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MorphinTime
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Tell her right now
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4HO-DMT


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You should tell her. Probably not while your tripping though. But, it seems like she is in to you...
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DrunkMountainDude
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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: MorphinTime]
#27104884 - 12/23/20 08:51 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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not with her right now and do not want to be the ass doing it over text.
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MorphinTime
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Call her. Just be honest and don't bullshit.
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DrunkMountainDude
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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: MorphinTime]
#27104892 - 12/23/20 08:58 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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I really wana tell her face to face and read her reaction like her facial expression and look in her eyes when I say it. I just want to be up front, something like
"look life is too short for what ifs, after getting to know you I've recently started having feelings for you "
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I also don't want it to ruin a friendship if the feelings are not mutual.
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Def dont lay that on someone while tripping. Allow them to process post trip so you dont give her something to obsess over while tripping.
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and if she is into you, tripping together as friends may solidify the unspoken attraction.
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DrunkMountainDude
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true, thanks. I'll wait until the afterglow when we aren't tripping anymore then. hope I can muster up the balls to do it.
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MorphinTime
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Well tell her in person if that's how you would like to handle it, that's respectable. I understand that you don't want to ruin the friendship, it sounds pretty sweet. If it were me, I would tell her, just not while on shrooms. I would also let her know the friendship is important to me.
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Demonic_Chronic
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DrunkMountainDude said: true, thanks. I'll wait until the afterglow when we aren't tripping anymore then. hope I can muster up the balls to do it.
Well you wont get anywhere by not saying anything.
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just play it chill and enjoy the moment.
personally i wouldnt say anything, just make a move son.
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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: Rafiikii] 1
#27104917 - 12/23/20 09:13 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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Rafiikii said: just play it chill and enjoy the moment.
personally i wouldnt say anything, just make a move son.
Well, making your intentions known to a woman before you "make a move" is called consent lol.
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Ive hinted to her that I think shes beautiful, like "how do you always look so pretty even after a sloppy drunk night. we've talked about everything and shes mentioned that shes not "looking" for a committed relationship since she recently ended a relationship that lasted 10 years so that tells me shes been with one guy since she was 16. I'm not particularly looking for a committed relationship either but if it happens it happens you know? So I haven't tried any moves on her even when we got drunk in the hotel room, that night she even brought up her birth control she uses and claimed it to be "bulletproof" I almost wanted to ask if she wanted to test that fact but didn't. we were taking shots of tequila and she wound up taking too many and got sick so I ended up having to make sure she was okay and any plans of trying to make a move that night ended.
I think she is telling you she doesn't want it to be too serious/official off the bat if you guys were to hook up, and it sounds like you are fine with that.
Doesn't need to be some planned announcement, just keep hanging out with her like this and try to follow the natural rhythm of the situation. But maybe don't get so trashed, either of you.
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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: psi]
#27104981 - 12/23/20 10:21 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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Psi nailed some good advice there. But in truth, none of us truly know your connection with the woman in question and know just as little about the nature of your friendship beyond what you have posted. Maybe not what you want to hear, but follow your heart. Who knows what will happen if you tell her you like her, but Demonic is probably right meaning she is waiting for your move, but also listen to psi, she may not want anything serious so don't get hurt if she feels it's on and then done. She may only want friendship. But you do owe it to yourself to express the way you feel. Y'alls friendship seems good as it is, and you recognize that and don't want to lose it. Tell her when you tell her you're into her.
And like everyone has said so far, talk to her about your feelings sober
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DrunkMountainDude
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Thanks for the advice everyone
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Repay us with updates lol.
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Dont do it while tripping and you are good
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DrunkMountainDude
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Re: Should I tell my friend that I like her? [Re: MorphinTime]
#27104997 - 12/23/20 10:46 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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I will fasho
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