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Nonagon Infinity
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27184470 - 02/03/21 12:32 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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it'll never be amazing with my wife, but it'll be comfortable and sex
Have you ever been surprised before?
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: Nonagon Infinity]
#27184620 - 02/03/21 02:02 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27186481 - 02/04/21 02:55 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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This thread just keeps giving. Thanks. Good luck dude.
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Nonagon Infinity
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27186489 - 02/04/21 02:57 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I actually made a move on my wife, she reciprocated, and we had sex for the first time in a year+.
Wow, I can't even imagine that, but it must have been a vulnerable experience for both of you.
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Anonymous #1 said: Immediately after the sex I knew we could never be together again. I'm going to look at setting up on my own for a while and work on myself I think.
I'm impressed you can know that from a single sexual encounter, but I believe you if that's how you really feel.
Never a bad idea to do your own thing for a while and get yourself sorted out.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* *DELETED* [Re: Nonagon Infinity]
#27186549 - 02/04/21 03:20 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Nonagon Infinity
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27186683 - 02/04/21 04:28 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I've never felt like that after sex *ever*.
Can't say I've felt like that, either. Sounds awful.
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theRealrollforever
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Nonagon Infinity]
#27187379 - 02/05/21 04:03 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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yeah that seals the deal with no intimacy Or forced intimacy at best
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larry.fisherman
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: theRealrollforever]
#27187429 - 02/05/21 05:14 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Interesting, I've heard this before
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theRealrollforever
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: larry.fisherman]
#27188738 - 02/05/21 08:15 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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It's funny because you are a disability hot shot; and I'm currently dating the girl who you claim was correct in being offended. Turns out she just had baggage and me talking to her about it and being understanding wasn't something she expected. I'm the "sweetest; for understanding WHY she ran off) [her words.]You can go crawl back into your sexless marriage of a hole now....your white knighting for a reason my guy
Final jab - I'm so glad I'm me and not you. If I already have mental health issues as myself I would for sure off myself if I was as much of a winner as you! Kudos you are a strong soul
Do you have any talents or anything beyond being existential and trollish on a message board? You could call me a troll but the difference is I pay my whole life on the line here; you not so much. And I still know how sad your existence is.
Edited by theRealrollforever (02/05/21 08:18 PM)
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: theRealrollforever] 1
#27188923 - 02/05/21 11:00 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Seriously this whole thread reads like 6 pages of cringe.
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larry.fisherman
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: theRealrollforever]
#27189112 - 02/06/21 05:04 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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theRealrollforever said: It's funny because you are a disability hot shot; and I'm currently dating the girl who you claim was correct in being offended. Turns out she just had baggage and me talking to her about it and being understanding wasn't something she expected. I'm the "sweetest; for understanding WHY she ran off) [her words.]You can go crawl back into your sexless marriage of a hole now....your white knighting for a reason my guy
Final jab - I'm so glad I'm me and not you. If I already have mental health issues as myself I would for sure off myself if I was as much of a winner as you! Kudos you are a strong soul
Do you have any talents or anything beyond being existential and trollish on a message board? You could call me a troll but the difference is I pay my whole life on the line here; you not so much. And I still know how sad your existence is.
Lol. You started shit, I make one small comment and you start crying. And I'm the troll? Okay. How am I white knighting? How am I wrong because you're with her? Please, stop thinking. It's not working. You know.. the definition of insanity and all that 
Next time you try attacking someone's character maybe try being of decent character yourself. I can't take you seriously. Wipe your tears, come back when you've grown up a little and figure out why this makes you so butthurt. Here's a hint: it's not me. And if I hadn't said it, do you think someone else might have? What was the response in the whole thread? Why is that one of my most upvoted posts? You're looking for a scapegoat, and someone to whine at. I'm not your girlfriend why don't you go act like an asshole to her like usual.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: larry.fisherman]
#27189822 - 02/06/21 02:11 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm being an asshole to you because I've seen you cry on these forums for over a year and a half now every day. You an opinionated asshat and couldn't even admit you were wrong. Dude you are not good at anything. You decided to try to troll me. I'm sure the girl who wasnt my girlfriend is dating me now because I'm definitely an asshole to her As if you know this. Why would she see me multiple times after, apologize, and tell me super personal things and then date me if I was a chad who was an asshole who was using her for sex.(after you popped in my thread being a snarky ****)
Please shed some light on how you weren't the original troll misunderstanding, assuming, and trolling me even after I gave you matter of fact happenstance about the situation. I would greatly appreciate it.
I actually really like this girl; so straight up I got a problem with you trying to paint me in a negative light because you're ' discord gang'. Get A life bro
Honestly to hold the opinion that anyone that thinks sex is vitally important to a relationship is 'shallow' you must be white knighting. It's not a condemnation of anyone to have intimacy disappearz sometimes it happens and it sucks.
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Can't believe I didn't even point this out but I was actually replying to the thread, you made a snarky comment TO ME that didn't have much to do with the thread at all. Who started what?
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: theRealrollforever]
#27189907 - 02/06/21 03:15 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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This exchange is because Larry has comprehension and ego problems
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: theRealrollforever] 1
#27191132 - 02/07/21 07:37 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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I've deleted the shit out of this thread because it's served it's purpose and I need to move on.
The advice has been useful.
After a lot of self-indulgent pitying and introspection, I think my sense of loss isn't so much about my ex, but about the future I thought I'd have with her. She was an easy avenue to such a place.
I'm going solo for a while, to work on myself and to decide what I want my future to look like, then I'll take steps to achieve it - rather than wait for someone to create it for me.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: theRealrollforever]
#27191201 - 02/07/21 08:40 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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I gave you an opportunity to whine in my PMs. Please keep your whining to my PMs as no one wants to see you whine. But for the record, you don't know what a troll is. A troll isn't "Owie my fee fees" it's a coordinated effort to manipulate someone's reactions for your amusement. I didn't make any assumptions, I used the information you gave me to interpret and sympathize because you were clearly making a very biased statements without looking at it from her perspective. I'm not here to jerk you off and the OP said you wanted to be "roasted because it's what I need right now." There's a big difference. Please stop thinking you're going to hurt yourself. Please keep your crying to my PMs in the future, thank you.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27191875 - 02/07/21 01:53 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I've deleted the shit out of this thread because it's served it's purpose and I need to move on.
The advice has been useful.
After a lot of self-indulgent pitying and introspection, I think my sense of loss isn't so much about my ex, but about the future I thought I'd have with her. She was an easy avenue to such a place.
I'm going solo for a while, to work on myself and to decide what I want my future to look like, then I'll take steps to achieve it - rather than wait for someone to create it for me.
I'm rooting for you brother
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#27191919 - 02/07/21 02:10 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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And in a pathetic showing of complete pussy-whipped-ness..
OP deleted every post on this thread out of fear that the woman he's talking about might one day beyond immeasurable unlikelihood would find his postings about her even though: he shouldn't give two shits about what she thinks, she ran off to fuck other dudes and do drugs, wants him to not be mad at her for it so she doesn't have the pain she caused on her conscience (even though that's her problem and not his), and he acknowledges that he should cut off contact but for some reason wants to be a nice guy and can't bring himself to properly tell her to fuck off...
Anon1 - I believe you are better than this. If I'm wrong, I'm truly sorry for the bullshit you will inevitably allow yourself to be put through
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27192803 - 02/07/21 11:52 PM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#27192891 - 02/08/21 12:55 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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ahahah man, I love your no bullshit responses.
I have a lot of friends in various psychedelic communities, and this was all fairly outing. I have a project in mind that will need some of their cooperation. Why potentially look like a dick when I don't have to?
I haven't had any contact with ex for 10 days, and I won't have any in future, I'm done. I've been brutally honest with her, so I can't see her reaching out any time soon, if ever.
The more distance between last contact, the more clarity I'm gaining. I was too caught up in myself previously, but I'm not one to re-tread old ground.
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Re: Should I stay in contact or remove myself from her life? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#27192894 - 02/08/21 12:55 AM (2 years, 11 months ago) |
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Thanks Dude. I've already learnt a lot tbh, and feel much better for it. I'm going to keep exploring though.
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