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spirit_shadow
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I inspired somebody today 1
#27098293 - 12/19/20 06:51 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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So I've been nice to everyone at work every day and one of the girls around my age that I've never even talked to said that she's seen how nice I've been to everyone and that it has inspired her to be nicer as she is not a nice person(her words) I was like"uuuuhhhhh.....that's nice" lol
But on the inside I'm super happy cos the whole reason I'm nice to everyone is cos that was how my dad was and I'm just trying to walk in his footsteps so it's like his love and kindness has made it through another generation <3
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morrowasted
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she was just trying 2 flirt bro
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Re: I inspired somebody today [Re: morrowasted]
#27098386 - 12/19/20 08:12 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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do u get mad social anxiety around girls / people ?
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Kyngwhatt
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That's cool that you are spreading the love and getting noticed. It's not too late if she really was into you, be nice but not weak chicks hate that.
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spirit_shadow
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Quote:
ShroomedOcean said: do u get mad social anxiety around girls / people ? 
No. I'm just trying to carry on my fathers legacy which means I treat general society with the same respect and hospitality he did even when I dont feel like it on the inside. But it felt good to see the kindness spread.
quote]morrowasted said: she was just trying 2 flirt bro
Nah, I could tell she was being serious.
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Edited by spirit_shadow (12/19/20 08:48 PM)
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zZZz
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Re: I inspired somebody today [Re: zZZz]
#27098755 - 12/20/20 04:44 AM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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That's nice OP 
I like that you inspired someone. Nice folk seem to be further and fewer these days.
My 2c about being nice: Just like most kids, I too was taught about proper manners, conduct, consideration etc. But what really made me make the choice to take initiative in implementing such behavior(without any feelings of obligation) is by observance of others who do act in such a way. They seemed to be happier, and have the potential to almost create happiness wherever they go.. all by simply choosing the correct words and body language etc.
Anyway I made the choice long ago that, that's what I want to be. And maybe initially I had to get accustomed to saying all these things that maybe felt unnecessary, lacked casualness, or came off as too formal at times etc. (especially when you get nothing back in return from the people you're interacting with [I remember once a person chuckled when I said "hope you have a good evening further" at the end of a night out, lol]) but soon enough, all these behaviours and 'acts' started to become really second nature and not an 'act' at all, the smile I initially carried out of a pre-meditated intention, became a smile that I carried without even considering it. The conduct and behaviour I put on to treat others well, became just the normal way I treat others now.
NB: I acknowledge, and have experienced, some caveats that come along with 'being nice'. As the saying goes "nice guys finish last". But I have not let that jade me, and I bring on that challenge that comes with doing things in the 'nice' way always. Just because you are nice, doesn't mean you are a pushover, make that be known.
Before this get's too long-winded, let me just leave off by saying:
to you, and your dad
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