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JSB tell us how to game dating apps
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Re: Dating apps? [Re: yeah]
#27016929 - 11/02/20 07:10 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Stop being lazy and be a nicer person.
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yeah


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well first, are you accusing me of being negative or rude to the matches I do get? I'm not sure what else you could be trying to say. And laziness...? The most you can do on an app is use all your swipes every day. What do you mean by that?
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Re: Dating apps? [Re: yeah]
#27016966 - 11/02/20 07:39 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yea you are telling someone you don’t know to be a nicer person and saying they are lazy. You should take your own advice
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Re: Dating apps? [Re: yeah]
#27017027 - 11/02/20 08:16 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Actually, yeah and I have been interacting here for a good number of years, both in public and PM, so to say I don't know him is incorrect. Spend some more time around the social sides of the community and I think you'll find that lots of bonds here between people run really quite deep.
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yeah said: well first, are you accusing me of being negative or rude to the matches I do get? I'm not sure what else you could be trying to say. And laziness...? The most you can do on an app is use all your swipes every day. What do you mean by that?
Like we've discussed before man, I'm not judging you of anything, and I'm not suggesting that I know anything about what you do away from the forum.
However I was dissecting your post here:
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yeah said: JSB tell us how to game dating apps
For starters, you haven't made a polite request at all here. You haven't put effort into this post. You could have made this request in a far, far nicer manner. And then secondly, I think it lazy that you wish to be told how to be successful rather than going through the work - the trial and error and head scratching and debating and changing - that those that achieve success go through. Successful people - IME - generally don't ask other people how to be successful. They just get on with it and do it.
Anyway, I think that your one line post above is likely indicative of why you've struggled with these apps, hence why I tired to highlight that to you.
Maybe I'm dead wrong of course.
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Jokeshopbeard said: Anyway, I think that your one line post above is likely indicative of why you've struggled with these apps
What do you mean?
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Re: Dating apps? [Re: yeah]
#27017131 - 11/02/20 09:26 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anyways dating apps are all looks and wealth signaling so I was wondering what you meant by "gaming" the system. If you don't get matches then there's nothing you can do. Writing unpunctuated text on the internet has no effect on this.
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Re: Dating apps? [Re: yeah]
#27017215 - 11/02/20 10:18 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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You're considerably better looking than me; I have no idea how you manage to fail on those apps.
I never said anything about 'gaming' the system.
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I swear I read you say you figured out how to game apps. Maybe it was someone else in a different thread?
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Re: Dating apps? [Re: yeah]
#27017272 - 11/02/20 10:58 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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I think that was me! You can game the algorithm for apps like tinder. If you swipe right on every profile, you go to the bottom of the pile. If you swipe left on everyone, you go towards the top. So what you need to do (aside from having an attractive or superficial profile) is swipe between 1/3 - 2/3. Make swiping a split second decision and get through as many profiles as possible. No need to dwell on every little detail on their profile, wait till after you have a date set up and you want to make conversation.
I really think the way these apps are set up do not reflect how humans naturally meet partners and fall in love. It rewires everybodys perception of relationships and while its a really cool idea to see every single women in a 50 mile radius, its not natural and has lots of social complications
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I just had to cut off a scammer on tinder. It was this cute blonde chick but her English was weird when she would send messages. She asked for my number, I gave it to her. It was like a 5 digit number with a link. She was asking me to give her the code to know if I was real or not. I said we can face time or Skype. I told “her” I wasn’t clicking the link and then our messages disappeared. I tried to report the account but it wouldn’t let me. So be careful on these apps the scammers have infiltrated them.
But I’ve been swiping right a lot. So I should swipe left to get me higher on this list? Also I wonder how many of these accounts that are inactive now because the chick is in a relationship.
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Hinge will block you before Bumble & Tinder doesn't give af.
I don't really do much to get block other than getting drunk on rare occasions and straight up asking girls if they wanna fuck (this should be okay in my mind) its a fucking online dating app. The whole point is to fuck. Why not be honest?
Hinge does not like this.
& Bumble is bi polar wit it
Tender is what you expect but I get 10:1 maybe 20:1
Bumble over Tender matches
God Dammit I NEED A FUCKING DISPENSARAY
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I feel like a lot of the tinder and bumble profiles are old and the chicks aren’t on the app anymore.
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Maybe with Tender deff but I feel the opposite with Bumble.
I lost close to 80 lbs road a bike 20k miles then updated profile pics that helped so much with Bumble but Tender is dead as a rock
I have had 3 or 4 bumble dates in CO, 2 were very amazing girls, 2 not so much, 1 was from Happen a hood girl from Chicago i got robbed pretty much go figure
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Damn bro you got robbed? How did she do that? Also I was putting more focus on tinder but I’m got switch my focus to bumble now.
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PumpJackTeX
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It was the 4th of July and I got drunk on Patron and she took full advantage of it.
I jumped out of her car at a red light to run away from here and she jumped out too and lied to other pedestrian to try and get me jumped.
My life is insane
My best bumble date was this Cali girl who lived in Sweden and the Philippines but of course I fucked that up by the 3rd date bc I'm really good at fucking things up, followed by this sexy scientist from TX that I met in Denver but the cards I was dealt was weak for the game I was playing.
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The only girl I've banged on tinder had a happy trail but I kinda was into it lol. I was expecting to pull her shorts off and see a wang but turns out she's just hairy
I had fun with tinder, met a few cool chicks on there and had a whole lot of awkward conversations. I recommend it if you dont wanna take dating seriously for a while.
Bumble seemed goofy though but maybe I just didnt understand it. It seemed too G rated
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Re: Dating apps? [Re: Psicomb]
#27020023 - 11/03/20 06:54 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Tender is dead af I will get 6-8 matches in 24 hrs some days and half might message me
While I will go a month without connecting with anyone from Tender
Also watched a NBA game recently & they had the Bumble logo on the floor
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Yea I think those apps might be done with their golden days. I bet there is a app that is up and coming that we haven’t gotten hip to.
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PumpJackTeX
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If your not a ugly fat American the apps work great
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