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ninja cat 09
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Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? 1
#27004520 - 10/26/20 12:04 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hey guys, just got broken up with this weekend, sucks since it was my first meaningful relationship and it was going great, but my ex has to deal with some personal stuff and be single for a while.
I'm gonna be working on my russian, coding and working out. Probably grow some edibles while I'm at it too. Probably won't trip for a while because set & setting isn't great. What else do you usually do to get yourselves out of a funk? Food is likely off the table since I'm doing keto, but if anyone got any good keto recipes, I'm down.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09] 3
#27004522 - 10/26/20 12:07 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lots of weed helped me in the past
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09]
#27004523 - 10/26/20 12:10 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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ninja cat 09
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: gopher]
#27004530 - 10/26/20 12:12 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Gypsy Boy said: Lots of weed helped me in the past
Hells yeah! I'm likely to be doing all those things high!
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gopher said: http://www.traditionaltx.us/images/PEMMICAN.pdf
OOFFF, that looks DOPE! Thanks <3
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09]
#27004532 - 10/26/20 12:14 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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if I can get either suet of beef trimmings from my butcher im going to try and make some pemmican, I just havnt called the butcher yet to see if they can get me the fat, I heard some butchers will give you the fat trimmings for free cause they usually just toss them
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09] 2
#27004538 - 10/26/20 12:17 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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my ex has to deal with some personal stuff and be single for a while.
Sorry to hear that man
I think most people fare well by taking long walks in the rain and getting in shape
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09] 1
#27004554 - 10/26/20 12:26 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear 
I concur with the above, getting in shape has always helped me in hard times.
I'd say just be hyperfocused on yourself. Spend your time really building yourself up. Don't spend too much time in "comfort" like drinking too much, eating junk etc.
But if you need to, have a binge of pizza and drink a few beers before you throw yourself into the commitment of self-actualization.
Have some time to rage, some time to mourn, and the build yourself up better than ever.
Good luck! And I wish you all the best
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: Socrateshroom]
#27004570 - 10/26/20 12:35 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yep excessive, keep your self busy with activities but all so just give your self time to those feelings surface and exit.
One thing that works though: Fuck somebody else. This sounds stupid and brutal way to deal with feelings but it really does take your mind of her.
Disclaimer: Processing your feeling and giving yourself time is superb compared to that.
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ninja cat 09
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: LeningradCowboy]
#27004579 - 10/26/20 12:41 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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gopher said: if I can get either suet of beef trimmings from my butcher im going to try and make some pemmican, I just havnt called the butcher yet to see if they can get me the fat, I heard some butchers will give you the fat trimmings for free cause they usually just toss them
Here you can get them for real cheap, used to give them to the dogs. They'd love the stuff. I'm kinda worried about dehydrating meat at low temps, especially considering the lax way meat is handled here.
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my ex has to deal with some personal stuff and be single for a while.
Sorry to hear that man
I think most people fare well by taking long walks in the rain and getting in shape 
Hahaha, I hope it's not the case, I still think of her as my friend, but whatever it is it's her life 
Thanks, will do. Sadly rainy season is over, but I've been skating quite a bit lately, it tires me out more than I expected!
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Socrateshroom said: I'd say just be hyperfocused on yourself. Spend your time really building yourself up. Don't spend too much time in "comfort" like drinking too much, eating junk etc.
Have some time to rage, some time to mourn, and the build yourself up better than ever.
Good luck! And I wish you all the best 
Thanks, I try not to anyways, keto is pretty demanding and I like it. I don't think I'll be going back to a normal diet soon other than for special occasions.
Will do, I miss getting angry/melancholic because it used to be some of my best workouts were then. I'll be taking full advanage 
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LeningradCowboy said: Yep excessive, keep your self busy with activities but all so just give your self time to those feelings surface and exit.
One thing that works though: Fuck somebody else. This sounds stupid and brutal way to deal with feelings but it really does take your mind of her.
Disclaimer: Processing your feeling and giving yourself time is superb compared to that.
Hahaha, I'm working on that. It's sad but it works. What I really wanna avoid are emotional attachments though. That might be the hardest part. I sort of fell for her because I was in a vulnerable place and it would have been a very bad thing to do if she wasn't such a great person.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09] 1
#27004653 - 10/26/20 01:35 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Im sorry for your lost man. Breakups are the worst 
Lots of safe drugs and video games always helps me. Also travelling to beautiful places helps too. Nothing like seeing the beauty of the World to remind you theres still good things in life.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 1
#27004973 - 10/26/20 04:27 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think some time getting to know yourself again will be well spent. In relationships we can sometimes lose sight of who we are as individuals and what we personally want from life. Take this time to rediscover who you are with a little healthy introspection in order to regain you sense of individual identity and your comfort & confidence in being single. You don't want to dwell on the past but it is healthy to take some time to reflect on what has happened and also to refocus on what you want from the future, regardless of whether that future sees you single or with someone. Then start taking steps to actualise this plan.
Also, rediscover the joys of masturbation
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09] 2
#27004979 - 10/26/20 04:28 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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This is probably not the healthiest way, but stimulants are pretty effective. Also sex. Go out to bars, try to meet some women maybe. Or maybe try going on some dates and stuff like that.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: nooneman]
#27005029 - 10/26/20 04:53 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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nooneman said: This is probably not the healthiest way, but stimulants are pretty effective. Also sex. Go out to bars, try to meet some women maybe. Or maybe try going on some dates and stuff like that.

Nothing will take your mind off your ex quicker than a new woman, even if it's just casual.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 4
#27005041 - 10/26/20 05:00 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Thanks everyone <3
I have some vacations for next week, I'll see if I can set up a hostel, day trip or something somewhere, get tinder and try and bang a local. That's ticking all the boxes, right? Add a bit of self exploration and we've got a winner!
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09] 2
#27005216 - 10/26/20 07:07 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Get a motorcycle
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: trees] 2
#27005370 - 10/26/20 08:43 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Buy a boat
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09] 4
#27005423 - 10/26/20 09:13 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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There are a lot of great documentaries on Pornhub.com. Take the time to educate yourself.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: christopera] 1
#27005497 - 10/26/20 10:09 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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christopera said: There are a lot of great documentaries on Pornhub.com. Take the time to educate yourself.
I only watch them for the storylines
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: pslyke]
#27005720 - 10/27/20 05:23 AM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Drop acid
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: OutsideOfMyMind]
#27005935 - 10/27/20 09:26 AM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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I usually ONLY trip when I'm in a bad place mentally
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: spirit_shadow] 2
#27006119 - 10/27/20 11:24 AM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Get yourself together. Move to Philly. Buy a loft. Start a noise band. Get 6 or 7 roommates. Eat hummus with them. Book some gigs. Paint. Smoke cloves. Listen to Animal Collective. Start some type of salsa company.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: OutsideOfMyMind]
#27006124 - 10/27/20 11:26 AM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow said: I usually ONLY trip when I'm in a bad place mentally 
Yeah? Shit, sounds like a good way to bawl my eyes out for 6 hours straight. Not a problem if I didn't live with my parents/siblings.
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christopera said: There are a lot of great documentaries on Pornhub.com. Take the time to educate yourself.
I believe that there are home tutors of the same sort, except you meet them at a hotel, not a home.
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OutsideOfMyMind said: Drop acid
Ugh, I wish synthetic drugs here weren't total shit. I'm kinda scared of ordering anything from the darknet to Mexico since most providers aren't from here.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: Grateful Dead]
#27006126 - 10/27/20 11:27 AM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Grateful Dead said: Get yourself together. Move to Philly. Buy a loft. Start a noise band. Get 6 or 7 roommates. Eat hummus with them. Book some gigs. Paint. Smoke cloves. Listen to Animal Collective. Start some type of salsa company.
Hell yeah, I gotta work on my singing and drawing!
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: twighead]
#27006354 - 10/27/20 01:20 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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twighead said: Buy a boat
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#27006916 - 10/27/20 06:40 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Work out.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09]
#27007094 - 10/27/20 08:03 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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ninja cat 09 said:
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spirit_shadow said: I usually ONLY trip when I'm in a bad place mentally 
Yeah? Shit, sounds like a good way to bawl my eyes out for 6 hours straight. Not a problem if I didn't live with my parents/siblings.
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christopera said: There are a lot of great documentaries on Pornhub.com. Take the time to educate yourself.
I believe that there are home tutors of the same sort, except you meet them at a hotel, not a home.
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OutsideOfMyMind said: Drop acid
Ugh, I wish synthetic drugs here weren't total shit. I'm kinda scared of ordering anything from the darknet to Mexico since most providers aren't from here.
How can you bawl your eyes out if you dont even know what eyes are?
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09]
#27007134 - 10/27/20 08:30 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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This is a perfect time to start a meditation routine. When I was going through this it was the only thing that helped.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09]
#27007306 - 10/27/20 09:43 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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I like to hang out with friends and watch football. play magic the gathering. dont know if any of that helps heh
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ninja cat 09
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ManianFH]
#27008257 - 10/28/20 12:09 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Shiithead said: Work out.
Been doing that almost non-stop
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spirit_shadow said: How can you bawl your eyes out if you dont even know what eyes are? 
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Donger said: This is a perfect time to start a meditation routine. When I was going through this it was the only thing that helped.
Hell yeah man. I can never seem to stick to those, any tips?
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mick said: I like to hang out with friends and watch football. play magic the gathering. dont know if any of that helps heh
Yeah, gonna chill with a friend tonight and probably later in the week too. Also gonna go to a nearby city to have a day of the dead themed cannabis dinner this weekend, gonna be DOPE.
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Re: Just got broken up with, what should I distract myself with? [Re: ninja cat 09]
#27008299 - 10/28/20 12:37 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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What else do you usually do to get yourselves out of a funk?
I listen to the music that is the greatest anti-depressant known to man, which happens to be funk.
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