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koods
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Yeetusdeetus] 1
#27120128 - 01/01/21 10:48 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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Title is misleading. OP is mad they didn’t objectify him.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: koods]
#27120162 - 01/01/21 11:06 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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I've been objectified at work, once or twice NBD, if it's constant that's no good. Stand up for yourself and tell them you don't think that type of talk is acceptable in the work place. BTW being objectified and being found attractive are totally different. One is completely reductive, ignores your abilities and contributions in the work place and is harmful to your career.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: Ice9] 1
#27120185 - 01/01/21 11:17 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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I had a female coworker who wasn’t really my boss but she was a sales manager for projects I was responsible for completing. We hung out quite a bit. We would go to very casual meetings with clients, which were really just excuses to play hooky and get drunk. There was a lot of after work bar hopping as well. She would get really drunk and I had to drive her home a few times in her car and I’d crash on her couch. Sometimes she would get super aggressive. She knew I was gay so she’s get on the bed and start rubbing her crotch saying “come on, don’t you want to try it just once?” Id just call her a dirty slut and grab my crotch and tell her she couldn’t have any.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: koods]
#27120187 - 01/01/21 11:18 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: MadMuncher]
#27120217 - 01/01/21 11:40 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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Once I had a boss literally ask me to fuck her while her husband was away, at work, in front of several coworkers. No euphemisms or subtleties, straight up asked me in clear terms. I said no thanks (mostly because her husband could palm my head like a basketball and crush it like a grapefruit, but he was a pretty good guy and I don't approve of cheaters). Pretty sure she found others to cheat with though...when she was in the hospital for breast cancer she said I was one of the few who visited her.
I really think it's different for guys and ladies though, ladies can feel much more unsafe about the experience for many reasons whereas guys generally aren't going to feel that way without explicit danger being present.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: MorphinTime] 1
#27120223 - 01/01/21 11:45 AM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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She lived with her boyfriend and they eventually got married, but I think they were open to fuck around. They were fun to hang out with. They lived on the bay, and had a nice long pier for crabbing and a speed boat for water skiing.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: koods]
#27120384 - 01/01/21 01:01 PM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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I'd probably have gone with it in your position, but I'm in to men and women.
You miss the boat opportunities, don't you?
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: MorphinTime] 1
#27120443 - 01/01/21 01:40 PM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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Yeah I’m like super gay.
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Re: Would you feel uncomfortable if your female coworkers began objectify you? [Re: koods]
#27120496 - 01/01/21 02:13 PM (3 years, 27 days ago) |
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Quote:
koods said: I had a female coworker who wasn’t really my boss but she was a sales manager for projects I was responsible for completing. We hung out quite a bit. We would go to very casual meetings with clients, which were really just excuses to play hooky and get drunk. There was a lot of after work bar hopping as well. She would get really drunk and I had to drive her home a few times in her car and I’d crash on her couch. Sometimes she would get super aggressive. She knew I was gay so she’s get on the bed and start rubbing her crotch saying “come on, don’t you want to try it just once?” Id just call her a dirty slut and grab my crotch and tell her she couldn’t have any.
This made my day
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