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Anonymous #1

I dont like to be touched.(is it a gender thing?)
    #27059556 - 11/27/20 01:30 AM (3 years, 3 months ago)

i dont like to be touched... not in a catholic church way... at all....

even hugging my Mom goodbye after a family meal is very uncomfortable.
i struggle being in a room with more than 3 or 4 folks i know well and daily crew meetings with 60 fellow crew  leaves me shaky and sweaty for an hour.

am i really that broken?

Edited by Anonymous (11/27/20 02:27 PM)

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Anonymous #2

Re: is it a gender thing? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27059784 - 11/27/20 08:36 AM (3 years, 3 months ago)

Well you're not not broken. It's definitely strange. You do you, but if the root of it isn't preference but underlying disorder you should figure it out.

Some people might just not like touching. Some people don't like it because of mental disorder like obsessive compulsive disorder or disorder from being molested, etc...

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Anonymous #3

Re: is it a gender thing? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27060199 - 11/27/20 01:30 PM (3 years, 3 months ago)

sounds less like a gender thing and more like a psychological problem. I also don't like being touched mostly, I know its commonly associated with being on the spectrum but what you describe sounds like it could have roots in abuse or something. It's totally fair to not want people touching you, but if you feel shaken by just being around people, for your own sake you might want to work on that

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Anonymous #1

Re: is it a gender thing? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #27060254 - 11/27/20 02:03 PM (3 years, 3 months ago)

the gender Q was mostly wondering if men are more or less likely to have this...

i wasnt abused or molested in any way so that can be ruled out. However even as a very small child i was never a hugger or close contact child, i do know that i cycle through phases of being better able to tolerate people... at the moment im going through the low tolerance part of the cycle...

im definitely an odd fish tho.... just really ,really not a people person...

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Anonymous #4

Re: I dont like to be touched.(is it a gender thing?) [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #27060539 - 11/27/20 04:44 PM (3 years, 3 months ago)

its okay to not be a people person, but you will find yourself in situations and circumstances where you have to interact with many people at a time. it will benefit you a lot more if you learned to cope with being around people. this sort of thing just takes time, experience, and determination. people dont appreciate how hard this really is but you can build yourself up over time to be around people. it will help your confidence as well.

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Anonymous #5

Re: I dont like to be touched.(is it a gender thing?) [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27060682 - 11/27/20 06:56 PM (3 years, 3 months ago)

I am the same and I have aspergers, I’m female, if that makes a difference.

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Anonymous #6

Re: I dont like to be touched.(is it a gender thing?) [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #27060732 - 11/27/20 07:51 PM (3 years, 3 months ago)

This thread is insane with all these questions about being touched and wether someone is male or female. Is it ok if I am a male and touch a female and do not touch a male in homosexual relations?

What is wrong with touching people? It :feelsgoodman:

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Anonymous #1

Re: I dont like to be touched.(is it a gender thing?) [Re: Anonymous #6] * 1
    #27060737 - 11/27/20 07:56 PM (3 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #6 said:

What is wrong with touching people? It :feelsgoodman:




that statement shows that you cant understand the issue. all good tho.. each to his or her own.

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Anonymous #4

Re: I dont like to be touched.(is it a gender thing?) [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27060860 - 11/27/20 09:27 PM (3 years, 3 months ago)

at least you're not one of those people who likes touching people too much. you know the kind :uhoh:

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Anonymous #6

Re: I dont like to be touched.(is it a gender thing?) [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #27060890 - 11/27/20 10:09 PM (3 years, 3 months ago)

Sex addiction?

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Anonymous #1

Re: I dont like to be touched.(is it a gender thing?) [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #27060910 - 11/27/20 10:26 PM (3 years, 3 months ago)

its weird, part of my problem is that i cant read people.... having just spent an hour wandering among cows and drinking vodka, it occurs to me that i can relate just fine with animals... (ive never been bitten by a dog despite dealing with known biters, im the only one who can walk among 12 month old bulls injecting them for eczema while my boss couldnt get in the paddock without getting kicked), i guess the difference betrween people and animals is that i can read animals. if you behave like X then reaction Y will occur, people are not like that, my interactions with a person wont change but their reaction to me will.... damn stupid humans!

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Anonymous #7

Re: I dont like to be touched.(is it a gender thing?) [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27062373 - 11/29/20 02:26 AM (3 years, 3 months ago)

Your skill at reading animals and discomfort with social situations reminds me of asd traits. Maybe you have some such traits? But characteristics like introversion lie on a spectrum, you may be totally "normal" but on the end of the spectrum. There's a great book called party of one, about people who prefer their own company. It helped me a lot.

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Anonymous #8

Re: I dont like to be touched.(is it a gender thing?) [Re: Anonymous #7]
    #27065719 - 12/01/20 02:46 AM (3 years, 3 months ago)

Honestly it sounds like Asperger's or high-functioning autism. They have a lot of sensory issues. I have Asperger's and I hate walking on cold tile with no sandals. I hate being cold. I also have to trim my nose hair every other week because the feeling of it drives me fucking insane and I can't stop itching the shit. I also have to trim my eyelashes every other week so that they don't brush against my glasses when I blink because that really drives me insane also. When I'm under a high amount of stress I don't even like my mother touching me or hugging me. High stress experiences are also an autistic spectrum disorder thing. we got stressed the fuck out over small things sort of like bipolar people. I also hate being around people. People really exhaust me. I can't stand how fake most people are. If I'm around too many people for too long then I need to relax by myself for some time in order to gain my sanity again. A lot of autistic spectrum battles are with high Stimulation things. Too much stimulation stresses us the fuck out. But not enough stimulation and we are just fucking bored.

I'm a male with Asperger's but I'm also a misanthrope which makes me hate people and society even more.

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