguing conversation. BUT.. she's a whore and she's taking dick and lying down.. come on... isn't everyone here an adult?
I have all sons, 6 brothers. None are dumbasses.
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: loladoreen]
#28129984 - 01/07/23 11:07 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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you seem to have more patience than most people on here. i respect that
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: spirit_shadow]
#28129985 - 01/07/23 11:08 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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I just had a Tarot reading that was accurate. So it cued me to post this. I got the reading from someone on here. I'll post their name after I look them up.
Unpopular Opinion:
I follow astrology closely and believe in astrology and tarot. Really big on astrology.
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: split_by_nine]
#28129987 - 01/07/23 11:09 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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split_by_nine said: you seem to have more patience than most people on here. i respect that
Why be mad? Everyone is allowed to be different. It is how you learn and grow. Learning about other peoples opinions and why they feel the way they do. I am sincerely interested. I like people and I like differences and embrace them. I dont like disrespect.
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: loladoreen]
#28130000 - 01/07/23 11:21 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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Because I hate traffic and I hate congestion and I hated when people would always park right next me when I was homeless and living out of my car, despite there being millions of other parking spaces...why next to me? Overpopulation much?
Anyway, every child born means that in 16 years that little fucker will have its driver's license and another CAR will be IN MY WAY taking up traffic on the highways and streets.
I have a screenshot of the traffic conditions in los angeles during the 2020 pandemic. It's all green. No orange or red. The roads were so peaceful during march-may 2020.
I'm also antinatalist. Nobody should be having kids in this dying planet anymore. The sky is falling, the earth is getting flatter, billionaires are taking over,...
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OutsideOfMyMind said: Because I hate traffic and I hate congestion and I hated when people would always park right next me when I was homeless and living out of my car, despite there being millions of other parking spaces...why next to me? Overpopulation much?
Anyway, every child born means that in 16 years that little fucker will have its driver's license and another CAR will be IN MY WAY taking up traffic on the highways and streets.
I have a screenshot of the traffic conditions in los angeles during the 2020 pandemic. It's all green. No orange or red. The roads were so peaceful during march-may 2020.
I'm also antinatalist. Nobody should be having kids in this dying planet anymore. The sky is falling, the earth is getting flatter, billionaires are taking over,...
My son lives in southern CA and said the traffic is ridiculous.
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: loladoreen]
#28130009 - 01/07/23 11:29 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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i lived in sacramento for 3 years and outside of rush hour traffic, it was never that bad. thats the trade-off of living in a densely populated area, youre going to experience more traffic
notice how outside my mind equates a newborn baby to someone in his way the guy is fucked in the head and no level of patience will get through to him.
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: loladoreen]
#28130010 - 01/07/23 11:30 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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loladoreen said: I just had a Tarot reading that was accurate. So it cued me to post this. I got the reading from someone on here. I'll post their name after I look them up.
Unpopular Opinion:
I follow astrology closely and believe in astrology and tarot. Really big on astrology.
I was born and raised in north county san diego. Vista, oceanside and carlsbad. There was a time, in the 90s and early 2000's, when the traffic was bearable. Not anymore and it's been like that for awhile. I used to be able to get from oceanside to the Gaslamp in less than 45 minutes, not anymore. Also used to be able to do oceanside to Newport beach in 45 minutes, but not anymore. Both will take at least an hour or more during the day. It takes an hour just to get to fucking Irvine, the south part of irvine at the irvine spectrum center.
I also follow astrology. Chinese astrology also. Last year was year of the tiger, the year I was born. It's not a good thing, It's not a birthday year or anything good like any other chinese zodiac character. Apparently being year of the tiger and also being born year of tiger. Too many obstacles last year, which my chinese fortune told very accurately. Very unlike any other year in terms of obstacles. I'm glad 2022, year of the fucking tiger, is over. Attempted suicide but the god damn rope was around my neck for a good minute and I just was not passing out and it wasn't working so I just fucking gave up and took the rope off and that was the end of that. Anyway, I can already feel that this year will be more relaxing.
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loladoreen said: I just had a Tarot reading that was accurate. So it cued me to post this. I got the reading from someone on here. I'll post their name after I look them up.
Unpopular Opinion:
I follow astrology closely and believe in astrology and tarot. Really big on astrology.
I was born and raised in north county san diego. Vista, oceanside and carlsbad. There was a time, in the 90s and early 2000's, when the traffic was bearable. Not anymore and it's been like that for awhile. I used to be able to get from oceanside to the Gaslamp in less than 45 minutes, not anymore. Also used to be able to do oceanside to Newport beach in 45 minutes, but not anymore. Both will take at least an hour or more during the day.
I also follow astrology. Chinese astrology also. Last year was year of the tiger, the year I was born. It's not a good thing, It's not a birthday year or anything good like any other chinese zodiac character. Apparently being year of the tiger and also being born year of tiger. Too many obstacles last year, which my chinese fortune told very accurately. Very unlike any other year in terms of obstacles. I'm glad 2022, year of the fucking tiger, is over. Attempted suicide but the god damn rope was around my neck for a good minute and I just was not passing out and it wasn't working so I just fucking gave up and took the rope off and that was the end of that. Anyway, I can already feel that this year will be more relaxing.
My son is close to San Diego. I am looking forward to visiting him.
Dang you did have a rough year. I am sorry. It is good you survived. Do you know your sun sign, what your western astrology sign is?
I hope 2023 is calmer, I don't think mine is going to be. I have a lot going on. But, it will be worth it in the end.
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28130029 - 01/07/23 11:44 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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I'm dropping acid tomorrow night. Most likely 125ug, the same that I did last year. I've got a date with my popcorn ceiling and psychedelic tapestries. I've been preparing for it the last couple of weeks. This year WILL be better. I finally have a somewhat decent job that provides decent tips so I don't have to work so hard.
Its been a year since I did acid last.
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Re: The official unpopular opinion thread [Re: loladoreen]
#28130034 - 01/07/23 11:52 PM (1 year, 20 days ago) |
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loladoreen said: It actually would of been an intriguing conversation. BUT.. she's a whore and she's taking dick and lying down.. come on... isn't everyone here an adult?
I have all sons, 6 brothers. None are dumbasses.
Frankly I love taking dick and laying down with another man.
I think the words add emotion to my description and make it seem more interesting.
If a woman actually has no clue how she got pregnant, and she isn't the next Virgin Mary, then she probably actually is a whore, how else would she forget and not know? Amnesia? Black out drunk?
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OutsideOfMyMind said: I'm dropping acid tomorrow night. Most likely 125ug, the same that I did last year. I've got a date with my popcorn ceiling and psychedelic tapestries. I've been preparing for it the last couple of weeks. This year WILL be better. I finally have a somewhat decent job that provides decent tips so I don't have to work so hard.
Its been a year since I did acid last.
I have never done it.
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