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OfflineShroomyMcPot
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How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love
    #2711116 - 05/21/04 02:27 PM (13 years, 1 month ago)

How long should you wait until you tell someone you love them? Ive been seeing a girl intimatley for about a month now. She was a really good friend for about a month before that. When we were friends I started developing feelings for her. Im not sure if i love her or not because im not sure what that is and i dont want to say such a serious thing if im not sure, i'm also afraid she may not react positivley to that. Sometimes when were alone and holding each other i feel like saying how i feel about her but im not sure if i should. One time when we were on morphine i unintentionally told her that i loved her in my sleep. She was half asleep too and started asking me what i said intently, but i just acted like i was already back asleep deeply. Me and this girl have more interests than any other girl ive been with and she shows me more affection then any other. But she was a virgin so im not sure if her feelings are because im her first.
Please give advice. Sorry if this is kinda incoherent im tweaked a little.


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Re: How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love [Re: ShroomyMcPot]
    #2711231 - 05/21/04 02:45 PM (13 years, 1 month ago)

thats something your going to have to figure out on your own. the only i would give is not to not do it b/c of fear


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Re: How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love [Re: ShroomyMcPot]
    #2711507 - 05/21/04 04:05 PM (13 years, 1 month ago)

It sounds like she would be stoked from what you've said. Go for it! And good luck.


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Re: How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love [Re: ShroomyMcPot]
    #2712240 - 05/21/04 07:09 PM (13 years, 1 month ago)

longer than you think


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Re: How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love [Re: ShroomyMcPot]
    #2712377 - 05/21/04 07:45 PM (13 years, 1 month ago)

Five years, but then you want to think about it for ten more first.


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Re: How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love [Re: ShroomyMcPot]
    #2712504 - 05/21/04 08:31 PM (13 years, 1 month ago)

ha I'd better figure out what love means until I try and answer that one


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Re: How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love [Re: ShroomyMcPot]
    #2713946 - 05/22/04 04:25 AM (13 years, 1 month ago)

right after sex, then you tell her to go make you some dam dinner then wash your clothes. Women love to be bossed around like your there daddy. Then after that you own them for life.. j/k


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Re: How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love [Re: ShroomyMcPot]
    #2714058 - 05/22/04 07:54 AM (13 years, 1 month ago)

Shroomy if you must ask it isnt the right time.If you fear it,it isnt the right time.And is it love or lust?If you ask me it seem likes a superficial relationship and it seems to be lust.Or as people like to call it puppy love.lmao.In all seriousness don't say it unless you truly mean it.It really hurts when people say I love you and they really meant I lust you as is evident when they leave for superficial reasons.Meditate on all this.Really think it over and you will guide yourself to the answer.


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Re: How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love [Re: ShroomyMcPot]
    #2714226 - 05/22/04 11:04 AM (13 years, 1 month ago)





:heart:  Hey, if your really in love, you won't have a doubt in your heart if it's true or not. A couple of months is a short time, but it happens.
When you do know, just tell her. You don't have to wait for a special moment...if she loves you as well, that moment will be special.
:goodluck:


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Re: How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love [Re: ShroomyMcPot]
    #2721671 - 05/24/04 07:33 AM (13 years, 1 month ago)

do everything you can in your actions and words to get her to say it first, then you will feel the greatest.

if u just blurt it out one day and shes like, "uh, wtf" then you will be devastated.


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Re: How long should you wait until you tell someone your in love [Re: ShroomyMcPot]
    #2722433 - 05/24/04 01:24 PM (13 years, 1 month ago)

Long enough to harvest oats in northern Ukraine.

Too long.


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