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Anonymous #1
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In the end........ 25 percent of the people I meet dont like me.
#27106825 - 12/25/20 02:35 AM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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I start off not saying much. Getting my understanding of the new land.
Everyone starts to think "this guy doesnt talk much." and they try and comfort me. Try and pull me out of my shell. Be nice. Overly nice.
Then I start talking more. And more. I stay being kind to everyone but what always happens in the end is a good quarter of the people in this new area start to dislike me. Start to spread rumors about me. Start to topple my house of cards.
Eventually I just leave.
I've lost everyone yet again. I'm not quite sure what I did.
I think I'll try not talking as much as possible next time.
I miss the few close friends I made. They are on the other side now.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: In the end........ 25 percent of the people I meet dont like me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27106832 - 12/25/20 02:42 AM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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That's pretty good ratios, 75% is alot of people to like you be happy with that. Even then is that one of your life's priorities? To make everyone like you? That will be very very hard to achieve in my opinion. People are all too different and unique, it would be weird if everyone liked everyone.
If people don't like what you have to say maybe there not worth your time? It's better to find a few real good friends than just a bunch of people that don't really like you
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Anonymous #3
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Re: In the end........ 25 percent of the people I meet dont like me. [Re: Anonymous #2]
#27106955 - 12/25/20 06:27 AM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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If everybody liked you, it would be because you were bland.
"If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything"
Be a spicy dish that dares to offend, not McDonalds.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: In the end........ 25 percent of the people I meet dont like me. [Re: Anonymous #3]
#27113675 - 12/29/20 07:55 AM (3 years, 30 days ago) |
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99.9% aight shit and most of them suck dick.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: In the end........ 25 percent of the people I meet dont like me. [Re: Anonymous #2]
#27114321 - 12/29/20 02:07 PM (3 years, 30 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #2 said: That's pretty good ratios, 75% is alot of people to like you be happy with that. Even then is that one of your life's priorities? To make everyone like you?

Also you're very vague OP. What are you involved in that these people are going out of their way to spread the kind of rumors that would "ruin" you and make you lose "everything"?
I don't know if you've been out in the world lately but a lot of people are absolute garbage and I can't imagine that more than 50% of people they interact with like them in any way.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: In the end........ 25 percent of the people I meet dont like me. [Re: Anonymous #5]
#27156808 - 01/19/21 05:58 AM (3 years, 9 days ago) |
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In the end........ 25 percent of the people I meet dont like me.
Jesus had the same problem.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: In the end........ 25 percent of the people I meet dont like me. [Re: Anonymous #3]
#27156862 - 01/19/21 06:49 AM (3 years, 9 days ago) |
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I dont think I've met a person that acted like they liked me or wanted to get to know me in about 4 years. I honestly like it that way. I'd rather be feared than loved at this point in my life.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: In the end........ 25 percent of the people I meet dont like me. [Re: Anonymous #6]
#27156898 - 01/19/21 07:16 AM (3 years, 9 days ago) |
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If only 1% of the people you meet like you then there's still at least 75 million people in that category.
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