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Funky Fingaz
Mystic/urRu

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Do you ever just feel hopeless in humanity?
#27104180 - 12/23/20 12:57 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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I lost the woman of my dreams this past summer. When I met her I felt a really strong connection to her. She was a beautiful young Serbian woman whom I met at work and we developed a strong relationship and bond. We had both talked about how we were both very in sync with one another and how it felt like the universe was meant to make us meet. It was a beautiful relationship and experience but it was not meant to last it seems. We are both in different places in our lives, she’s and younger than me and wants to go do her own thing at this point in her life not be tied down by relationship as she knows it wouldn’t work for us to be separated by the physical distance between us. So i had to accept the hard truth that she has departed from my life. Spent the end of this summer and most of fall in dark depression over losing her. But slowly I rose above that and started realizing there was other potential women out there who could be just as good as her.
A friend of mine gave me hope during a really bad phase of my depression over this. She told me her love story about how she met her significant other back in March and how she fell in love with her and now they are going to get married. The moral of the story was that “ love is out there for you and it comes to you” but i found out yesterday from my other friend that she’s been cheating on her supposed love of her life and also being creepy and sleazy to all these other girls. It was a huge black pill to swallow because her story gave me some sense of hope that I’ll get over my lost serbian bae and find another but now that’s all poisoned. Now i feel like i can’t trust anyone and that there is no hope for love. Love is an illusion. The people they claim to love you the most will leave you or cheat on you. It’s despicable.
Big black pill
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SporeJunkie
Pöåšt Šhïttēr



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Re: Do you ever just feel hopeless in humanity? [Re: Funky Fingaz] 1
#27104185 - 12/23/20 01:00 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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I feel the exact same way man. Finding someone that is 100% faithful is truly a daunting task. I wish you luck my friend. They come, they go.
-------------------- Royale with cheese
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Funky Fingaz
Mystic/urRu

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Re: Do you ever just feel hopeless in humanity? [Re: SporeJunkie]
#27104193 - 12/23/20 01:04 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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SporeJunkie said: I feel the exact same way man. Finding someone that is 100% faithful is truly a daunting task. I wish you luck my friend. They come, they go.
I know man. It’s hard out here. Love is probably one of the most challenging things out there. Makes me want to give up on life really
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Narrator
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Re: Do you ever just feel hopeless in humanity? [Re: Funky Fingaz]
#27104278 - 12/23/20 01:56 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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At this point in my life, if the sun been a full circle and I've changed my shorts but only once it has been a good day.
⋆ 𝓌𝒽𝑒𝓃 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝑔𝒾𝓋𝑒𝓈 𝓎❁𝓊 𝓁𝑒𝓂🍑𝓃𝓈 𝒹🌞 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓉𝑒𝓀 ⋆
I would like more good friends.
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Re: Do you ever just feel hopeless in humanity? [Re: Funky Fingaz]
#27104357 - 12/23/20 02:56 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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Funky Fingaz said: Makes me want to give up on life really
you should go outside more try find something productive to do or learn a new useful skill
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Psion
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Re: Do you ever just feel hopeless in humanity? [Re: trees]
#27105197 - 12/24/20 03:06 AM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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as the song says, love will grow. it's a seed, something that develops over time. love is the desire to help someone become their best self, not what you happen to think is their best self. love is not trying to coppice an oak tree down because it grew too high for your yard - it's not the oak tree's fault it grew to it's natural height and you planted it in the wrong spot. love is not trying to chop a bush into an ugly lollipop when it wants to be a open shrub. love is learning to accept something for what it's nature is, faults and all, and learning to turn those faults into strengths.
love is also not going to spring perfectly formed like a fully formed adult. you are not going to be handed a perfect relationship with all the kinks worked out like a fairy tale. even in the stories does it rarely work out that way, and quite frankly it makes a pretty dull tale when it does. real relationships are full of pitfalls and compromises, learning and growth. in love, you WILL fall down. often, and hard.
love is not about the times when you get stomped on by life, when you feel dried up and withered, when the sun no longer seems to shine and the clouds roll in. it's about whether you are able to endure in your relationship, to stand strong with your loved one(s) and recover, to continue growing stronger and wiser together.
because tomorrow is a new day.
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