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Dating in your late 20's
#26982499 - 10/12/20 10:11 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Man this shit is dumb. I personally at 29 about to hit 30 in January have no kids. I knew that the girls I was with were probably not the ones but I loved them but we practiced safe sex. Man getting back into the dating pool I have found out the rest of people didn't think this way at all. All of them have children. So do I want to play baby daddy? Not fucking really? So I dunno I just don't get it. Birth control was easy to obtain while also wearing condoms. What the fuck?
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: Enjoywho]
#26982508 - 10/12/20 10:15 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Get a job with NSA! Problem solved!
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: Cherk]
#26982511 - 10/12/20 10:17 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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My own father is still being rail roaded by child support and my youngest sister just hit adulthood. When he bitches to me how he's getting 40% of his wage my mom gave him the benefit of the doubt so it wasn't me and my other sister on top of my youngest and brother. He owes my mom 20-30 grand and then i found out he has 4 other kids so we were at the casino and he's trieing to complain about it. But it's like anyone I've met that has kids. Sucks to be you but you have to pay it.
Don't follow all of the ways to not get pregnant i'm not going to shed a tear in solace for you. You created life so you have to pay. idiot
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: Enjoywho]
#26982515 - 10/12/20 10:19 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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you are clinically insane! you must sit in a chair for 16 hours now!
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: Cherk]
#26982521 - 10/12/20 10:20 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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I dunno what your referencing?
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: Enjoywho]
#26982529 - 10/12/20 10:23 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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When he bitches to me how he's getting 40% of his wage my mom gave him the benefit of the doubt so it wasn't me and my other sister on top of my youngest and brother.
that sentence is a fragmented thought. it lacks context!
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: Cherk]
#26982533 - 10/12/20 10:26 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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My mom didn't ask for child support from my father when he left. There are 4 of us. Variable 1 2 3 4. Me being 1 youngest being 4. My mom didn't ask for child support until 1 and 2 were of age. Basically she gave him a break. but he still owes a lot of money. And father I hung out with recently (a rare occcurance) the reason why is because he always blames mother which he brought up again i hadn't seen father in for fucking ever but still. What are you supposed to say? Sorry many you had children and i'm not even one that your being made to pay mom for taking care of. Dudes a fucking idiot.
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#26982560 - 10/12/20 10:51 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: Man getting back into the dating pool I have found out the rest of people didn't think this way at all. All of them have children.
Urrr.. mate, not ALL of them have children.
You sound like someone who's taken a brief look out there and jumped to a [incorrect] conclusion. Likely you're a little jaded due to the above, which is understandable, but...
Keep looking?
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Jokeshopbeard said: Keep looking?
Or, better yet, stop looking. Focus on your hobbies, hone your skills, take care of your mind and body, and cultivate platonic friendships with other people based on shared interests. I can't guarantee that you'll find someone to be in a relationship with by doing that, but you might. Even if you never do, at least you spent your life doing stuff you love doing instead of searching for something you don't have.
I'm also in my late twenties and haven't been in a relationship for a while, so hear me out on this little story: pretty recently, I met someone through an online dating app. I was excited because she was only a year younger than me, didn't have any kids, and seemed pretty cool. We went out for a little while, connected physically (didn't have sex, but it got pretty close on a couple of occasions), and we had some fun. Then, after about a month, I slowly started to recognize something: I still wasn't happy. In fact, I started to realize that, in many ways, I was more stressed out and unhappy than I was before I started seeing her. Relationships always come with their own unique set of problems, and I was starting to see what these problems were going to be for me and her. In a healthy, loving relationship, this wouldn't be a big deal at all. If you love someone, you'll find a way to make it work. I guess I was realizing that I didn't love this woman. How could I love her? I had only met her a month ago. She was cool and everything, but there was no foundation to our relationship other than the fact that we both swiped right on a dating app. We didn't have shared interests, we weren't moving the same direction in life, and we were living very separate lives when we weren't with one another. We were just two people who were both looking for a relationship, and we had found one.
I'll quote my favorite philosopher, Alan Watts: "Be careful what you wish for. You might get it." I had found a relationship, just like I wanted, but I then found out it wasn't what I really wanted. So, I broke it off with her, and now I'm back to just focusing on myself like I have been for the past two years or so. It's real fresh, man. I feel great!
Just focus on yourself, man. Don't go searching for the right woman. If you do, you're liable to settle for someone who isn't really right for you.
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is her boyfriend named Stallion? If so I saw her at 711 tonight!
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: Cherk]
#26982631 - 10/12/20 11:33 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Cherk said: is her boyfriend named Stallion? If so I saw her at 711 tonight!
She never mentioned a guy named Stallion to me hahaha
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#26983089 - 10/13/20 10:03 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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So, this "father" you hung out with that "owes money" was at a casino? Sounds like a really great person. Totally judging him on that, what a fucking loser! I also don't see the problem with abortion as a means of NOT HAVING A FUCKING BABY!!! WTF? It's OK to get one if a person isn't set financially. That is usually the problem(s) with having kids now. Yes BC is paramount to not having kids, but why the fuck is abortion such an issue? Jesus titty fucking motherfucking christ! Anyway, good luck , and enjoy who you like!
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LOL you been getting more ranty of late rexy. I've seen other friends go through this stage too. You got something that's been eating you in your immediate vicinity, like at home or work?
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Enroll in seated classes at your local community college or 4 year university.
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LOL, I guess so. I can be a really bitchy one in here. More than IRL. It's just so easy. I guess I need to read over my posts sometimes before posting. I hope I'm not one of those "get off my lawn you damn kids" type old guy.
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tyrannicalrex said: I hope I'm not one of those "get off my lawn you damn kids" type old guy.
Yeah, we all gotta watch that as we age IMO. Very easy to head imperceptibly down that path.
We'll watch out for you brother!!
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: Enjoywho]
#26983178 - 10/13/20 11:03 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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IME, urban and progressive areas are much more likely to have child-less individuals. Try there, or use an app with a filter.
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Sometimes you just have to grind an axe. It’s probably most productive to actually grind an axe instead of bitch people out on the net.
I’ll be right back. I need to buy an axe. Anybody else need one while I’m out?
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Re: Dating in your late 20's [Re: christopera] 1
#26983205 - 10/13/20 11:21 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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I find axes usually come pre-sharpened. Now shovels, a new shovel often takes quite a bit of grinding to attain a proper sharp edge.
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