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ShroomedOcean


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are u shy?
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DrunkMountainDude
TheGuyYouCallWhenUrStuckInThaMud



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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: ShroomedOcean]
#27105019 - 12/23/20 11:12 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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nah, its just the risk of ruining a friendship that makes me hesitant
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Northerner
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If I was you I'd just play it by ear man. You don't need to make an announcement or put her on the spot, the moment will just come naturally. Just gotta take the leap when it does. If you're good friends it's not a finisher if she doesn't want you like that right now, as long as you can accept it.
I've been in similar situations a few times. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.
If she's telling you about her bulletproof contraception whilst drunk in a hotel room, well that really sounds like a "fuck me now" conversation. Geez does she have to rip off her own panties?
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Rafiikii



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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: Northerner] 1
#27105142 - 12/24/20 02:08 AM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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Northerner said: If I was you I'd just play it by ear man. You don't need to make an announcement or put her on the spot, the moment will just come naturally. Just gotta take the leap when it does. If you're good friends it's not a finisher if she doesn't want you like that right now, as long as you can accept it.
I've been in similar situations a few times. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.
If she's telling you about her bulletproof contraception whilst drunk in a hotel room, well that really sounds like a "fuck me now" conversation. Geez does she have to rip off her own panties? 
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theRealrollforever
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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: Rafiikii] 1
#27105323 - 12/24/20 07:13 AM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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Northerner for the truth You need to make a move; not a declaration of love
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pslyke
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In the long run I've never regretted telling someone that I had feelings for them. I have surely regretted not doing so. I'm old enough to have a few regrets.
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1234go
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Quote:
DrunkMountainDude said: that night she even brought up her birth control she uses and claimed it to be "bulletproof"
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DrunkMountainDude said: Should I tell my friend that I like her?
Yes
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Niffla



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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: Northerner] 1
#27105385 - 12/24/20 08:08 AM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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Northerner said:
If she's telling you about her bulletproof contraception whilst drunk in a hotel room, well that really sounds like a "fuck me now" conversation. Geez does she have to rip off her own panties? 
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psi
TOAST N' JAM


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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: Niffla] 3
#27105773 - 12/24/20 12:40 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah I'm picturing her furiously signaling with those semaphore flags to no avail. 
I think it was much wiser to hold off with her that trashed though. I say skip the hard liquor next time and have a few beers or some wine or whatever. And definitely don't spring anything on her on her first trip.
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DrunkMountainDude
TheGuyYouCallWhenUrStuckInThaMud



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Re: wondering if its worth confessing my feelings to a friend, while trying to keep the friendship if she does not feel the same [Re: DrunkMountainDude]
#27105789 - 12/24/20 12:51 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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I removed some details, due to a privacy concern :P thanks for your advice everyone Ill keep you updated.
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psi
TOAST N' JAM


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Re: wondering if its worth confessing my feelings to a friend, while trying to keep the friendship if she does not feel the same [Re: DrunkMountainDude]
#27105839 - 12/24/20 01:36 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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If you would like other people to remove details they quoted I'm sure they will.
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Northerner
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Re: wondering if its worth confessing my feelings to a friend, while trying to keep the friendship if she does not feel the same [Re: psi]
#27105867 - 12/24/20 01:54 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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Don't worry DrunkMountainDude, you are as anonymous as it gets until you tell someone who and where you are.
It's not Facebook man, you're safe here.
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Niffla



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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: psi] 1
#27105874 - 12/24/20 01:56 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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psi said: And definitely don't spring anything on her on her first trip.
No 100% definitely not.
That's a pretty heavy thing to lay on someone in the midst of a powerful psychedelic. To say the least.
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DrunkMountainDude
TheGuyYouCallWhenUrStuckInThaMud



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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: Niffla]
#27105960 - 12/24/20 02:35 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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gonna wait until after, for sure.
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Niffla



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