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Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you?
#27117796 - 12/31/20 08:54 AM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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I was working Christmas Eve and I’m in the backroom and then make my way to the front end and overhear my female coworkers talking about their “dream man”. As soon as i walk up to them this stupid fat Aspergers girl brings up my name in the conversation “so is [insert my name] your dream man but if he was taller, leaner, blonde, and blue eyed?” Then the girls begin to giggle and judge me and say “ possibly. “
I was pretty annoyed because of the double standard. Male lockeroom talk which is usually kept between males in private at the very least is considered “sexist” and “demeaning” but apparently it’s ok to call out a man’s short comings in heigh and supposedly desirable traits to his face. What if i had told these girls “so y’all wanna hear about my dream woman. My dream woman vaguely resembles you if you weren’t 300 pounds and ugly.” I quit this job couple of days ago not just because of that but because of other things as well
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Funky Fingaz]
#27117814 - 12/31/20 09:04 AM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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a little girl gave my mom a black eye and she deserved it
Edited by MadMuncher (12/31/20 10:55 AM)
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: MadMuncher] 1
#27117820 - 12/31/20 09:13 AM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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If it were me, id laugh with them. And wouldnt hold my tongue, talking in the same way back to them. I hate this snowflacification of the workplace, and do my best to go against it in any way.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Funky Fingaz]
#27117990 - 12/31/20 10:42 AM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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ya that's very weird bad form coworkers
I mean, I wouldn't overreact but I think that's clearly not professional conduct
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Funky Fingaz]
#27118066 - 12/31/20 11:08 AM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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I was in a play one time and one of the other "actors" kept objectifying me.
At one point in the play I cross dressed as I was playing a detective that went undercover. Anyways, this girl loved to get me cornered and would grab my fake tits and feel my junk through the dress I was wearing. She also said a lot of interesting things in build up to that point, which happened on at least four occasions. She was pretty sneaky about it all.
I'm still reasonably sexually confused about it all, and it's been like 16 years. She was pretty good looking, but also really awkward, and I had a real hard time figuring out if she was just into me because I was cross dressing or if she actually liked me.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Funky Fingaz]
#27118110 - 12/31/20 11:22 AM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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I don't ever feel bad about being noticed by the opposite sex or the same sex. As far as objectivefying, I don't feel bad about that either. It makes me feel desirable
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: MorphinTime]
#27118278 - 12/31/20 12:37 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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I was always a fat kid growing up until about my senior year in high school. I join the wrestling team and it sparked my late blooming. A girl like 4 in and dropped like 40 lb within 3 months. I swear to God. Wrestling is no joke. My friends always got laid but I was always the dude waiting alone on the couch up until my then. After graduating I joined the Marine Corps and got even more "desirable" to the opposite sex, but sense I was never looked at before, it has made it very easy to turn down women. Half the time I do it just to see their faces react. I've been in a 6 year relationship with my lady and would never jeopardize that of course. Funny how many women can't believe that I turn down no strings attached free pussy. Whether it's their pussy or another chicks. I've dealt with a lot of grief over my lady being suspicious sense I also have gotten older and have lost some sex drive. She thinks I'm not horny due to cheating..but the fact is I'm 30 now and just don't have the same brain as before...anyway sorry to ramble on like the old man I'm becoming lol have a blessed boomer day 🤙🏻👽
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Capcropperkilla]
#27118294 - 12/31/20 12:44 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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it doesn't sound like they were objectifying you at all dude
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Funky Fingaz]
#27118449 - 12/31/20 01:56 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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I say fuck people.
If everyone just spoke their mind then there would be no issues. The idiots would be exposed and ostracized, and the good people would have friends.
Censoring ourselves is the problem with the world.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: longbus]
#27118452 - 12/31/20 01:58 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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Ah yes, if only people didnt censor themselves, the world would be perfect.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: morrowasted]
#27118455 - 12/31/20 02:01 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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It would at least be honest. The world is so full of shit nowadays it makes me sick.
We are heading towards a facist state and anyone who doesnt realize it is
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Funky Fingaz] 1
#27118468 - 12/31/20 02:06 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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It's not very professional but I would find it flattering, not offensive. Although the "other than this, this and this" part takes some of the steam out of it being flattering.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: longbus] 1
#27118474 - 12/31/20 02:07 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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longbus said: It would at least be honest. The world is so full of shit nowadays it makes me sick.
We are heading towards a facist state and anyone who doesnt realize it is 
Everyone is facist. you trying to tell me you dont discriminate on the basis of facial appearance??? Gimme a break
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: morrowasted]
#27118482 - 12/31/20 02:11 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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Discrimination does not equate facism.
Facism is institutionalized totalitarianism.
I discriminate based on vibes i get off people, and a lot of the time you can read a vibe based on how someones face looks. Your whole argument is stupid. You can look in someones eyes and know a lot about them bwfore they even open their mouths.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: longbus]
#27118492 - 12/31/20 02:15 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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He's joking about how you misspelled it.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: psi]
#27118546 - 12/31/20 02:39 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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Ya i guess that negates my whole point
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: longbus] 1
#27118626 - 12/31/20 03:21 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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Your whole argument is stupid
no, your whole argument is stupid
Facist asshole
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: longbus]
#27118667 - 12/31/20 03:41 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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longbus said: Facism is institutionalized totalitarianism.
I'm not sure how you could have non-institutionalized totalitarianism. How could a totalitarian state be implemented without institutions? And fascism is far from the only flavor of totalitarianism.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: psi]
#27118671 - 12/31/20 03:43 PM (3 years, 28 days ago) |
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how dare u tell other ppl how 2 use politics words
this is exactly the problem, censorship! yall wanna redefine everything n force everyone to use ur definition
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: longbus] 1
#27120120 - 01/01/21 10:44 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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longbus said: Your whole argument is stupid. You can look in someones eyes and know a lot about them bwfore they even open their mouths.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Yeetusdeetus] 1
#27120128 - 01/01/21 10:48 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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Title is misleading. OP is mad they didn’t objectify him.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: koods]
#27120162 - 01/01/21 11:06 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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I've been objectified at work, once or twice NBD, if it's constant that's no good. Stand up for yourself and tell them you don't think that type of talk is acceptable in the work place. BTW being objectified and being found attractive are totally different. One is completely reductive, ignores your abilities and contributions in the work place and is harmful to your career.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Ice9] 1
#27120185 - 01/01/21 11:17 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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I had a female coworker who wasn’t really my boss but she was a sales manager for projects I was responsible for completing. We hung out quite a bit. We would go to very casual meetings with clients, which were really just excuses to play hooky and get drunk. There was a lot of after work bar hopping as well. She would get really drunk and I had to drive her home a few times in her car and I’d crash on her couch. Sometimes she would get super aggressive. She knew I was gay so she’s get on the bed and start rubbing her crotch saying “come on, don’t you want to try it just once?” Id just call her a dirty slut and grab my crotch and tell her she couldn’t have any.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: koods]
#27120187 - 01/01/21 11:18 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: MadMuncher]
#27120217 - 01/01/21 11:40 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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Once I had a boss literally ask me to fuck her while her husband was away, at work, in front of several coworkers. No euphemisms or subtleties, straight up asked me in clear terms. I said no thanks (mostly because her husband could palm my head like a basketball and crush it like a grapefruit, but he was a pretty good guy and I don't approve of cheaters). Pretty sure she found others to cheat with though...when she was in the hospital for breast cancer she said I was one of the few who visited her.
I really think it's different for guys and ladies though, ladies can feel much more unsafe about the experience for many reasons whereas guys generally aren't going to feel that way without explicit danger being present.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: MorphinTime] 1
#27120223 - 01/01/21 11:45 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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She lived with her boyfriend and they eventually got married, but I think they were open to fuck around. They were fun to hang out with. They lived on the bay, and had a nice long pier for crabbing and a speed boat for water skiing.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: koods]
#27120384 - 01/01/21 01:01 PM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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I'd probably have gone with it in your position, but I'm in to men and women.
You miss the boat opportunities, don't you?
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: MorphinTime] 1
#27120443 - 01/01/21 01:40 PM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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Yeah I’m like super gay.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: koods]
#27120496 - 01/01/21 02:13 PM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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koods said: I had a female coworker who wasn’t really my boss but she was a sales manager for projects I was responsible for completing. We hung out quite a bit. We would go to very casual meetings with clients, which were really just excuses to play hooky and get drunk. There was a lot of after work bar hopping as well. She would get really drunk and I had to drive her home a few times in her car and I’d crash on her couch. Sometimes she would get super aggressive. She knew I was gay so she’s get on the bed and start rubbing her crotch saying “come on, don’t you want to try it just once?” Id just call her a dirty slut and grab my crotch and tell her she couldn’t have any.
This made my day
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