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Anonymous #1 |
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Can someone please just try and answer these questions and not reply with "Wow you are a liar and so full of yourself"?
I am crazy fucking good at lying to people. I can make people do things. I can get women. I can sell items. I can buy items. I can get my way. All I have to do is lie and bullshit. I stopped doing this a while ago now. Almost 10 years ago. I have found life is fucking painful without lying. People "cheat" me but in reality I know exactly what they are doing and I just refuse to play the game. I've lost sexual exploits, jobs, promotions, and most tragically a really good girlfriend a few months ago. Simply because I will NOT play "the game". I wont act tougher than I am. I wont act smarter than I am. I wont be modest. I wont do anything except be as 100 percent fucking truthful as I physically can be. And motherfucking "sharks" find that out and use it against me. I could DEVOUR these "sharks". I allow them to win in all these different directions. And honestly my life is suffering from this. I'm mildly suicidal. I wont ever do it. But I am very depressed and try and do risky things that will hopefully kill me. So why the fuck dont I go back to lying? Life was happier back then. Now I got all these fucking worries and shit. I'm not winning anything in any direction. Life is objectively better as a liar.
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Oh, it's you again. I was wondering when you'd be back around with your monthly 'oh woe is me, I'm so awesome but I can't be so I'm not' thread.
Ignorance is bliss, young friend. Problem is, once you've looked down the rabbit hole deep enough there's no coming back from it, so if there's no going back, how do you move forward?
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Quote: The forum doesnt mean much to me bro. Especially anon. So I could just make a post saying I sucked a guys dick and it would be fine. So occasionally this gets back on my mind. The dream of going back to the lie world. But everytime I post on here no one takes me seriously lol. Tell me. Why should I not lie? We are all gonna die and nothing I do matters. So why am I holding on to integrity? As to your reply. I dont know for sure that I could go back. Perhaps I would be shit at lying now. Or maybe it would take time. But I kinda feel like where I'm at now is super shite. People keep taking advantage of me. I literally watch what they are doing. I see their manipulation. And because the only way to combat what they are doing is to manipulate back ----- I choose not to and I choose to allow them to take advantage. And it fucks me over man. Does that not make sense? Do I just sound arrogant? I dont fucking get it. I'm just saying it like it is. I'm just a dude man. I'd buy you a beer for sure. I'd have your back. I'm a regular person.
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Quote: Why do you choose to bring someone down when you dont have to? I try pretty hard to bring everyone up. What makes us different you reckon?
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I don't 'bring someone down'. I also don't 'keep my mouth shut' when someone comes to a group that I'm a part of that is focused on discussion, and proceeds to moan about how great they are, yet what a hard time they're having.
I see many sycophants around here, that will mollycoddle anyone that turns up with a sob story. Personally, I think that does an injustice to all involved, so I'm not about to jump on that gravy train. Point being, I despise arrogance and admire humility, and you consistently reek of the former and display none of the latter, and I am quite at peace with telling you so. If you choose to allow that to 'bring you down' then that's really on you. Perhaps if you drop the arrogance you'll see very different responses?
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But listen bud. I am anti-manipulation. I find humility and modesty to be a form of manipulation. If I take a hard stance against manipulating that MUST include modesty.
I cannot just come up to you and be like "Oh shucks. I've never driven a manual transmission car before. I'll give it a go." *proceeds to easily get car into first, shift into higher gears, and drive normally* Also. I am masssssively depressed. I think about death nonstop. I miss people that I've lost. I dont think theres an afterlife. And I dont think whatever I am is great enough to do anything in the world except maybe make enough money for a house and a semi-decent car. Maybe a hot tub. Everytime I see a positive change in someone I've tried to help. I never know if it was me that helped or not. I try and just think "hopefully I was some aid to this person" and let that be enough for me. Dude. Its not possible for me to respond to your line of rhetoric without being full of holes. Dont you see that? If you put me in the negative light.... I'll forever burn there. I am telling you. Heart to heart. Soul to soul. I am trying SO FUCKING HARD to tell the truth. But I am fickle. I am a hypocrite. I am broken. A human. You will always be able to point at something and say "AHAH! SEE?!?!?! I told you you suck!" because I do. You and everyone else. Dont you think it would be easy for me to just pretend I'm modest? What do you think is making me not pretend to be modest? Do you REALLY think its my ego thats too proud to be modest even for one post on an anonymous forum? How little faith in humanity do you have???
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Why not lie?
Because in the end you're only lying to yourself.
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Lie your way to the top buddy
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Anonymous #5 |
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Mate you might be crazy. Smoke less or more weed depending on lean of problem.
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Oh I also have a super super bad memory. I forget things almost as they happen a lot. I think my memory has become bad from not lying anymore. Keeping track of all the bullshit I think helps keep memory sharp. Makes me think people with good memories are more likely to be liars.
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Return to lying your ass off and you too could become president someday
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Have you ever had a full-blown psyche evaluation? Maybe you are a sociopath.
However, I resonate with your struggles, perhaps because of narcissistic tendencies I have that lead me to believe I am the shit. But guess fucking what, you are the shit, I am the shit, and everybody can be the fucking shit if they accept it is within them. For me I have to be careful and honest with myself where I may be crossing the line of self-love and accepting my greatness, and narcissism. You have to take honest analysis of thoughts and think, are these leading from past/current insecurities I have and are stemming in my head? Or are these thoughts stemming from my heart that are rooted in reality and truth. As far as lying and playing the game. Lying is innate to human nature. I believe having the idea that lying is never okay is ridiculous and absurd, and the pressure to not lie and the guilt that leads anytime you lie is not healthy or ideal or what leads to us realizing our full potential. I have realized lately how much power I have over people. I also have lately started lying more often than I ever have. But I struggle to fully feel this is bad. Being an attractive person who is charismatic, nice, etc. is not manipulating people. People doing things for me and me getting what I want due to being blessed in life in ways that society has placed value on is not manipulating, but it is playing the game. And that's all we have to do in this life is play the game. My thing is you can either play the game for yourself, or play the game for everyone. I feel reaching our highest potential can only come from playing the game for everyone. But this doesn't mean we have to lose out on personal gain and the solo campaign mission by doing so. In fact I think its the opposite. The more we come to our truth and find what our truth is, and at times requiring seemingly selfish actions or behaviors (shutting out people, valuing your own time or well-being over someone else's, etc.), the more we help others find their truth and play their game. The solo mission always leads to better campaign mission success. So, I am not a psychologist (well actually that was my major), I am not a clinical psychologist. But, I think there is a very good chance that some of your lying is not negative at all and simply you realizing the potential you have to affect your life experience. If it is that serious though, I would also say there is likely some aspects of it that may be stemming from inadequacies of self or unresolved psychological issues. I do not think you have to either go back to how you were, or not at all, it isn't black and white. I think you should begin evaluating times you are tempted to lie or "manipulate" and see what the intent is stemming from. Picking up girls is the biggest fucking lie we play and fakest game we play. To get women I certainly am somewhat of a douche (really just confident but with subtle douche haha), seem like I have it all put together, and that the girl means nothing to me. In reality, I am the biggest fucking teddy bear and cry baby, furthest thing from a douche genuinely, I have a lot going on in my head others don't know about, and my self-perception is why the fuck would any girl be interested in me. If people and my friends knew the extent of this in my head they would be like dog what the fuck.... you're insnae. An example of lies I think are fine and actually beneficial to accept as okay in your life: You are an athlete and know going to practice is not in your best interest on a given day. You may be physically torn apart from lack of sleep, or what have you, or you may be emotionally drained. You know the only way to get out of practice would be to make something up such as being sick. If you genuinely would not benefit from practice and actually do more harm, rather than you simply being lazy or not wanting to go, I think that is totally okay. I think not believing it is causes a great deal of stress and harm on others because we are forcing things that are not natural or what is best for us. A bad lie would be fucking up, making a mistake, or doing harm and not accepting responsibility. Lying to get out of any punishment, need to accept responsibility, or overall to avoid discomfort or pain that might be needed for self growth. This is bad lies. Lying to manipulate people is another subject. I do not think playing into certain roles or images at times is manipulating people (such as picking up women, or being over the top sweet to get more tips as a waitress). We are constantly evolving and shifting energies, at no point in time being exactly the same. It is okay to play into the game and tap into energies you may have. True manipulation would be lying or behaving in a way to someone in order to get a response from them to satisfy an insecurity, alternative agenda, or materialistic pleasure fulfilment in a way that draws on that persons energy. An personal example for me is making someone feel the need to support me because I was struggling with something that happened, and making them feel obligated to because I was in bad spot, without realizing how toxic and manipulative it was. The only thing I would say is be careful as it is a tricky and difficult to judge line between being aware of truth and reality, and doing what is most optimal for your self and thus everyone else, vs being egotistical or narcissistic, and causing harm. Anything that in reality is what is BEST for you and reaching your potential, I believe, is what is best for everyone else as well. Even if at that moment it might not be for someone else. You cant live your life for others because at the end of your life you will have failed to tap into your gifts fully. I don't think you should be totally ashamed of being able to control people, get what you want, etc. Some people are naturally gifted and it would be a denial of our divine purpose to restrict ourselves from tapping into this side of ourself. Just be sure to be honest with yourself, and try to find the source of your intentions behind things (such as due to insecurities traumas or pleasure seeking of materialsm, or due to natural tendencies and gifts/your purpose such as sex, business success through strong partnership and connections, pleasure such as happiness from experiences (not sourced from phony shit like pornography, excessive junk food, or monetary shit)). Being honest with ourselves as we play the game is all we can do. And I think the lines society has drawn, although needed at some point to avoid anarchy, are now irrelevant and it is time to break down what we have always believed. Lying, murder, rape, etc. can all be bad things. But I can find scenarios where they arent, many for lying, not so many for murder, and only one I can think of for rape (in order for the continues survival of your species if the other person does not want to. However still unsure about this because would raping them even lead to a birth, and if it did, that doesn't guarantee species survival unless you want to repopulate with a bunch of retards from inbreeding). Long post, I am cracked out. But I resonate and it was not until recently I changed my views to believing it is okay to lie or get what you what from not being fully honest, because to what extent can we ever say we are being fully honest? We are constantly shifting sacks of energy with profound abilities to manipulate our experience and alter it, why not take advantage of that gift?
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Anonymous #1 |
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Quite an inciteful reply. Firstly, thanks for that
![]() Admittedly though while reading your post all I can think of is its a lot of justification. Not all of what you said. But a good amount atleast sounds like it is. Though I know youre trying your best to define a subject that the majority of the world (clearly as evidence from this post) thinks is super bad, no-no people. I dont believe I am a sociopath. What I view in most people I believe is similar to how I feel and think. I can have the best argument in the world.... but if someone starts crying in front of me I melt down into nothing and desperately want to help them. I know I cant say for sure "I am not a sociopath" but the evidence seems to point away from that. I suppose as far as solo campaign goes the only 3 things that are relevant is Family, Girls, and money. (I could be missing something, I havent thought too much into this) On Family. I used to really want to impress my father. He has since passed. During the years leading to his death I stopped lying and he started making me out as the bad guy. I realized that he, too, was a liar and I wanted him to admit that he was. I believed he was a great man and I thought for sure if I was capable of turning my life around... surely he was too. I gave him so many chances to be the bigger person.... but if I ever gave him a chance to lie and get away with it... he would always take that route. After he passed I stopped caring about my entire family. The only one who mattered was him. Now I am very lost. I have been for years. I wish to god he would come back and just tell me hes sorry. I know he would be sorry if he could see into my brain. I know he isnt a bad person. Just overrun by the muck of life. Wish yall could have met him. With money.... its ALMOST a requirement to lie. Atleast on surface level things like pretending to smile. I have completely refused to pretend to smile for my current and last few bosses. I take it on a personal ground that pretending to smile is manipulation and I will not take part. It leads to regular berating from my bosses and me having to constantly explain the value of having someone like me in their employ. How I will go out of my way to say anything I have done wrong even if I'm in a situation where it looks as if I did perfect and am getting compliments. I will STILL throw myself under the bus. I work hard and get things done to a very solid degree. Though eventually.... it ends up not being enough. Coworkers start talking shit about me and the boss starts believing the bullshit and I end up quitting because I cant keep taking shit while working harder than everyone else. I believe my current job will be the last in which I work for someone. I have a decent amount of money saved and plan on opening a business. Buying and selling. Which requires that manipulative salesman mindset that I know I have. It scares the living shit out of me becoming the man I used to be. He overpowers everything and soon I am just taking advantage of some girl that loves me and taking everything for granted and being an asshole to friends and family. Being lazy. Not taking responsibility. With women I can give an example of a huge problem. I can pick women up and fuck them. I can still do that with my current skillset. All I have to do is act confident (which is easy as fuck for me because all that means is saying the truth). So I literally just go up to women and say "You are very cute in that dress." and that pretty much seals the deal because most men cant even do that. But my issue is when it comes to making a real honest loving relationship. I'll finally find a girl for example. She will just click in every way. One recently comes to mind. And I'll say things just off the top of my head that are HONEST. "Wow you talk so much like I do. I'm not used to talking to someone who thinks like me." "Wow this is so nice. Being around you is fantastic." and what dawns on me.... this is EXACTLY how other men bullshit women into sleeping with them. But I am saying it fucking honestly. So when it comes down to direct competition.... I think the woman is thinking I am just like every other guy and I plan on dumping them after I fuck them. So I never fully seal the deal with these "loving" relationships. Not in a long time. I havent had a real beautiful relationship that lasted very long in years. And I care very deeply and need a girl to give the world to. I know thats probably not the correct way to view relationships but I am very cynical. I dont think there are soulmates. I think we just end up with someone that fits and we stay with them. I dunno. I ranted a lot here. In summary: I soon will require the old me. I will have my own business that requires a ruthless cutthroat. If I continue being honest perhaps I can make it work though. I definitely will try. But if I end up needing to lie.... what happens if it overpowers me? How utopian to believe that I could lie and cheat for profit and not let that evil seep into my romantic and family life? (And a message to people who hate me simply for just typing whats in my organic 1's and 0's brain exactly as it is laid out...... I dont think I am going to become some incredibly rich person with this business. I just need it to stay afloat to afford a home and a little bit of luxuries like an occasional lobster dinner or a hobby like making a fast car.) Also hope yall having a good day
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Quote: I haven't read full reply, I will and will respond soon. But this certainly is very obvious tell tale sign you are no sociopath so that is good haha ![]() Sociopaths are unable to do what you described. Will get to rest and respond soon. I like this.
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might want some therapy. Without knowing the specifics of your life its hard to judge how accurate your self-assessment is, but I'm skeptical that the problem is a lack of lying.
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I'm still confused why you have concluded you need to lie more. You talk about it like it's an old drug addiction you can't help but get back into
![]() How and why are you defining modesty and humility as manipulation?? These are totally different concepts. Manipulation is taking advantage of someone else for personal gain, while ignoring the harm it may do to them or your relationship. Modesty - the quality or state of being unassuming or moderate in the estimation of one's abilities. Basically; don't be arrogant. For example, I can play the piano well. Chopin, scott joplin, you name it I could play it. But there's a big difference between being an arrogant douche, going up to someone like "sup babe, I shred the piano cause' I'm a total badass" and being modest. Maybe you don't even have to bring it up. Wait for someone to ask, do you play an instrument? And just be like "ya find me a piano and I'll play you something."Neither are lying, one is arrogant, one is modest. Humility - a modest or low view of one's own importance; humbleness Now, I don't see how you could possibly object to humility. Once again, not at all connected to manipulation or lying. Humility is what you see when someone has accepted the fact that they are not important. You already said you believe life is meaningless and your existence has no inherent meaning. If you truly understood what that meant, humility should be inescapable. You are literally an insignificant part of an ever changing ever expanding universe, we are the definition of unimportant. So when you act like God shit out a golden egg and you popped out as his gift to the rest of the universe, it makes you looked arrogant and confused. Basically, I think your problem in life is that you have a fundamental misunderstanding of humility and modesty, not that you need to lie more. Edited by Anonymous (12/08/20 02:49 PM)
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Quote: Couple things. I think we have delved into the semantics world but ill go here a bit. Also I'm a bit stoned with this chick and havent smoked pot in a LONG time. So bare with me. I do believe we are nothing and what not. So of course I AM humble before the weight of that. But what the world perceives as humble can vary based off miscommunication. For example: " I can play the piano well. Chopin, scott joplin, you name it I could play it." could be egotistical or it could be factual. The only thing determining that in its external to you reality is perception. God I'm getting lost in words here. "dont be arrogant" How do I tell if I am being arrogant? If one chooses to be EXACTLY truthful.... when they list their achievements they are riding a FINE FINE edge. One way under is a modesty attempt (a lie) and one way is arrogance overdoing it. fuck im stoned boys. Ill be back.
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Man, the way you're defining lying is ...strange. and overkill.. Not telling the whole truth is not the same as telling a falsehood. Smiling at your coworkers isn't manipulation, its just called having social skills.
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Quote: I guess it could be manipulation if someone were screwed up enough to get some kicks by "being manipulative" and smiling at someone. Sounds to me like OP is trying real hard to feel more important than he is. Not to be rude, nobody is important...not more than anyone else anyways
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Quote: I dont think thats the case. "Trying to feel more important than I am". I feel worthless. Meaningless. Pointless. It really doesnt make sense what I do. Because with the mindset I have.... I should be at home on the couch doing fuck all and just complaining and bitching. But I go to work a lot. I've got 4 jobs at the moment. Quote: Okay so what I was trying to touch on yesterday was.... What does it matter what the definition of humility and modesty are? The point is you undersell what you have on offer intentionally for personal gain. If that gain is people thinking youre modest then that is a gain. Modesty as a concept simply cant exist outside of bullshitting. Someone could mis-evaluate their skill level but that wouldnt be modest. That would be failure to recognize potential. Or are we saying modesty is the genuine under-evaluation of ones talents? So an inferiority complex? But aside from that. What tends to be the case is people require lying in order to be seen as "good". In all aspects of life. Relationships. Careers. I mean look at women. Men are notorious for bullshitting women they want to fuck or become the boyfriend of. How is a straight talker meant to compete with that? Especially if that saboteur knows youre a straight talker and uses it against you. How many relationships are built off a one night stand with the girl being drunk as fuck? How many husbands and wives do we have walking around the planet because they accidentally got themselves pregnant? How many of those people go around admitting that fact? Or do they all just lie and act like it was true love? Then youve got career. How fucking hard is it to make a manager like you if youre willing to bullshit? It takes no talent. No skill. But if youre a truth teller next to that liar.... holy shit do you look bad. You could be crawling across broken glass and the liar would just say they did it twice as fast last week for twice as far. Where is the reality when people speak to me? Why must I be considered cynical simply for stating the way it is? The society is this massive being that WANTS you to lie. Wants you to escape from reality and exist within delusion. The whole fucking structure in every direction funnels out into mistruths and inevitably some leaking spout of irrelevancy. You take just personal blame. Blame cant exist. I am who I am based off the experiences that got me here. I could be someone else if I had different experiences. So how can someone be mad when I choose to take an action if the entirety of everything that came before is whats pushing me to take that action? Yet find me someone who doesnt quickly turn to individual blame when someone fucks up. That IS delusion. We ARE deluded. The whole god damn structure is built upon these delusions. Even I, as I spout on and on about the delusions, am physically incapable of seeing which delusions I myself suffer from. I feel toxic. I feel unable to be clean. Like we exist in a world where all is grime. All is toxic.
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And I do try to keep my head up. I mostly find happiness is just making others happy. Complimenting them on their clothing, or something they did that day, or some skill they have like playing guitar or whatever it is.
I really go out of my way to compliment my friends. And even just people I know. My negativity only seeps out onto this forum. Other than the permanent sad face I have stuck on me. Though I do genuinely smile if someone makes a good joke or something fun or funny happens. The real world I try hard to avoid this kind of topic with. If pressed I will give it up. But rarely am I pressed. Tolstoy has one of my main quotes that cycles in and out of my brain. "Only a fool or a coward chooses not to kill themself. And I, being a coward, stand before you today." Quote is something like that. I KNOW I should end it. But I am too god damn scared.
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Quote: Quote: Holy shit you're fucking delusional. You don't think that anyone with any sense or wisdom can see straight through people who do that? You think that's the only way to get ahead, to lie? Who do you think gets further in the world, the man that works hard to achieve his dreams and knows that he has done so, or the one that has achieved nothing yet is talented at lying that he has? Edited by Anonymous (12/10/20 05:50 AM)
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Also. Why are we acting like liars dont exist or liars are capable of lying to us about things? Its not hard to lie. People get away with it daily. Probably almost all people on earth lie almost every single day.
I may not be accurate on that statement.... but damnit theres a FUCK TON of lies. And a FUCK TON of people getting away with their lies. You dont think someone could lie to you? Or to a very wise person?
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Of course people lie to me. Most times I can see straight through it, or it comes out in the wash soon enough that they were anyway. You've got lying on some holy grail level shit from the sounds of things, you seem to think all your problems would be solved if only you were a total liar. Correct me if I'm wrong.
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Quote: How would you know the percentage of lies that you catch? You cant determine the amount of lies you dont. By definition. Youre basically saying "I caught some people lying. Therefore I am good at catching people lying and most people are good at catching people lying." I think I was happier back when I lied. And its very difficult where I'm at now. I see people sneaking around and making my life harder and I dont do anything about it. Whenever I point out in great detail the tiny little things they did to get ahead.... I look weird as fuck. And all that needs to be said is how fucking weird I am and boom my goose is cooked. You know how you can bend the truth in like four different areas to bolster one overarching view that can benefit you? I see people do that shit. It fucks me. I've tried full confidence and taking control of the situation and explaining in great detail the exact things someone did that got them ahead or made me look bad.... and it sounds fucking crazy. Think of how crazy that would sound. But it IS happening. People are SO full of shit. Or people who cant be wrong. Its truly amazing sometimes the level someone will go to just to not be wrong. I went to my boss a few months ago to point out a potential failing point in the future. He said "no. I know that. I trust that. It will be fine. I've been here a long time." and not but a short while later it failed. I didnt say anything the first time and he didnt say anything to me about how I was right. Then the next fucking day I point out another potential failure. He said the same bullshit about how hes been here a long time and he knows best. The fucking thing fails. So I go to him in frustration because my job is obviously to find failures before they happen. Thats what I'm paid to fucking do. And I say "Hey man. I pointed out this before it happened and also the last time this happened." and he literally responds with "We cant do anything about what has happened. We need to keep our eyes out and pay attention." Like it was fucking MY fault. He literally made a thing where he fucked up TWICE some how be MY fault. The guy who keeps his head down and allows the bullshit storm to act however it wants to.... that guy gets fucked. In general. I have a lot of good friends that appreciate the way I think though. And the past few real relationships I had were very special. So I guess theres pros and cons? I dunno. I remember being very happy and deluded. Very full of myself and unaware of pain and shame and regret. No anxiety. Nothing. Just steamrolling about how awesome I am and all the great achievements I've done. You know what I mean? If youre focusing on a hustle.... (like that you need to look better than you are to people).... you dont have time to feel anything negative. Its just all gravy train happiness and analyzing for your next move. Also a sidenote: I appear to have a REALLY bad memory now. I wonder if that is to do with not keeping track of all the lies? Like that was the exercise that kept my memory sharp.
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Nice guys finish last, that's how it's always been.
Seeing a bad person having it all, does not change my moral compass. Things earned are valued more. Being a genuine person is appreciated/respected more. If you see a thief with an item (which you would like too) and feel unhappy because you could easily steal that item better than they could, are you going to give in and start stealing? Or do you know it's better to save up and purchase it. You know what's wrong/right, it's your choice to make in respect of what exactly you want to do, and who you want to be.
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Sometimes the bullshitter does get ahead in the short term. Sometimes you have to do you and just be real. If you're lucky, you'll find a like-minded person or two to work with in life. If not, you'll have to go it alone like I do. I've built a pretty decent construction biz and have a lot of good customers because I choose to be up front and not bullshit and I don't accept people that don't act decently in life. Sometimes it's a lonely road but that's ok. At the end of the day, I've still got my integrity and I feel accomplished
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OP, I really think you should not focus on these things so much and just be the person that you can feel good about, even if that doesn't always get you ahead in life AT THAT MOMENT because it will pay off down the road
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A trip last night provided me with a sickening insight ( |
563 | 20 | 12/02/09 11:50 AM by Anonymous | ||
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knocked Someone Up, and I'm not handling it to well. ( |
2,376 | 65 | 12/19/09 04:35 PM by Anonymous | ||
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Relationships | 462 | 11 | 09/21/10 10:40 PM by Anonymous | ||
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destorying my ego with psychedelics has tought me how to be me. | 245 | 9 | 07/12/09 11:04 AM by Anonymous | ||
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My struggle. ( |
1,206 | 56 | 02/23/10 08:39 PM by Anonymous | ||
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Orgoneconclusion is pathetic. ( |
6,731 | 211 | 01/05/09 08:38 PM by Anonymous |
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